Sexual question

[trump-lady]

Ok I dunno where to put this but its directed at females. Me and a couple of my friends were talking in the weekend over some drinks, as you do we started talking about sex. The ages ran from 19 to 36. Anyways many of the 30 and overs said they were having a sexual revival and found themselves thinking of sex ALL THE TIME and no longer (many are single) looking for partners just one night flings. I was laughing bacause I find my self looking at men and just wondering hmmm wonder what he would be like and I have never been like that before. (Im 31) I dont wanna date em, I dont even wanna talk to them I just wanna see. God is that what men are like 24-7!

Is this an over 30 thing? Even if your in a relationship, kids etc does this happen to you, or am I and do I just hang out with freaks!

We came up with this in general of course

Teens to 20s. You do it cause ur spose to and prob for all the wrong reasons.
25 to 30 you actually like it, know what you want and are not scared to ask any more and try to get yours before he gets his
30s your just over the sex is for love and you just wanna bone and get off cause now u know how and are totally selfish and for once you finish first and fall asleep snoring. You also hope hes not there when you wake up.
40s.....there were none so I dunno.
Tell me your ideas....

[Number One]

Hmmm I have also been wondering this myself as my 'appetite and kinky mindedness' has certainly 'increased'...I just turned 30 in October and funnily enough while I have always 'liked and enjoyed it' I have never felt quite so 'up for it' as I seem to in the last couple of months.

Having babies certainly dampens things for a while - my boy is now four so I wonder if it isn't a little about I finally have caught up on sleep enough to have the energy to be interested or maybe it is my body clock asking for more bairnes...:crazy: Either way it's lotsa fun and I seem to be totally over the - it has to be about the love...i know we love each other now lets just
GIT IT ON!!! In saying all this btw I have never been the one night stand girl - I don't just root, there has to be a connection for me to be remotely interested in letting someone in my knickers. Right I have bared enufff...back to pretending to get some work done :clap:

[nadroj]

Latest category seems to be 'friends with benefits'.

[trump-lady]

lets just
GIT IT ON!!! In saying all this btw I have never been the one night stand girl - I don't just root, there has to be a connection for me to be remotely interested in letting someone in my knickers. Right I have bared enufff...back to pretending to get some work done :clap:

Agreed. Im not either never have been...... but I think about it alot as of late and thinking just pops into my head from nowhere and out of the aprox 10 single women (2 of the over 30) took home and I presumed bonked guys under the age of 25....haha
These are smart very attractive educated women I have known for years and never seen them this way.

ok so Im quite a normal over 30 year old......

[trump-lady]

Latest category seems to be 'friends with benefits'.

Yes exactly. When your under 30 you hate that concept but it looks like over 30 thats how you want it.....
If your not in a relationship of course.
Even if you are you STILL think about it

[99TLS]

do they want phone # ? :banana: :wari:

[jrandom]

It's definitely an over-30 thing.

All the women around that age that I've dated and/or shagged have been randy as anything. The young women (late teens, early 20s, etc) are generally a lot more frigid. They may claim to like and/or want sex, but when it comes down to it you can tell that they're really not all about it.

During the course of my one long-term relationship I noticed the woman in question develop a huge additional amount of sexual awareness and desire between 17 and 27.

Something to do with hormones, probably. The girl plumbing just seems to work better once it gets past a certain age. Beats me why. Probably all in the mind.

Women are weird.

:crazy:

[scumdog]

The scary thing is: It goes on until at least 50+...or so I've been told.:shutup:

Maybe because by then it's purely for FUN.. no baby thing to think about/worry about??

[Mom]

Yeah I reckon it only really kicks in at 40 myself....<_<

[trump-lady]

The scary thing is: It goes on until at least 50+...or so I've been told.:shutup

LOL SCARED
AND THEN MOM ADDS IT GETS WORSE AT 40
I MIGHT BE A RAPIST BY THEN WITH A BAND OF THUG WOMEN FRIENDS TO HOLD DOWN THOSE 25 YEAR OLDS WITH ABS.......:gob:

WHAT DOES MAHA HAVE TO SAY HEHEHEHEHE

[nodrog]

sounds like you hang out with some right slappers :laugh:

[enigma51]

I have theory as the ladies get older and the pirkie bits are not so perky they realize use it or loose it much the same idea for the blokes it only starts at birth for them ....... a 30 year head start

[007XX]

For once I'm in two minds wether to post or not in a thread about sex...:blink:

*I think I just heard Hitcher fall off his chair*

[trump-lady]

Disagree cause Im much more secure with my bits even though they were 100 percent better when I was younger. Im not saying "doing it" Im saying think about sex more when your over 30. Even if your in a relationship....think does not mean do. Shit I think about robbing a bank and winning lotto. It never happens though......

[jrandom]

Maybe because by then it's purely for FUN.. no baby thing to think about/worry about??

I wouldn't know about that from the woman's side of things.

Vasectomies, however, are fookin awesome.

:2thumbsup

[enigma51]

Disagree cause Im much more secure with my bits even though they were 100 percent better when I was younger. Im not saying "doing it" Im saying think about sex more when your over 30. Even if your in a relationship....think does not mean do. Shit I think about robbing a bank and winning lotto. It never happens though......


Aaaaa now you have touched on I think the true reason ........... confidence!

[trump-lady]

Im asking a very straight forward question to the WOMEN. Have you found that as your age increases especially after 30 that you find yourself thinking about sex more often and feel you are having a sexual revival. Simple.

[WarlockNZ]

Where's Disco ????

