Is it only me?

**blackdog** · 15th March 2010, 12:07

Originally Posted by Ratti

Jeepers Stig... These guys are married...I have way to much respect for the Sisterhood to EVER go there

Won't name and shame as I am sure they wouldnt go there either. Its the sheer bloody arrogance of the sods to feel the need to cut off an assumed interest that does not exist.

Friggen tossers. mutter. mutter.

ah well, can't say i didn't try....would have been entertaining knowing though, and not being able to ride at mo i need all the entertainment i can get

**Genie** · 15th March 2010, 12:16

Originally Posted by Ratti

Hell Genie, i wish I was hot! reality check in the mirror tho says 'NOT" LOL. My friends dont care, they think I'm gorgeous cos of what and who I am.

I might find him attractive?? gag choke I was there to ride, not to pick him up....why would such a thought even cross his mind?

they are boys they always think all the women love them, they need it for their whole ego-trip-man-thing they on. Don't not go on hte ride because a man said something foolish....hell, everytime they open their mouths foolishness utters forth. OK, not all the time but lots, read above post, it's all about cleavage.

Friend of mine in sales, her husband remarked one morning he knew she was out to get her quoto up, she wore a cleavage showing top, it works, they dumbfounded by bobbies!!!!

**Her_C4** · 15th March 2010, 12:41

Originally Posted by Genie

they dumbfounded by bobbies!!!!

Yeah, I have heard that boobs work well too.....

**steve_t** · 15th March 2010, 12:49

Originally Posted by Genie

... I have always believed their reasoning behind mentioning the wife and kids is not so much to put me off but more to remind themselves that they are married as they attracted to me..

Ratti, this is exactly what I thought was happening when reading your OP. Regardless of what you might think, any chick on a bike is automatically hot, esp if in leathers

**Stirts** · 15th March 2010, 12:53

Originally Posted by steve_t

Ratti, this is exactly what I thought was happening when reading your OP. Regardless of what you might think, any chick on a bike is automatically hot, esp if in leathers

Yeah that sweatie arse crack we get draws them in like moths to a flame

**Genestho** · 15th March 2010, 13:23

Originally Posted by Her_B4

Yeah, I have heard that boobs work well too.....

Wonder if that works in reverse too

as in.... "moobs"?

.......DMNTD???

**Edbear** · 15th March 2010, 13:32

Originally Posted by T.G.W

Wonder if that works in reverse too

as in "moobs"?

Not in my experience...

With 3 females in the family, wife and two daughters, I can categorically say that moobies are a turn-off.

I guess I really appreciate that she wuvs me for lots of other reasons...

Sad fact is, men tend to need lots of reassurance and there are some who don't think before they speak.

**allycatz** · 15th March 2010, 13:37

Originally Posted by T.G.W

Wonder if that works in reverse too

as in "moobs"?

.......DMNTD???

'Moobs'?? is something pillions can hang on to?

**Trudes** · 15th March 2010, 13:45

Is that it is?? I always just thought that guys who talk about their wives and kids a lot just thought their wives and kids were great (and I in turn just thought they had nothing better to talk about than their wives and kids.... like I'm supposed to be remotely interested, unless I asked of course). But then again, I'm totally shallow and don't do well with "chit chat" and bullshit.... the weather? Well have a look around, that's how the weather is FFS.

**Gone Burger** · 15th March 2010, 14:17

Hey Ratti.

Sorry to hear about this. I truely hope it doesn't put you off the group rides, as I was hoping to see you at tomorrow ride out to the coast. It's a lovely ride, and a pretty supportive group.

It seems that a few men may mean this in different ways. I know that a lot of guys I have met on these ride have mentioned their parters and families, but in a very loving way, and how much they appreciate the fact that they let them have some time out to go riding.

Don't let the comment get you down. The rides should be about the riding - that's exactly why I go as I just can't seem to get enough of being on my bike. And I get a real buzz riding in a group of people, who are there for the same reason.

Pleased you had a good ride on Sunday - sorry I couldn't make it, will try harder next time.

So, see you tomorrow hopefully? Me and Christy will be there to talk to and keep you saine

**saxet** · 15th March 2010, 14:28

Maybe youré one of those outgoin friendly types that can get mistaken for for having an 'agenda' when you don't.
Does sound odd tho. Not knowing the context of the conversation maks it harder to understand.
Not all guys are dickheads, or women. Whatever the female term is.

Just keep on riding and enjoy that... don't sweat the B.S.

**BiK3RChiK** · 15th March 2010, 16:01

What you need is some real good comeback lines to hit Mr Ego with then turn around and walk away. IME, these 'men' are best ignored or just laugh at them along with a clever quip...

One thing is for sure, don't let it get to you! It's not about you, but more about him, I reckon.

Chin up, and keep riding. Oh, and find some better riding buddies.

**Mom** · 15th March 2010, 16:30

Strong, single females are attractive. Makes no difference what they look like they exude a charisma that is hard to not be drawn towards. Gauche springs to mind if a bloke/s on a ride felt the need to say what was said.

Chin up and knock them out sister!