
Originally Posted by
mstriumph
To answer the point I think you are heading towards (I just know you'll stop me if I'm wrong

), Yes - I'm aware there are 'career' welfare recipients - those who don't equate self-sufficiency with self-respect, those who no amount of encouragement and assistance will help. You can't save everyone - my concern is with those with something to contribute who can be assisted to do just that.
There's the crux of the matter right there: their life's outcomes are more than any other factor the result of decisions they made. They made. It matters not a jot what their reasons for those decisions were, the consequences are almost always foreseeable and the consequences don't care why.
I offer advice to any of them that will listen too. I'm good like that. Sometimes more. Occasionally a lot more. But when they continue to make poor decisions, as they usually do, with the same perfectly predictable outcomes then I stop feeling sorry for them and start feeling angry.
Go soothingly on the grease mud, as there lurks the skid demon
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