LOL

[Her_C4]

For once I'm in two minds wether to post or not in a thread about sex...:blink:

*I think I just heard Hitcher fall off his chair*

I think the noise you heard was us ALL falling off our chairs in unison!:rofl::bleh:

[u4ea]

mid 30's here and definatly not as inhibited!:rolleyes:Have turned down the one night stand male slappers :spanking:as I'm no "good time gal"things going a bit south and can't get away with it the same :cool:Now I just need to find a freind with benefits "sex on tap" :devil2: who's good with a tool kit , isn't scared of a lawn mower and did I mention sex on tap????

[Toaster]

It's definitely an over-30 thing.

....

The girl plumbing just seems to work better once it gets past a certain age. Beats me why. Probably all in the mind.

Women are weird.

:crazy:

Agreed.

Maybe its like machinery and you have to wear it in?:eek:

Yep.

[trump-lady]

sounds like you hang out with some right slappers :laugh:

I dont think that if your 35 attractive, have secured your career and been to school most of your life to get your masters degree and decide to get laid by something very beautiful (and he was) means your a slapper.

Besides I dont care about people sexual escapades, I dont judge my friends by them. I judge them by their friendship. As long as they stay the fuck away from my man :)

[007XX]

Im asking a very straight forward question to the WOMEN. Have you found that as your age increases especially after 30 that you find yourself thinking about sex more often and feel you are having a sexual revival. Simple.

Ok, since you are asking so nicely and the boys are being prats (for a change :p), I will put in my 0.002c worth:

I am no nymphomaniac, but have always thought about and practiced sex on a very regular basis. I probably think about sex more often than most women I know (maybe even guys), or probably more often than they would like to admit to.

I am comfortable with my body, my sexuality, and it has always been the case.

However, it has become even better in the last 2 to 3 years. I'll turn 32 in March, and I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it, or simply with the fact that 007XY and I are very compatible in that way.

I have never really been one for one night stands (although one a few years back), but that was simply because of certain trust issues I have.

If it gets any better coming closer to 40, I might have to start stocking up on vitamins for my poor darling :laugh:

[enigma51]

Im asking a very straight forward question to the WOMEN. Have you found that as your age increases especially after 30 that you find yourself thinking about sex more often and feel you are having a sexual revival. Simple.

You have to ask boomer then but he is more a girl than a women :girlfight:

[FilthyLuka]

Vasectomies

you just hurt my nuts with text... are you happy?

[Maha]

Where's Disco ????

LOL


Hes tightly holding a box of tissues at a guess.....

[trump-lady]

However, it has become even better in the last 2 to 3 years. I'll turn 32 in March, and I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it, or simply with the fact that 007XY and I are very compatible in that way.

I have never really been one for one night stands (although one a few years back), but that was simply because of certain trust issues I have.

If it gets any better coming closer to 40, I might have to start stocking up on vitamins for my poor darling :laugh:

Great answer and think me and my friends were right. Im not abnormal and this is something very real that for some reason I have never heard discussed before.

WOMEN GET EXTRA HORNY OVER 30

I am concerned though if what mum says is true......... lol

[007XX]

Great answer and think me and my friends were right. Im not abnormal and this is something very real that for some reason I have never heard discussed before.

WOMEN GET EXTRA HORNY OVER 30

I am concerned though if what mum says is true......... lol

Thanks.

I had heard about it as a rumour. I wouldn't worry about it. Heck, you're healthy if you enjoy sex, even if it is on a daily basis. Doesn't make you abnormal in any way, even if society has been giving everyone that impression for generations.

Embrace it, have fun discovering...but I don't need to say the word "safely" of course. The stats on STDs are terrifying these days.

[Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)]

Gotta agree with Mom - jesus I always hoped my sex drive would lessen however the more mature I've got the worse - I need the opposite of viagra.

And what is wrong with a confident, sensual woman going out and getting exactly what she wants. Absolutely bloody nothing. The wimps can cower in their corner and go without. I can easily do sex with out the love bullshit. I was told the other day I was a rarity. Good. Cos if I had to wait until I "loved" a man (finding one that could actually match me would be a miracle) then I may as well enter a convent.

I don't consider myself promiscuous, or a slapper and I know I am not. I enjoy sex plain and simple.
Think I better put both feet back in my mouth now. LOL

[MotoKuzzi]

Away from the original question I know. But I look around and see 50+ yr olds doing it more often and enjoying it, than 20-30 year old's stressed out, bringing up families and holding down 2 jobs, trying to pay off mortgages.

[BIGBOSSMAN]

Ha ha - popular thread eh (17 members viewing)!

I've noticed my partner becoming more experimental of late - she's knocking on the door of 30, I'd happily accommodate an upsurge in sexual activity.
Any time, anywhere :sweatdrop

[007XX]

Away from the original question I know. But I look around and see 50+ yr olds doing it more often and enjoying it, than 20-30 year old's stressed out, bringing up families and holding down 2 jobs, trying to pay off mortgages.

Stress is definitely a factor in a lower libido.

Except when you see sex as a stress release, then it's all good!! :2thumbsup

Mental Trousers should post on her...C'mon we knwo you want to!!!

Or are you afraid you'll get too much green stuff??? :bleh:

[SpeedyGirl]

Im asking a very straight forward question to the WOMEN. Have you found that as your age increases especially after 30 that you find yourself thinking about sex more often and feel you are having a sexual revival. Simple.

BRING IT ON!!! I am loving my 30's and have to say we women are hitting our prime about then. I had this conversation last week and we came to the conclusion that we are Confident, Know what we want, not worried about what people think of what we do and love being us in the body we have. Thats a package that attracts men (too many for me to know what to do with :rofl:) and hey, if you love your inner self then you are lethal!

