Men!

**Genie** · 25th March 2010, 16:07

Not what you'd think...

Last week I'm at school picking up my children and upon returning to my car there's this handsome, tall, well built Maori gentlemen waiting by my car. What a lovely smile he had. He proceeds to apoligise to me for he had reversed into my car. Oh dear, it's a car, it's fine insurance!! Yes, he accepts it was his fault, he gives me all his details and as he is driving a 2009 Toyota BIGTHING, I'm like sweet, thanks for smashing my car. have a nice day.

Come home, phone the insurance, all sweet, no problems!!!

6 days later I have not heard from my insurance company about getting my car fixed so I phone them. They lie, someone rang my cell phone yesterday, ahh no they didn't, still I check call history and no, no calls. Oh he says. I don't care, just what's the story, can I take my car in to get fixed. NO, hello, why not?

Well, it seems lovely handsome man with nice smile is being rude and obnoxious to my insurance people and now is not answering his phone at all. They are trying to sort something through his insurance but he hasn't even put his claim. I'm confused, like the rear of his vehicle was smashed up quite badly, indicators and lights are gone so surely he would need to get it fixed??? Maybe he hasn't paid his insurance, who knows, but I'm pissed off as I dont' mind my car having supermarket carpark dents but bid smashes in the front guard is so not pretty......

bloody bastard with his smile, i'd slap that smile right off his face about now!!!!

**sidecar bob** · 25th March 2010, 16:13

What can i say. He was brown & you didnt see that coming?

**cowboyz** · 25th March 2010, 16:15

To start with.. Can I just say... FUCKING insurance companies!!!!

Secondly... Why are they just not fixing it and argueing about the bill later? Its still gonna get fixed. In a simplier world you would pay insurance to take all the hassle out of things like this.. Here, fix my car.. its this guys fault.. heres his name and number.. go talk to him about the bill.. Not my problem.. thats what I pay you for!

Oh.. and thirdly... Fucking insurance companies!!!!

**Genie** · 25th March 2010, 16:15

that's just racist....and he drove this way flash vehicle and was so respectful, suit an' all.

and no I didn't see it coming....to damn trusting and naive (so I've been told)

**dogsnbikes** · 25th March 2010, 16:19

Gutted hope you get it resolve sooner the better,it only took my insurance company 30minutes to approve my claim when a lady backed into the bike,now the machanic is waiting on a bloody seal so my bike can be fixed

bloody brits

**cindymay** · 25th March 2010, 16:21

Lesson for all here from my experience. When someone damages your car or bike, always clinically collect all information and work on the basis that it will turn to shit later. This applies no matter how rude or polite the male or female is at the time. If any doubt and if you are sure you are in the right call the cops. I had an incident where this young guy ran into me, accepted blame at the the scene and the cops turned up. They charged him with careless driving which was a blessing as weeks later his insurance company called me and said he had lodged a claim and it was my fault. In a state of breathlessness and disbelief I mentioned the cops were at the scene and were to prosecute him. The last I heard was the insurance woman saying - we will get the report from the Police. That was sorted.

**Skyryder** · 25th March 2010, 16:21

I have come to the conclusion some time back that if some one apologies says sorry etc with smile on their face its there for one reason only.

They see you as a sucker and can not hold back their contempt for you. That is what the smile is all about..............contempt.

Hope things get sorted Genie

Skyryder

**Genie** · 25th March 2010, 16:21

well, mine have approved it but need him to accept liability or I have to pay the excess.....well fuck. Wonder if I should ring him?????

**sidecar bob** · 25th March 2010, 16:22

Originally Posted by Genie

that's just racist....and he drove this way flash vehicle and was so respectful, suit an' all.

and no I didn't see it coming....to damn trusting and naive (so I've been told)

It may well be, but its a fact. I lost all respect when a brown "client" threatened to phone my wife to tell her i was having an affair if i didnt fix her car for free. I was single at the time so it didnt really stack up. Anyway & told her to go fuck herself & made sure she got a frightening call from a mate in the CIB as well.

**Str8 Jacket** · 25th March 2010, 16:24

Originally Posted by Genie

that's just racist....and he drove this way flash vehicle and was so respectful, suit an' all.

People are never what they appear to be. Was he wearing a "I love Brian Tamaki" ring?

**Genie** · 25th March 2010, 16:25

Originally Posted by Skyryder

I have come to the conclusion some time back that if some one apologies says sorry etc with smile on their face its there for one reason only.

They see you as a sucker and can not hold back their contempt for you. That is what the smile is all about..............contempt.

Hope things get sorted Genie

Skyryder

That's a horrible thought but you're probably right, and here was me seeing only the good in people. fuck, think I may just have to readjust my way of seeing the world and those than inhibit it!!

NO, sorry, I can't, I will continue to believe that we humans can be decent respectful people....god I really do live in a bottle!

**cindymay** · 25th March 2010, 16:25

Originally Posted by Skyryder

I have come to the conclusion some time back that if some one apologies says sorry etc with smile on their face its there for one reason only.

They see you as a sucker and can not hold back their contempt for you. That is what the smile is all about..............contempt.
Skyryder

Spot on - once you start collecting all their details (and size of their dick) they stop smiling.

**Pussy** · 25th March 2010, 16:28

Originally Posted by Skyryder

I have come to the conclusion some time back that if some one apologies says sorry etc with smile on their face its there for one reason only.

They see you as a sucker and can not hold back their contempt for you. That is what the smile is all about..............contempt.

Hope things get sorted Genie

Skyryder

A bit like William Bell's smile?