Holding a grudge

**Macktheknife** · 22nd February 2007, 09:12

Where is the option for under 30 seconds?!
Why stress about it, is my response. I judge people only on what I see when I meet them, anything else is likely to be BS anyway.
But piss off six pack I still hate you lol

**Lissa** · 22nd February 2007, 09:12

I think you are super neat SPB and I'm not just saying that because you repped me either

(yes I am)

On line grudges are stupid. Just like texting anything written down, either a smart comment or whatever can be taken the wrong way... or not the way it was intended. Lifes to short to worry about stuff like that. KB is pretty special in that, the people who post you either know them personally or will meet them at some stage anyway... and can either make up, have a hug or smack their ass.

But if someone online really gets up your nose, you can just ignore them anyway.... no biggy.

**ManDownUnder** · 22nd February 2007, 09:23

Depends on the grudge... any basis to it or is it there because the's just enough truth to piss you off...

Forgive and forget's good

**Fatjim** · 22nd February 2007, 12:40

I don't think I've written, or read a comment directed at me yet that couldn't be gotten over pretty quick from. But everybody has a nerve that doesn't like being touched.

I could guess at a few of of the members here weakspots so I don't go there.

Common themes are offspring, riding style, sexual preference and personal appearance. All of which I'm particularly sensitive about myself.

**mstriumph** · 22nd February 2007, 12:53

there have been people here who's projected persona i haven't liked much and have been wary of ........ suspect that's true for everyone

and i have been known to take part in a heated exchange or two ...... ditto ditto ditto

but grudge? hardly!

c'mon ........ it's all part of life's rich tapestry, n'est pas?

**Squeak the Rat** · 22nd February 2007, 13:00

I learnt late in life that you can't try to please every one, and for every one person who likes you there is one who doesn't. I don't hold grudges, but equally there are some people i don't choose to talk to or associate with.

I operate a sort of points system. If i don't know you you start at 50. Do something positive you get points, do something negative you lose points. If you hit zero then you're off the radar unless you really do something good, conversely if you hit 100 your a mate and it's harder to go down the scale for too long.

(I don't actually have points stored in my head, that's just trying to illustrate my thinking).

**DEATH_INC.** · 22nd February 2007, 13:01

Piss off, I hold a grudge forever.....or at least 'till the first beer.....

**idleidolidyll** · 22nd February 2007, 14:02

don't get mad

get even

**jrandom** · 22nd February 2007, 14:49

SPB, you bastard, one day I'm going to kill you and dance about on your grave singing hallelujah.

If you're lucky.

**Maha** · 22nd February 2007, 14:55

ArcherWC, BarBender, bugjuice, busa pete, DEATH_INC., DMNTD, Fish, HDTboy, idleidolidyll, Jonny Rotten, kadams, Kornholio, Macktheknife, ManDownUnder, N4CR, SPman

Just some of the 'ahem' votes....SPB is sooooooooo loved....

**idleidolidyll** · 22nd February 2007, 15:04

Originally Posted by maha man

ArcherWC, BarBender, bugjuice, busa pete, DEATH_INC., DMNTD, Fish, HDTboy, idleidolidyll, Jonny Rotten, kadams, Kornholio, Macktheknife, ManDownUnder, N4CR, SPman

Just some of the 'ahem' votes....SPB is sooooooooo loved....

an i dont even know the man

**Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)** · 22nd February 2007, 15:13

Originally Posted by chanceyy

from an arguement online ????

gawd laffing I never get pissy about it, cause its all trash talk anyhow ...takes quite a lot to get my blood boiling & its easy to remember this is cyberworld ppl are always hiding behind a screen typing shit that makes them appear one way & reality is just so different ...

Not sure why ppl feel the need to be something they are not online but hey each to their own fantasy/dream ... right off to my reality .. work !!

Not just online Chancey - happens in real life.

**Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)** · 22nd February 2007, 15:21

Agree with Jim2. I have no control over how someone will take what I have written - it's their perception only, and frankly its none of my business either - I don't sweat the small stuff. Better things to do in my life.

I stopped holding grudges years ago - I enjoy peace and serenity - and holding a grudge only hurts me - no-one else. If I am in the wrong, I have no problem apologising - don't enjoy "atmospheres" of the negative variety. It is amazing how a simple sincere sorry FACE TO FACE can heal so much.