Like i said 'Bring it on' its life and we only have 1 shot at having fun! Make the most of it :woohoo:

[jrandom]

you just hurt my nuts with text... are you happy?

Yes, I'm happy.

Believe me, the couple of weeks of sore nuts are well worth the years of happily unobstructed intercourse.

(Only to be safely engaged in post-STD-testing in stable exclusive relationships, of course.)

[trump-lady]

No my sexuality has been fine....what has been concerning me is the perverted things that jump into my head as of late and apparently Im not alone. I like sex always have and like you thought about it prob more than most women I know until I meet these over 30s. My thing is I will be driving see a dude and think hmmm wonder what hed be like, wouldnt mind a bit of that for 5 mins.....then I think WTF was that? Or even a guys voice on the phone and Ill be on a tangent about what his body would be like lol. Im an old randy woman. I have a partner whos 25 full of energy and pleases me but.......

Its the thoughts mannnnn the thoughts and the little voices...... lol

[jrandom]

love being us in the body we have...

I don't think I've met you, but I've never heard a woman say this who wasn't unhealthily overweight.

:laugh:

Mmm, pies...

[oldrider]

Great answer and think me and my friends were right. Im not abnormal and this is something very real that for some reason I have never heard discussed before.

WOMEN GET EXTRA HORNY OVER 30

I am concerned though if what mum says is true......... lol

Pip and I have noticed our sex life is beginning to falter lately, damn it we are down to one a day now! :blip:

I asked my grandad who was 90 at the time, when does sex run out and he told me to go ask an old fellah! :doh:

Stop worrying about it and get on with it, cause it really only stops when you are dead!

I am determined to have a go at changing that too when my time comes! :niceone: Cheers John.

[MotoKuzzi]

Stress is definitely a factor in a lower libido.

Except when you see sex as a stress release, then it's all good!! :2thumbsup

Mental Trousers should post on her...C'mon we knwo you want to!!!

Or are you afraid you'll get too much green stuff??? :bleh:
Couldn't possibly comment:rolleyes:

[trump-lady]

Pip and I have noticed our sex life is beginning to falter lately, damn it we are down to one a day now! :blip:

I asked my grandad who was 90 at the time, when does sex run out and he told me to go ask an old fellah! :doh:

Stop worrying about it and get on with it, cause it really only stops when you are dead!

I am determined to have a go at changing that too when my time comes! :niceone: Cheers John.

lovin it...might just need to putv that as my sig!

[007XX]

Its the thoughts mannnnn the thoughts and the little voices...... lol

HA!!! Come into my head for five minutes...you'll go back into yours feeling like a virgin! And that is a promise...


Couldn't possibly comment:rolleyes:

About what? my stress release mentality or mental Trousers?

[SpeedyGirl]

I don't think I've met you, but I've never heard a woman say this who wasn't unhealthily overweight.

:laugh:

Mmm, pies...

nope, ask anyone that knows me, am not model thin but not unhealthily overweight, just happy with me and realistic that no one has a perfect body, so enjoy the one you have!
:bleh:

[jrandom]

HA!!! Come into my head for five minutes...you'll go back into yours feeling like a virgin!

:sherlock:

One can draw many fascinating conclusions from the observation of an individual who constructs a significant portion of their identity from their sexual self-image.

[jrandom]

realistic that no one has a perfect body...

Untrue. I've known a couple of guys and at least one girl with bodies that I could honestly not fault in any way.

:love:

All it takes is hard work.


enjoy the one you have!

Well, Stickchick seems to enjoy the one I have...

[007XX]

:sherlock:

One can draw many fascinating conclusions from the observation of an individual who constructs a significant portion of their identity from their sexual self-image.

Hmmm I bet...Feel free to share with the class!

But bear in mind that as significant as it may be, it is but one facet of the prism...and I like it! I been polishing it for a while :devil2:

[Maha]

HA!!! Come into my head for five minutes...you'll go back into yours feeling like a virgin! And that is a promise...


Dear God im leaving that one alone.....:eek5:


Untrue. I've known a couple of guys with bodies that I could honestly not fault in any way.


Why thank you Dad of Betty...:eek: ya not so bad ya'self....:o

[007XX]

Untrue. I've known a couple of guys and at least one girl with bodies that I could honestly not fault in any way.

:love:

All it takes is hard work.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" dear friend. Perfection is non existent and imperfections make for a charm that surpasses all in my books.


Well, Stickchick seems to enjoy the one I have...

:sick: that's all I have to say on the matter...

[007XX]

Dear God im leaving that one alone.....:eek5:



Pansie...:bleh: :dodge:

[trump-lady]

I should get mad green bling! 23 members veiwing!

[Maha]

Pansie...:bleh: :dodge:


Isn't your home time?....007XY will be waiting for thee to apply preasure in all the right places....:msn-wink:

[007XX]

Isn't your home time?....007XY will be waiting for thee to apply preasure in all the right places....:msn-wink:

I know mate....been trying to get away for the last 20 mins, but keep on getting PMs.

Right, that's it....I'm off to discover how much better it can be after 30 :msn-wink:

You guys don't do or say anything I wouldn't :laugh:

[Sully60]

Sorry to get away from the banter and be all clinical and stuff but...


Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick

Sounds like somethings trying to tell you it's time to get making little trump-babies...

[Mental Trousers]

Mental Trousers should post on her...C'mon we knwo you want to!!!

