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    Quote Originally Posted by Jim2 View Post
    It's interesting how they'd do that, but once the Honeymoon is over, they aren't in any way interested in putting out.
    Took a job you ended up hating, married the wrong woman, brought a bike without fairings... is there anything in your life you haven't fucked up Jim?

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    Everyone makes mistakes at times.

    However, if I were to make a mistake like this I wouldn't be able to live with the guilt of it.

    I'm not married of course but if I was, that would be the case.
    What you have in your heart will be revealed through what you have in your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManDownUnder View Post
    Dr Mira Kirshenbaum... claims most adulterers are good, kind people.


    Dr Mira Kirshenbaum deserves to:

    A. Be fucked up the arse without Vaseline by every man whose wife has ever spread her legs behind his back for some slimy desperate bastard, and

    B. Have her tits burned off with an oxy-acetylene torch by every woman whose husband has left her crying and alone in the night while he spouts bullshit and sneaks out to bang some dumbfuck self-obsessed whore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by enigma51 View Post
    I wonder what my wife would say if i send this to her?

    Any one have a spare room i can rent
    My wife thinks adulteries ok as long as its her doing it , if I done it I,d be singing castrato .

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    Quote Originally Posted by imdying View Post
    Took a job you ended up hating, married the wrong woman, brought a bike without fairings... is there anything in your life you haven't fucked up Jim?
    No. I haven't even been out to lunch yet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    A. Be fucked up the arse without Vaseline by every man whose wife has ever spread her legs behind his back for some slimy desperate bastard, and
    If I hold her down whilst you do that, does that make me an adulterer?

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    Quote Originally Posted by imdying View Post
    If I hold her down whilst you do that, does that make me an adulterer?
    Not if you get your wife's permission first. Do you think she'd mind much?

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    She'd probably want to help

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post


    Dr Mira Kirshenbaum deserves to:

    A. Be fucked up the arse without Vaseline by every man whose wife has ever spread her legs behind his back for some slimy desperate bastard, and

    B. Have her tits burned off with an oxy-acetylene torch by every woman whose husband has left her crying and alone in the night while he spouts bullshit and sneaks out to bang some dumbfuck self-obsessed whore.

    Y'know, somedays I reckon you'd be my vote for running this show. Today is one of those
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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post


    Dr Mira Kirshenbaum deserves to:

    A. Be fucked up the arse without Vaseline by every man whose wife has ever spread her legs behind his back for some slimy desperate bastard, and

    B. Have her tits burned off with an oxy-acetylene torch by every woman whose husband has left her crying and alone in the night while he spouts bullshit and sneaks out to bang some dumbfuck self-obsessed whore.

    Don't sugarcoat this, mate. Tell us how you really feel....

    One of the things nobody tells us when we marry, is that we have a responsibility to continue to be interesting and attractive to each other long after the wedding ceremony is over. If a couple are attracted to each other sufficiently to want to spend the rest of their lives together, the attractiveness shouldn't end when the rings are exchanged. I'm not talking about superficial beauty or looking like fashion models, I'm talking about maintaining/developing interesting hobbies and pursuits and activities both together and individually.

    I WANT my wife to like me, and I WANT her to be attracted to me. I WANT her to be happy, and I WANT the both of us to live a life that's as free of regrets as I can. How I talk to her, show her respect and conduct myself around her both publicly and privately will largely determine how successful I will be. Extra-marital affairs, whether disclosed or not, are like an extreme version of pornography - it's just like a cancer for relationships.

    (BTW, we've been married 25 years)

    my $0.02

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    Quote Originally Posted by 007XX View Post
    Oh C'mooooonnn...

    Subject A, female recounts in a breathy voice: "we were magically swept away in the heat of our passion and accidentally, without any control over our emotions, fell in bed together and our genitalias collided..."

    Give me a break!

    Life is not a porno version of Mills and Boons for cryin' out loud. Cheating means premeditation, full stop.
    Any self righteous hypocrite who declares having cheated without having consciously made the choice at one point or another is a filthy liar.

    You make the choice to flirt, you make the choice to kiss, and well...when things get South of the Bombays, there is nothing left to declare innocence, is there?

    And as far as justifying the act of cheating? Same thing: you have a choice to end your current relationship, no matter how painful or difficult, before you get into another one. Not making that choice is a coward's way of being...
    What she said!

    It is NEVER justifiable to cheat on a partner - I don't care how bad things get, or what the circumstances are. I am not going to tag that statement as "my humble opinion" - it's not humble and it is not opinion - it is FACT. If things are that bad, either try harder to fix them, or be courageous and end things honestly.

    However, (and this is my opinion) - it is vaguely justifiable to pay for sex if you're terribly frustrated - I don't know how a lot of men in otherwise good relationships cope when their 'other half' won't put out - it must be absolutely soul destroying. But I think the other half should be told beforehand - they can then decide whether they want to do something about their libido - it's all about personal responsibility, really.

    By the way, violence is never justified either - I would never cut, hit, or wound a partner for cheating - I would simply walk away. Karma would take care of the rest

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManDownUnder View Post

    Thoughts?
    Yes, why is it that threads on morality see the hypocrites out in full condemnation?
    Do you find it eases your guilt?


    Lets hear it from the hypocrites.


    Please note: This is NOT specifically aimed at MDU.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Stranger View Post
    Yes, why is it that threads on morality see the hypocrites out in full condemnation?
    The hypocrites being the people who believe adultery is wrong?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Stranger View Post
    Lets hear it from the hypocrites.
    OK, I'll start.

    Given that I've been the most outspoken in this thread to date, and I know you know some of my personal history, et cetera, I imagine that I must be amongst the group you're thinking of, unless you've grown awfully forgetful in your old age.



    Although, frankly, it's a bit rude of you to call me a hypocrite! If I'm misinterpreting you, I'll happily accept you stating that you were not doing so, of course.

    Anyway, I've both cheated and been cheated on in the past, and the lessons I took from that are what drive my current opinions on the matter.

    Big difference between that and hypocrisy.

    Certainly, if I wasn't absolutely convinced that I'd rather cut off my own arm than engage in any such actions again, I'd be a hypocrite, but I don't think that learning from one's mistakes and changing one's stance constitutes hypocrisy.

    Unfortunately for you, dude, knowing shit about people's personal lives often goes both ways...

    ... so, care to share some of your own insights here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Planna View Post
    By the way, violence is never justified either - I would never cut, hit, or wound a partner for cheating - I would simply walk away. Karma would take care of the rest
    Oh Pleeeaassse...just a little cut...not even a tiny one? Just on the Perineum, and maybe with a blunt knife...
    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf View Post
    Time to cut out the "holier/more enlightened than thou" bullshit and the "slut" comments and let people live honestly how they like providing they're not harming themselves or others in the process.

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