
Originally Posted by
PrincessBandit
A lot of it comes down to two factors - one, the perception of public behaviour and expectations and two, the motive behind the complaint.
Unfortunately being touchy-feely (his wife's phrase, which she was happy about) is not a highly desirable trait in leaders, especially when combined with a kickback attitude. Complaints can also be made from a variety of motives and it only takes one person to take offense and decide to "do something about it". When you think about 'how many complaints does it take before something becomes serious' I guess there are a number of issues where the answer is 'only one'. Whether this is one of them, I don't know. Lots of women take stuff in good humour, others are easily offended (and if you combine that with the prospect of financial gain or public embarrassment for the alleged perpetrator) then ..............it's a damned difficult road for a bloke to tread.
Having said that, the higher up the totem pole you are the more scrupulous your behaviour probably needs to be.
Yes. Exactly. And often men who harras do not sexually harras all women - just a select few. That means the it does not take multiple offences with different women to make a case ..
Maybe she just did not feel comfortable working around him, or for him - and decided to take action. Who knows. But generally, if she was feeling sexually harrased, then that is important asnd needs to be dealt with.
Yes, he should have resigned - maybe he could have waited out the results of the investigation, maybe he could have worked out something with the complainant. He's taken the best option and resigned.

Originally Posted by
Mike.Gayner
We don;t know ANY of the facts here. About the only thing we do know is that someone considered his conduct bad enough that she made a complaint and saw it right through to his resignation, and that someone saw fit to have him resign.
If his conduct really was as innocent as he claims, why hasn't he released the details of the complaint? He's entirely within his right to do so, but refuses to.
Yes. We don;t know enough to make a goosd judgement, just that there was a complaint (which must be taken seriously and investigated) and he has resigned.

Originally Posted by
HenryDorsetCase
Note to self. Stop calling my young female legal exec "Sweetcheeks"
Good idea. If she goes the next one might complain ..
"So if you meet me, have some sympathy, have some courtesy, have some taste ..."
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