Or are you afraid you'll get too much green stuff??? :bleh:

Smart arse :bleh:

I have many fond memories of women in their 30's. They start way back when I was about 18 and continue right through until about 8 years ago (Megan is responsible for that 8 year gap). Women in their 30's are the most fun if you ask me, mainly because their attitude to sex, relationships etc is starting to gel with what guys want. In my experience they're finding it's more fun because they're ditching the baggage that surrounded sex when they were younger and they're also making up for lost time :niceone:

[trump-lady]

Sorry to get away from the banter and be all clinical and stuff but...


Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick

Sounds like somethings trying to tell you it's time to get making little trump-babies...


I cant afford to have children........
I own a bike........

[oscarnz]

Latest category seems to be 'friends with benefits'.


For sure and that is great, no pressure, just good sex

[Sully60]

I cant afford to have children........
I own a bike........

Then you should just lie back, no, um, jump on (thats better) and enjoy the practice!

[Hitcher]

There is nothing wrong with sex. Within the confines of Holy Matrimony and only for the purposes of procreation. Of course.

[trump-lady]

I cant afford to have children........
I own a bike........


Then you should just lie back, no, um, jump on (thats better) and enjoy the practice!

I do ... I jump on esp on Sats round the coro loop :lol:

[Mom]

....what has been concerning me is the perverted things that jump into my head as of late and apparently Im not alone. Its the thoughts mannnnn the thoughts and the little voices...... lol

Peverted? no such thing! I believe it is called being healthy love, the little voices can lead you to all sortsof yummy places :whistle:


HA!!! Come into my head for five minutes...you'll go back into yours feeling like a virgin! And that is a promise...


Grubby girl! :spanking:


Sorry to get away from the banter and be all clinical and stuff but...


Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick

Sounds like somethings trying to tell you it's time to get making little trump-babies...


Interesting spin, I actually found once I could no longer have babies everything improved... not a good word but all the other options ie, came together, or gelled or.... just sounded wrong somehow :o

[Mental Trousers]

nope, ask anyone that knows me, am not model thin but not unhealthily overweight, just happy with me and realistic that no one has a perfect body, so enjoy the one you have!
:bleh:

As you say you're not a super model but your smile tells everyone all they need to know about you - you're confident with who you are, friendly, don't have any hang up's and know what you want.


HA!!! Come into my head for five minutes...you'll go back into yours feeling like a virgin! And that is a promise...

.... Playing movies in my head that make a porno feel like home ....

Always thought that line perfectly described the inside of my head :niceone:

[trump-lady]

Right Im off home to think perverted thoughts of any decent men I spot on the way home!

OMG hope my BF doesnt read this!

Someone green blinged me and had the quote of the day in which I shall leave you all with.......


30 and DIRTY

[mstriumph]

Yeah I reckon it only really kicks in at 40 myself....<_<

mmmmmmm :laugh:
- and after the divorce, once the kids have left home and the parrot dies ...................

[Mom]

mmmmmmm :laugh:
- and after the divorce, once the kids have left home and the parrot dies ...................


and you cant make babies no matter what!.......:headbang: :Punk: :o

Normal Mom transmission will resume shortly :laugh:

[kevfromcoro]

Any time, anywhere :sweatdrop[/QUOTE]

Tryed it standing up,,, in a hamick....

[jrandom]

:sick: that's all I have to say on the matter...

:weep:

That's, like, an entire week's worth of ego inflation. Right there. Bang. Gone.

*sniff*

[MotoKuzzi]

HA!!! Come into my head for five minutes...you'll go back into yours feeling like a virgin! And that is a promise...



About what? my stress release mentality or mental Trousers?

More to do with the fact that I can see where all this is headed:spanking:

[FilthyLuka]

Any time, anywhere :sweatdrop

Tryed it standing up,,, in a hamick....[/QUOTE]

nope, done upside down in a hammock though, that kinda similar?

[Mom]

:weep:

That's, like, an entire week's worth of ego inflation. Right there. Bang. Gone.

*sniff*

Mate you are simply as gorgeous as I am!!!

Knock your socks off, drop dead yummy!!!

fuck em I say!

Edit: I am old enough to be your Mommy so be careful what your response is :blip:

[FilthyLuka]

I am old enough to be your Mommy so be careful what your response is :blip:

yummy mummy?

[Mom]

yummy mummy?


:o maybe

You have met JRandom eh?

[oldrider]

Mate you are simply as gorgeous as I am!!!

Knock your socks off, drop dead yummy!!!

fuck em I say!

Edit: I am old enough to be your Mommy so be careful what your response is :blip:

I'm old enough to be your Dad, please don't take "any" care in how "you" respond!

One big problem with fantasy is that reality gets in the way when you try to put it into practice! :Oops: John.

[vixter]

fuck im getting all horny thinkin about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Mom]

I'm old enough to be your Dad, please don't take "any" care in how "you" respond!

One big problem with fantasy is that reality gets in the way when you try to put it into practice! :Oops: John.

LOL

Fantasy eh........you are old enough to be my dad, and you say things like this??

YEEEHHAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

If the fun I am having now, remotely filters up the chronological scale I wont be an unhappy hip replacement candidate!

Sorry that was mean :weep:

:love: to you and Pip!

[Grahameeboy]

Mate you are simply as gorgeous as I am!!!

Knock your socks off, drop dead yummy!!!

fuck em I say!

Edit: I am old enough to be your Mommy so be careful what your response is :blip:

I am old enough to be his old man.......:Offtopic:

[Mom]

I am old enough to be his old man.......:Offtopic:

Didn't you get the Father/Son talk at school love.......apparently there is a way to prevent such a thing.......it involves a box of tissues and a thin paged mag featuring Samantha Fox!

