Couples separating - UPDATE

**007XX** · 13th September 2007, 21:58

What mstriumph said...

It's a long road, but you'll be ok.

all the best Young1!

**young1** · 13th September 2007, 22:03

Originally Posted by mstriumph

walk it thru in your head
think what you will do to keep control of yourself
it sounds crazy but a little 'rehearsal' can save a whole lot of grief when the situation eventually DOES eventuate.

When my ex wife quit her last job we sat on the deck and rehearsed how she would tell her boss (she didnt want to get emotional) when she told me she was leaving it sure sounded rehearsed (now who would she rehearse that with I wonder!)

**merv** · 13th September 2007, 22:04

Did you know this dude she's with now?

**young1** · 13th September 2007, 22:07

Originally Posted by merv

Did you know this dude she's with now?

Milton someone works off shore in the oil industry, that is all I know (and want to know)

**merv** · 13th September 2007, 22:10

OK so certainly not one of your mates.

**MyGSXF:Me** · 13th September 2007, 22:13

Originally Posted by young1

I am not looking forward to the day I see her with that prick downtown!!! or worse on a ride somewhere!

Just smile a big smile.. & keep on walking/riding!!!!!!!

**young1** · 13th September 2007, 22:17

Originally Posted by MyGSXF

Just smile a big smile.. & keep on walking/riding!!!!!!!

It will be hard, but yes I will (dont worry I am not a violent man!)

**Coaster** · 14th September 2007, 00:27

Originally Posted by young1

Son told me today that my ex wife (first time I have said that) came into the house today to get some of her clothes and she also took her riding gear!!! Helmet, brand new boots and pants and a borrowed jacket.

That prick she is with better not be a biker (if so I bet he rides a Honda!!)

How did she get into the house? Change your locks otherwise she could keep coming back and taking stuff!!

Also some of us actually like Honda riders and riding Honda's

**Mrs Busa Pete** · 14th September 2007, 07:04

Originally Posted by Coaster

How did she get into the house? Change your locks otherwise she could keep coming back and taking stuff!!...

With coaster on this i would get this done quickly.

**young1** · 14th September 2007, 07:07

Originally Posted by Coaster

How did she get into the house? Change your locks otherwise she could keep coming back and taking stuff!!

Also some of us actually like Honda riders and riding Honda's

Yep i have the keys and remotes now.

Actually I like Hondas to but had to pick on someone!

**Edbear** · 14th September 2007, 07:07

Originally Posted by Coaster

Also some of us actually like Honda riders and riding Honda's

Especially when the "rider" is a blonde and she's snuggling down into the heated leather seat beside you and saying how nice it feels...

(Oh, do you mean bikes...?)

**Grahameeboy** · 14th September 2007, 07:18

Don't let her new relationship get to you matey....that is what she wants and to be fair you don't know what she has been telling him to persuade him to have a relationship with her.

A year after Nats was diagnosed, my ex had an affair with her Boss. With all the stuff with Nats diagnosis we had a lot on our plate and when she told me she did not love me that was the first I knew there was a problem........she was on anti-depressants as well.

I took the view that she had betrayed not only me but Nats as Nats needed 2 parents together.

She told me too leave, I said no as I could not afford to live somewhere and have shared custody. Slept on sofa for 6 weeks and she gave up and moved out...........I am still not popular 2 years and I don't worry about it. That's her problem and she has told her new partner lies about how we broke up.....not my problem.

In time you will realise that you are better off without her. She was not your friend if she could not tell you how she felt.

Take time out for yourself and things will work out for you.