I think I've always had a clear advantage because I'm a: female, and b: have always been more responsible than my years would indicate. 
It also helps that my first bike was a GB250 and I was many years behind my friends in both experience and size-of-bike, so it was quite reasonable that I would always be the last to our destination.
But I had good friends, who always made sure everyone knew where we were going & where we'd meet up, and then they'd wait for everyone to arrive before heading off other places.
I've been on a couple of the Boyd Honda rides and usually find myself somewhere in the middle, riding on my own. 
I've ridden with other groups that aren't as considerate, and they only get the one chance - if they stuff it up on the "looking out for your riding partners" front, then I won't ride with them again.
I prefer to ride alone, but it's nice to meet up with new people and have someone to share a laugh with at the smoke/fuel/food stops for a change.
"Women & cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." Robert A. Heinlein
"Do not meddle in the affairs of cats, for they are subtle and will piss on your computer." Bruce Graham
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