I am older than you so be hush.........;)

[Grahameeboy]

What do I know about sex?

Well I guess when you are younger it is about learning what you like, don't like etc.

When you are older I guess you have kids so too busy, maybe just bored of the same panto........I dunno..........I have to admit that much I loved my ex, sex was too organised (well she was an Accountant) and not really spontaneous.

Now at 45, I have been in a relationship for 11 months with someone I have always been good friends with for 7 years...she has 2 kids so busy and we may have sex twice a month but quality beats quantity everytime......:msn-wink:.............I enjoy saving up:rolleyes:

Anyway, that's all I have to say

[Kornholio]

I am old enough to be his old man.......:Offtopic:

Im old enough to be my dad's son....

Back on track tho...I think I have been equally horny all my adulthood :spanking:

[Sparky Bills]

Its about time another sex thread started up!
Was starting to think KB had turned back to a biking site:spanking:

There are some very interesting comments..

Well im 23. Do I count?:cool::banana:

[Grahameeboy]

Didn't you get the Father/Son talk at school love.......apparently there is a way to prevent such a thing.......it involves a box of tissues and a thin paged mag featuring Samantha Fox!

I am older than you so be hush.........;)

Nah not from my Dad......I thought you just use a sheet and crossed your fingers

[Grahameeboy]

Its about time another sex thread started up!
Was starting to think KB had turned back to a biking site:spanking:

There are some very interesting comments..

Well im 23. Do I count?:cool::banana:

Count what.............I bet you have notches on your bed.....you young ones<_<

[Subike]

when in the morning she says she cant walk!

[Sparky Bills]

I bet you have notches on your bed.....you young ones<_<


Haha, my bed has a metal head board, so more like scribes:innocent:

[Grahameeboy]

fuck im getting all horny thinkin about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:banana::banana::banana::banana:.................. ..................like this?

[Grahameeboy]

Haha, my bed has a metal head board, so more like scribes:innocent:

Dents........................???

[Grahameeboy]

Didn't you get the Father/Son talk at school love.......apparently there is a way to prevent such a thing.......it involves a box of tissues and a thin paged mag featuring Samantha Fox!

I am older than you so be hush.........;)

How old are you??

[Grahameeboy]

when in the morning she says she cant walk!

You like older women then............mind you if you hide their walking stick they stay in bed longer eh?

[vixter]

:banana::banana::banana::banana:.................. ..................like this?

yup and i ran out of batteries!!

[Sparky Bills]

Dents........................???


Its tubing so no. maybe a few bends from where the ropes have been..hehe

.... SHit! Did I just say that....:rockon:

[trump-lady]

:Offtopic: HEY! This is about horny WOMEN and if they think more about it..... esp if theres a change after 30.......is there a sexual revival unlike years before...........we already no you guys are horny!

As for the 23 year old.....got a pic hehehehehehe :doh:

[Grahameeboy]

yup and i ran out of batteries!!

It's a bummer being single eh............:bleh:

[Grahameeboy]

:Offtopic: HEY! This is about horny WOMEN and think more about it..... esp if theres a change after 30.......we already no you guys are horny!

As for the 23 year old.....got a pic hehehehehehe :doh:
Not true...........

[Subike]

You like older women then............mind you if you hide their walking stick they stay in bed longer eh?

older women in your eyes, younger in mine

[Grahameeboy]

Its tubing so no. maybe a few bends from where the ropes have been..hehe

.... SHit! Did I just say that....:rockon:
Kathmandu do rope......and karanbennas:Oops:

[Grahameeboy]

older women in your eyes, younger in mine

You are old then....................

[trump-lady]

Not true...........


:Oi: Well thats what is was when I posted it up!

[Grahameeboy]

:Oi: Well thats what is was when I posted it up!

The only constant is change m'dear......

I was saying not all guys are horny...I never was........still not....:shutup:

[Subike]

You are old then....................

But old enough that I dont still have my teeth!!!!

But I have it on good authority, that my body belies my age......:buggerd:

[Grahameeboy]

But old enough that I dont still have my teeth!!!!

But I have it on good authority, that my body belies my age......:buggerd:

Maybe it's dealing with wine that makes your body belies your age.....

[Bikernereid]

Well what a very interesting topic of conversation.

In my teens it was all about experimentation and learning a few techniques for later life. To be honest I was very lucky and I wa living with a 32y/o biker when I was 19 and he was very experimental and taught me A LOT!!

In my 20s it was all about the meaningful relationship but sex was still up there as a major part of it. I was having a discussion with a male friend in his 20s the other day and was advising him about how I perceived women of his age based on my own experience. To be honest in my 20s I went for the guys who treated me like shit, but were hot in the sack. I LOVE SEX and I guess I am like a bloke in the wanting it 24/7. However........

In my 30s I wish that I had kept hold of one of the good guys from my 20s, noone in particular but just a guy who knows how to treat women. I am not into one night stands but never judge anyone who is. Sex is still BLOODY important to me but a good guy and a nice relationship to go with it is what I would really like. I will always be a horny goat and if I can find a guy who can keep up with me and who wants a committed relationship then bingo.

I think that women are becoming far more sexually liberated and that the demands of a successful career and taking women away from relationships and many women are going for the sex no strings because they have enough responsibility in their vocation without having it at home. I don;t know how others in their 30s feel about this, this is only my perspective as a 34y/o woman.


