Wanted: a serious relationship

**Disco Dan** · 3rd January 2008, 11:08

Originally Posted by Morcs

How about just going on www.nzdating.com ...

The New Zealand Favorite... http://tinyurl.com/2j7zvr

**KATWYN** · 3rd January 2008, 12:07

If you married for love with a 28 year age gap has it ever occured
you would be a long time widowed.....

NC · 3rd January 2008, 12:10

I can't get to grips why she'd find a man of that age sexy. At her age.

**Ixion** · 3rd January 2008, 12:40

Since Ms Sunhintin has found realtionships with older men to work for her in the past, there seems no reason for people to slag her off for preferring another.

Such relationships pose some difficulties for both parties, but she indicates that she is already aware of that.

It would therefore be far more productive for those who wish her well to provide some positive reinforcement and support to a fellow biker who is experiencing a painful time.

Those who do not wish her well should just piss off and vent their venom elsewhere. There are plenty of opportunities in the wide world for narrow minded bigotry, the biker community doesn't need or want it.

Good luck lass, and I hope it works out for you. 'To thine own self be true .' , and ignore those who can only cavil destructively.

**sunhuntin** · 3rd January 2008, 12:49

thank you ixion.

and not that its anyones business, i have had several offers and will be going out with one tomorrow.

**Trudes** · 3rd January 2008, 12:50

Originally Posted by Ixion

Since Ms Sunhintin has found realtionships with older men to work for her in the past, there seems no reason for people to slag her off for preferring another.

Such relationships pose some difficulties for both parties, but she indicates that she is already aware of that.

It would therefore be far more productive for those who wish her well to provide some positive reinforcement and support to a fellow biker who is experiencing a painful time.

Those who do not wish her well should just piss off and vent their venom elsewhere. There are plenty of opportunities in the wide world for narrow minded bigotry, the biker community doesn't need or want it.

Good luck lass, and I hope it works out for you. 'To thine own self be true .' , and ignore those who can only cavil destructively.

Too true, different strokes for different folks, everyone deserves to be loved, and several other clichés.
Happy hunting Sun, good luck.

**FilthyLuka** · 3rd January 2008, 13:19

Originally Posted by Ixion

Since Ms Sunhintin has found realtionships with older men to work for her in the past, there seems no reason for people to slag her off for preferring another.

Such relationships pose some difficulties for both parties, but she indicates that she is already aware of that.

It would therefore be far more productive for those who wish her well to provide some positive reinforcement and support to a fellow biker who is experiencing a painful time.

Those who do not wish her well should just piss off and vent their venom elsewhere. There are plenty of opportunities in the wide world for narrow minded bigotry, the biker community doesn't need or want it.

Good luck lass, and I hope it works out for you. 'To thine own self be true .' , and ignore those who can only cavil destructively.

fucken A, good man ixion

"you must spread some reputation before giving it to ixion again"

**mstriumph** · 3rd January 2008, 13:21

good luck Gal ...........

you wouldn't be the first to find a mate on here - prolly wouldn't be the last, either

........... there's sumthin REALLY bonding about bikes .....

**heyjoe** · 3rd January 2008, 13:22

Hi Sunhuntin,

Sorry to hear of your bust up. I suspect you are going through a period of needing to recover from the event and that will make you feel down. The painful thoughts stem from there. I would like to suggest to you to allow yourself time to recover and then look at a strategy for the future after that. Whatever that future holds can be shaped by your philosophy you determine. You are an adult who can make her own decisions. Your life counts right now. Do it for yourself. Don't bust your guts looking for a new guy to fill the void in a hurry. Let it evolve and it will happen. Whatever decisions you make - make them for yourself. Don't go looking for a bandaid. Just go out and enjoy yourself with friends etc and recover. From reading your comments in other threads you sound like a great person who has a steady sensible outlook on life. Perhaps that is why you have a leaning towards an older or mature guy? Take your time as there is no rush at your age and you know where we are if you need to chat. Good luck.

**ynot slow** · 3rd January 2008, 14:18

Originally Posted by sunhuntin

thank you ixion.

and not that its anyones business, i have had several offers and will be going out with one tomorrow.

Not our business at all,mind you you did post the thread starter up,but who cares if you find what you're looking for good on ya,and just putting it here might be helping with your mindset as well,a win win situation.Give it heaps,enjoy the good times as they come along.Lifes too short to worry about ex's.

**Edbear** · 3rd January 2008, 14:45

Originally Posted by sunhuntin

thank you ixion.

and not that its anyones business, i have had several offers and will be going out with one tomorrow.

Unfortunately I seem to have used up my quota of green for Ixion at the mo...

**KATWYN** · 3rd January 2008, 15:47

Well I guess it happens in hollywood all the time. At least ya know what you want.

**Grahameeboy** · 3rd January 2008, 17:35

Originally Posted by vixter

just turn lesbian!!

But would that deal with the age thing Missy V??

**woodybee** · 3rd January 2008, 18:18

Originally Posted by mstriumph

good luck Gal ...........

you wouldn't be the first to find a mate on here - prolly wouldn't be the last, either

........... there's sumthin REALLY bonding about bikes .....

Hey, dudess, there are good and bad in all of us, and you may find what you are looking for on this site, but get to know yourself, and do some things which make you laugh, get the friends who are daft and mad, to swarm around you, get out and about, try new stuff, but never look for love, or you get the wrong love looking right back at you. Expect the unexpected matio as all good times are just around the corner, admittedly some corners are ferking long ones. I have been singleish now for 2 years, and wouldnt have it any other way, I see someone a lot but he is my f..kbuddy, so that could work for you.......and dont bond with a pet, thats arrestable you know, !!!

You have a bike, so get your tent on the back, and take off on your own one randome weekend and go somewhere you havent been, absorb the atmosphere around you, when I woke up on my own in Milers flat over Christmas, I woke up to an orchestral sound of a zillion birds at dawn chorus, and it was exhilerating..................these are the types of things you must get and do, its fab.......get in touch with nature, but just dont take it home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And the most important lesson of all, is learn to love yourself, others will see that and love you too.....

Me, I'm still waiting for my knight in shining armour, but know he's out there, so not too concerned.......to be honest I dont even know what frigging country he may be in at the moment

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Have fun matio as these are the times you should be cherishing