
@trying to gain followers. You're funny. You read posts how you read them. I've told you there was no combative intent my post, yet you choose to believe otherwise. See the problem there? If you do, then yeah, we might actually be able to have a discussion should you genuinely wish more information. If you don't, then why the fuck would I bother with you?
Thanks. I appreciate your ill-founded sentiment.
Nature v's Nurture... The Dunedin Experiment had some interesting things to say about that. As do many psychologists, anthropologists etc... i.e. there is no such thing as human nature, because everything is learned and behaviour is triggered by the environment under which a human being is nurtured. It's not my opinion, it's documented fact. We have no nature. We live, we die, every country in the world has different cultures/religions/rules that make us different to someone in another country. That's not nature, that's monkey see monkey do.
As such, I'm more than open minded about such things, but when one comes across someone such as yourself that is so deeply entrenched (dramatic phrase, don't spill your coffee) in an opposing view, things get icky. Icky to the point where I'll be told that I'm meaning this or saying that when I mean something different, or indeed that I'm being closed minded or combative and living in a fantasy land that has no bearing on reality whatsoever despite the mounting evidence to the contrary. It ain't my fault that you guys choose not to explore the things I state and would rather simply state that I'm being this or that and ignoring this and that because you guys think so, as that is what your preferred position at that given point in time is. Calling me closed does you no favours. However, I actually enjoy many of your posts as you seem to be able to ask a question and accept the answer given as an actual answer. That you deny that answer as invalid is entirely up to you. I cannot and will never try to convince you otherwise. I shall put forwards logical, reasonable and common sense points and then guess what? You get to make your own mind up. If a post sounds angry, then go, make a cup or tea, and come back and read it again once you've calmed down... coz you someone may be trolling you using language specifically posted to highlight just how stupid readers who don't actually want to learn anything coz the person might seem angry etc... The last person who apologised to me for their emotive rant was met with the response "It's ok, I listened to what you said not how you said it.". Some people need to do some serious growing up if they think that they're open minded and fold when confronted with what looks like conflict or a combative post... but no, they'd rather spin in the spin because that's what they came here to do. All entirely your choice and absolutely nothing to do with me other than the environment my words create. Le sigh.
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