Ok I dunno where to put this but its directed at females. Me and a couple of my friends were talking in the weekend over some drinks, as you do we started talking about sex. The ages ran from 19 to 36. Anyways many of the 30 and overs said they were having a sexual revival and found themselves thinking of sex ALL THE TIME and no longer (many are single) looking for partners just one night flings. I was laughing bacause I find my self looking at men and just wondering hmmm wonder what he would be like and I have never been like that before. (Im 31) I dont wanna date em, I dont even wanna talk to them I just wanna see. God is that what men are like 24-7!

Is this an over 30 thing? Even if your in a relationship, kids etc does this happen to you, or am I and do I just hang out with freaks!

We came up with this in general of course

Teens to 20s. You do it cause ur spose to and prob for all the wrong reasons.
25 to 30 you actually like it, know what you want and are not scared to ask any more and try to get yours before he gets his
30s your just over the sex is for love and you just wanna bone and get off cause now u know how and are totally selfish and for once you finish first and fall asleep snoring. You also hope hes not there when you wake up.
40s.....there were none so I dunno.
Tell me your ideas....

[Grahameeboy]

Well what a very interesting topic of conversation.

In my teens it was all about experimentation and learning a few techniques for later life. To be honest I was very lucky and I wa living with a 32y/o biker when I was 19 and he was very experimental and taught me A LOT!!

In my 20s it was all about the meaningful relationship but sex was still up there as a major part of it. I was having a discussion with a male friend in his 20s the other day and was advising him about how I perceived women of his age based on my own experience. To be honest in my 20s I went for the guys who treated me like shit, but were hot in the sack. I LOVE SEX and I guess I am like a bloke in the wanting it 24/7. However........

In my 30s I wish that I had kept hold of one of the good guys from my 20s, noone in particular but just a guy who knows how to treat women. I am not into one night stands but never judge anyone who is. Sex is still BLOODY important to me but a good guy and a nice relationship to go with it is what I would really like. I will always be a horny goat and if I can find a guy who can keep up with me and who wants a committed relationship then bingo.

I think that women are becoming far more sexually liberated and that the demands of a successful career and taking women away from relationships and many women are going for the sex no strings because they have enough responsibility in their vocation without having it at home. I don;t know how others in their 30s feel about this, this is only my perspective as a 34y/o woman.

Or with high divorce rate women same perspective............

I blame 'Sex in the City'..

[Bikernereid]

It just showed what we are really like!!!!


Or with high divorce rate women same perspective............

I blame 'Sex in the City'..

[NighthawkNZ]

I LOVE SEX and I guess I am like a bloke in the wanting it 24/7.

Its been prooven that females think about sex the same amount of time as males... Males just show it more and don't care if everyone knows...

This is now slowly changing... and many females are now more open about it all...

[Grahameeboy]

It just showed what we are really like!!!!

That's why I stay indoors........

[Grahameeboy]

Its been prooven that females think about sex the same amount of time as males... Males just show it more and don't care if everyone knows...

This is now slowly changing... and many females are now more open about it all...

Geeze, no wonder I had gender issues.............

[trump-lady]

Well what a very interesting topic of conversation.

In my 30s I wish that I had kept hold of one of the good guys from my 20s, noone in particular but just a guy who knows how to treat women. I am not into one night stands but never judge anyone who is. Sex is still BLOODY important to me but a good guy and a nice relationship to go with it is what I would really like. I will always be a horny goat and if I can find a guy who can keep up with me and who wants a committed relationship then bingo.

I think that women are becoming far more sexually liberated and that the demands of a successful career and taking women away from relationships and many women are going for the sex no strings because they have enough responsibility in their vocation without having it at home. I don;t know how others in their 30s feel about this, this is only my perspective as a 34y/o woman.

Agreed but dunno if youve read the whole thread. Its not about one night stands at all that was just a side note that people flew with. Im talking about from what I see with my friends and other women over 30 is that they think more like men (cept grahemboy ;) and all of a sudden find themselves more aware of the sexuality of the opp sex and in general think of sex purely just for sex, and men as sexual objects,more than any other time in their life. Notice THINK not act.....Now mom says you peak at 40.....Im just curious about other women and their experiences. As for the last comment you might be onto it. They have had so much responsibility and pressure from school and jobs etc its really (around 30) the first time everything settles for them............hmmm Ill pass that on again next Sat and see what the word is.

:Oi: that wasnt a very bikernympho statement, hope your not losing your touch on getting the KBer womens heckles up!

By the way how was your Beers last Friday?

[Grahameeboy]

Agreed but dunno if youve read the whole thread. Its not about one night stands at all that was just a side note that people flew with. Im talking about from what I see with my friends and other women over 30 is that they think more like men (cept grahemboy ;) and all of a sudden find themselves more aware of the sexuality of the opp sex and in general think of sex purely just for sex, and men as sexual objects,more than any other time in their life. Notice THINK not act.....Now mom says you peak at 40.....Im just curious about other women and their experiences. As for the last comment you might be onto it. They have had so much responsibility and pressure from school and jobs etc its really (around 30) the first time everything settles for them............hmmm Ill pass that on again next Sat and see what the word is.

:Oi: that wasnt a very bikernympho statement, hope your not losing your touch on getting the KBer womens heckles up!

By the way how was your Beers last Friday?

Well I guess 'if you can't beat them join them'.

I enjoy sex with the right person, not just cause it is sex......I think it can hide relationship issues and I prefer my partner to be my best friend first so that sex is more enjoyable.....you know when you can laugh about sex when doing it if that makes sense...............

[Bikernereid]

Men have always been our sex toys we just have never admitted it before!! It is just now we are no longer prepared to cook and clean etc for them!!

I have always though of sex for sex but that may have something to do with the fact that I don't want to have kids. Not sure if others feel like this though.

