Flattered, but taken, and to start flirting (even jokingly) would be going against this thread wouldn't it?Originally Posted by Planna
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Flattered, but taken, and to start flirting (even jokingly) would be going against this thread wouldn't it?
Highway Biker
That's what "I DO" means in the marriage vowes to a woman.
"I DO, NOT DO SEX oral, anal, or otherwise." they use their man trap to hook you and then once they have you that's the end of it.
"May the motorcycle god's keep your tyres pumped"
"The shortest distance between any two points on a motorbike, is the long way round"
Forum whore
Spot on Max, well deserved bling sent
I will happily take the moral high ground on this issue along with the now reformed Jrandom.
I am proud to say I have not even once come close to cheating on a girlfriend or fiance (never been married). Have been cheated on but never strayed myself. Never have & never will. Why? Because that is about as low as you can go IMHO, not judging anyone just my personal view point on it. Walked out on the (what I thought at the time) was the love of my life because of it & I wont faulter, its an absolute, not negociable.
Relationships are precious (at least to me they are) and are (meant) to be built upon a foundation, a rock if you will. One of the break downs of current society I believe is a complete lack of understanding of this. The rate of marriage splits certainly confirms this. People are so fast to jump in the sack these days, the microwave generation isn't limited to youngsters, it's a sign of the times, its just a complete & utter headinistic approach. Too many people want it all and want it NOW!!! Well there is a price to pay. As the saying goes, you can do what ever you want, as long as you are prepared to pay the price.
A solid relationship takes time, care, patience, understanding & communication. Society is far too headinistic I believe & the moment we wake up to this is the moment many pressing social & personal issues will dissappear.
And thus ends the rant from ya uncle Boob
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Forum whore
Give it time, mate, you'll get there..
(We've only been married 30...)
You don't get to be an old dog without learning a few tricks.
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Hardcore Biker
Absolutely! Tis ok Coyote - unrequited love is kinda fun .... in a masochistic way ......Flattered, but taken, and to start flirting (even jokingly) would be going against this thread wouldn't it?
Easy Biker
As an aside I went to Sex and The City with Mrs merv a week ago and the very thing you are talking about here was portrayed in the characters of Miranda and Steve. Well she never put out for 6 months - crikey - so he strayed as you'd expect following his basic instinct.
In the end she learnt what she needed to do and got into it again - yippee!!
Anyway, I enjoyed the movie so would recommend it for a laugh.
Cheers
Merv
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Adultery is not right. This 'researcher' is looking for guilt abatement.
e mare libertas
Attempt at counter-putdown duly ignored, acknowledgement of having nothing to say duly accepted.
kiwibiker is full of love, an disrespect.
- mikey
Double shot!!
gawd, someone start a "fucking around WITH your partners' permission, and preferably WITH your partner" thread so we don't have to endure this bickering...
Not that people are gunna speak up there prolly
DB
"I am a licenced motorcycle instructor, I agree with dangerousbastard, no point in repeating what he said."
"read what Steve says. He's right."
"What Steve said pretty much summed it up."
"I did axactly as you said and it worked...!!"
"Wow, Great advise there DB."
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Rest In Peace
Oh Yummmmm...now, that is sexy!
I am always awazed at how many males don't know the fundamentals of their own anatomie. Especially since that particular area, stroked and fondled at the right time and in the right fashion is an extremely pleasurable skill to perform...or so I am told of course. Get your lady to try it out sometimes (if she doesn't already), much fun to be had.
I love your concise statement of fact.
Eeerrr...not so I am afraid. Maybe I should have been more in depth with my definition and stipulated that I was referring to the perineum skin...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perineum
Although this may come back to bite me on the arse, I feel it is on topic in this case...gawd, someone start a "fucking around WITH your partners' permission, and preferably WITH your partner" thread so we don't have to endure this bickering...
Not that people are gunna speak up there prolly
DB
http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/sh...ght=threesomes
http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/sh...ght=threesomes
One, two free, floor!
No worries mate. I personally find the concept of morality facinating, and the restrictive ability of most people to consider the fact it might be fluid...
...and that's only the first step toward actually getting our heads around it, next steps being walking in the shoes of others, and being able to see how two totally contrary viewpoints are both entirely valid even if diametrically opposing.
I saw this in the paper, figured it would draw a bit of fire and watch with genuine interest to see where different people are on the continuum.
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Easily wound up!!
While I wouldn't go throwing such labels at pepole I don't know, surely condeming others for making the same "mistakes" you have made yourself is hypocritical, or are you only condeming those that don't then feel as guilty about it as you now do?OK, I'll start.
Given that I've been the most outspoken in this thread to date, and I know you know some of my personal history, et cetera, I imagine that I must be amongst the group you're thinking of, unless you've grown awfully forgetful in your old age.
Although, frankly, it's a bit rude of you to call me a hypocrite! If I'm misinterpreting you, I'll happily accept you stating that you were not doing so, of course.
Anyway, I've both cheated and been cheated on in the past, and the lessons I took from that are what drive my current opinions on the matter.
Big difference between that and hypocrisy.
Certainly, if I wasn't absolutely convinced that I'd rather cut off my own arm than engage in any such actions again, I'd be a hypocrite, but I don't think that learning from one's mistakes and changing one's stance constitutes hypocrisy.
Unfortunately for you, dude, knowing shit about people's personal lives often goes both ways...
... so, care to share some of your own insights here?
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I like bikes
When you get married or make a commitment, its a real simple thing.
If (assuming you're not a low life scumbag without the least shred of common decency), when you're unhappy, you tell the other person whats happening, why you're unhappy, and what you'd like to change.
If they are willing to come to the party, fine and dandy.
If not, shake their hand, thank them for the good times, and leave.
Dont just let them believe alls well when you're out cheating it up
"Not one day that we are here on this earth has been promised to us, so make the most of every day as if it was your last, and every breath ,as if it were the same"
Forum whore
Isn't that at odds with the "till death do us part" bit?
That was one of those real simple commitments you refer to too you know.
Double shot!!
Why make such a commitment when you are so ready to walk away from it ? What was the whole point of the commitment to begin with ? It seems there were unstated conditions ?
Why do you think you can get what you want or you will impose some violent consequence ? (your threatened leaving - internalised violence - google)
The reality is more like, if you feel unhappy you should examine why and quit blaming and projecting it onto others.
Why the fuck and I typing this shit ?
DB
"I am a licenced motorcycle instructor, I agree with dangerousbastard, no point in repeating what he said."
"read what Steve says. He's right."
"What Steve said pretty much summed it up."
"I did axactly as you said and it worked...!!"
"Wow, Great advise there DB."
WTB: Hyosung bikes or going or not.
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