Maybe women are more free to do what they want in their 30s/ 40s as they are happy with who they are, where they are etc etc.

Beers was good, has a laugh-FROSTY!!!! If I am not baby-sitting this Sunday I was going to try and organise aother session as I leave on Tue night, would love to see everyone before I go.


Agreed but dunno if youve read the whole thread. Its not about one night stands at all that was just a side note that people flew with. Im talking about from what I see with my friends and other women over 30 is that they think more like men (cept grahemboy ;) and all of a sudden find themselves more aware of the sexuality of the opp sex and in general think of sex purely just for sex, and men as sexual objects,more than any other time in their life. Notice THINK not act.....Now mom says you peak at 40.....Im just curious about other women and their experiences. As for the last comment you might be onto it. They have had so much responsibility and pressure from school and jobs etc its really (around 30) the first time everything settles for them............hmmm Ill pass that on again next Sat and see what the word is.

:Oi: that wasnt a very bikernympho statement, hope your not losing your touch on getting the KBer womens heckles up!

By the way how was your Beers last Friday?

[Her_C4]

It just showed what we are really like!!!!

Some of us didn't need a TV programme to show us what we liked - we already knew...:niceone::bleh:

[Mom]

How old are you??

about a million at last estimate.....:eek5:

[Bikernereid]

I said what we are like not what we like!! I mean that it has shown men what we are really like not the prudish wall flowers so many of them think we are. The fact that we are highly sexual being who can like sex as much if not more than men


Some of us didn't need a TV programme to show us what we liked - we already knew...:niceone::bleh:

[Grahameeboy]

about a million at last estimate.....:eek5:

Oh, lots of rings then (000,000)

[NighthawkNZ]

about a million at last estimate.....:eek5:

You look good for your age then... :innocent: :done:

[Grahameeboy]

I said what we are like not what we like!! I mean that it has shown men what we are really like not the prudish wall flowers so many of them think we are. The fact that we are highly sexual being who can like sex as much if not more than men

When did women start being prudish wall flowers................did I miss something........:Oops:

[chanceyy]

my take on it ...

20 - 30 still worried bout wot others think, still obbessed with body image, and generally getting comfortable with sexuality

dirty 30's .. realize others opinions do not matter generally comfortable with sexuality & into exploring sexuality

naughty 40's ... well its fun .. :whistle:

really you know what you want & dunna mind saying it, you appreciate ppl for more than looks, and really into having fun ..

did i say fun .. ohh yeah I think i did :lol: but lets mention selective ...

[Grahameeboy]

You look good for your age then... :innocent: :done:

Yep despite enduring meterorites, ice ages. volcanic eruptions...........

[Paul in NZ]

I dunno why the heck I'm posting here but - as an observation....

A lot of women seem to gain a great deal of confidence in their late 20's and early 30's both professionally and personally - sadly it's about then that they suddenly realise the stud muffin rebels they used to prop up their lack of confidence earlier in life is really a jerk (and now loosing hair and putting on weight)..... The divorce rate seems to go up about then too... Sadly the good solid dependable chappies are then a little thin on the ground but since their biological clocks are not quite ticking loud enough to keep em awake at nights - they release this new found confidence as energy to be burnt up in nightclubs or learning to scuba dive or something... (usually something that gives them access to hopefully single men)

Later - it can change again.... BUT we do live in an age of personal choice and increased vitality so there is no reason why a strong woman cannot enjoy a healthy sex life for yonks - go for it i say!

Many of you have said love does not matter - my own experience is the opposite. Love matters a great deal to me but first you have to believe in both love and romance. Look at my taste in bikes - they are choices of love - not common sense and that carries over into my private life - love amplifies lust into something else and I thank my lucky stars every goddam day that I enjoy the love of a fine woman who accepts me and my love in return.... Some people need a new lover and a new bike every season - others love to know every curve, every shade, every nut and bolt in intimate detail and funnily enough - it never gets tired or stale - in fact, at this rate I think i shall die not of old age but from pleasure...

I could think of worse things...

[Her_C4]

I said what we are like not what we like!! I mean that it has shown men what we are really like not the prudish wall flowers so many of them think we are. The fact that we are highly sexual being who can like sex as much if not more than men


and still ..... a lot of us that are a 'tad' :doh::eek: older already knew what we are like and didn't need a TV programme to show or tell us.. I would not like to hazard a guess as to how men think about women, but there have been a LOT of changes over the last 30 years or so and I for one would be seruously surprised if men generally still think we are (still) prudish across the board.

Perhaps we have just socialised with different types of men then.:niceone:

[scumdog]

Yes, I'm happy.

Believe me, the couple of weeks of sore nuts are well worth the years of happily unobstructed intercourse.

If only it include getting rid of the 'glue-your-wires-together-and-stick-to-the-sheets 'goo'.

[BIHB@0610]

As a 36 year old (until Friday, turn 37 - nearing 40 - which might be a really good thing if mom is right!) I can definitely agree with trump-lady. I think about sex a lot more now than I ever used to. Differently to her though, I don't eye up 25 year-old hard bodies and fantasize, I just (as has been pointed out to me) treat the entire day as foreplay - foreplay with my partner, or thinking about my partner. I've been this way for the last six years - it was like a switch was turned on when I turned 30 - I was in a dead marriage but when it ended two years later whoa baby! For me it was also about confidence, achieving at a high level career-wise, earning decent money (shame that has an influence, but independence can't be underrated) and knowing I can hold my own in a demanding profession. These things have been historically, predominantly, a male preserve - maybe it's because we women are now experiencing the power and confidence that was solely mens, that we are experiencing the horniness that goes along with it! I know we're up there with the heart disease and stress related health issues too...... but sex is good stress relief. Sex, good red wine, and good dark chocolate. I'm gonna live forever!

[BIHB@0610]

If only it include getting rid of the 'glue-your-wires-together-and-stick-to-the-sheets 'goo'. :( Nooooo - that's the yummiest part!!!!!!!

[Her_C4]

As a 36 year old (until Friday, turn 37 - nearing 40 - which might be a really good thing if mom is right!) I can definitely agree with trump-lady. etc etc etc.

Sex, good red wine, and good dark chocolate. I'm gonna live forever!


Excellent :sunny:

who was it that said that ??

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out....."

[BIHB@0610]

Excellent :sunny:

who was it that said that ??

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out....."
........ screaming "faaarrrrk me, what a ride!!!!!"

[jrandom]

Men have always been our sex toys... It is just now we are no longer prepared to cook and clean etc for them!!

And you still expect us to put out?

:nono:

[Bikernereid]

Good for you. Glad that you are where you are, I am just a few years behind and being 36/37 sounds even better than being 34!!


As a 36 year old (until Friday, turn 37 - nearing 40 - which might be a really good thing if mom is right!) I can definitely agree with trump-lady. I think about sex a lot more now than I ever used to. Differently to her though, I don't eye up 25 year-old hard bodies and fantasize, I just (as has been pointed out to me) treat the entire day as foreplay - foreplay with my partner, or thinking about my partner. I've been this way for the last six years - it was like a switch was turned on when I turned 30 - I was in a dead marriage but when it ended two years later whoa baby! For me it was also about confidence, achieving at a high level career-wise, earning decent money (shame that has an influence, but independence can't be underrated) and knowing I can hold my own in a demanding profession. These things have been historically, predominantly, a male preserve - maybe it's because we women are now experiencing the power and confidence that was solely mens, that we are experiencing the horniness that goes along with it! I know we're up there with the heart disease and stress related health issues too...... but sex is good stress relief. Sex, good red wine, and good dark chocolate. I'm gonna live forever!

[flame]

from the age of 20 through to 30 sex was just a chore, kinda like cooking dinner, or doing the washing.......only worse! oh thats right, I had a husband back then:slap: lol.

Strangely enough.....I was 30 when I left him :banana:

[Bikernereid]

We have been outting out for nothing in return except grief for years!!


And you still expect us to put out?

:nono:

[chanceyy]

Excellent :sunny:

who was it that said that ??

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out....."

gawd I love that series of drawings .. hmmm what is her name ??

[trump-lady]

Paul, Planna and her_B4. :yes:
Awesome post........ TY

[jrandom]

We have been outting out for nothing in return except grief for years!!

'Outing'?

Jeez.

Personally, I prefer not to see sex as a manipulative or political activity, and I wouldn't sleep with any woman who did.

Anyone who has sex for any reason other than shared pleasure and love is, in my humble opinion, fucked up.

:)

[Bikernereid]

If it isn't then you are doing it wrong!! Sex is the most natural thing in the world and with the right person in the right relationship it is pure bliss. But sex should never be used as a weapon and men as much as women do use it to get what they want.


'Outing'?

Jeez.

Personally, I prefer not to see sex as a manipulative or political activity, and I wouldn't sleep with any woman who did.

Anyone who has sex for any reason other than shared pleasure and love is, in my humble opinion, fucked up.

:)

[Her_C4]

'Outing'?

Jeez.

Personally, I prefer not to see sex as a manipulative or political activity, and I wouldn't sleep with any woman who did.

Anyone who has sex for any reason other than shared pleasure and love is, in my humble opinion, fucked up.

:)

Agreed:niceone:

[trump-lady]

........ screaming "faaarrrrk me, what a ride!!!!!"


I hope you dont mind but I just couldnt help it. You both are very lucky :)
I will delete this if you dont aprove

Trump-lady bling comment:

Believe me, planna is everything & more, i am a very lucky man, Sidecar bob.

[FilthyLuka]

Out of curiosity, when did sex become such a big deal?

[Her_C4]

This is the actual quote - (and I love it)

“Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand – strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming ‘Woo hoo – what a ride!’”

:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::w oohoo:

[Bikernereid]

Adam and Eve!!


Out of curiosity, when did sex become such a big deal?

[ynot slow]

Ladies you've hit it on the head with one word "confidence".

When younger it's is my bum fat,will my pimples go away by weekend.

Then after a couple of kids,useless husband/partner,the penny drops when you piss off,then start to enjoy the later start in life(30-40).

It's easy to get out of a marriage than say 30 years ago,no stigma,hence more confidence in yourself,can bet most 80 yr old nanas would agree sort of about thinking about sex as they got to 40,just they were not supposed to say it lol.

Had a one nighter with a friend (brother's girlfriend),(only thing was I felt robbed lol) she said you ready for bed,pretty well to the point.She was about 31-32 me 38,she had seperated from her partner about 4 months prior,her attitude was if we need it,why can't we get it.She was secure in her thinking,that she wanted sex,thought about sex like most guys did.

[FilthyLuka]

Adam and Eve!!

i thought thats when apples became a big deal :scratch:

[trump-lady]

........ screaming "faaarrrrk me, what a ride!!!!!"


This is the actual quote - (and I love it)

“Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand – strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming ‘Woo hoo – what a ride!’”

:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::w oohoo:


I love it too
I heard something similar on Quentin Tarintinos latest movie with the NZ female stunt artist.....EX quote

[jrandom]

Out of curiosity, when did sex become such a big deal?

Personally, after about 36 hours of going without it...

[Bikernereid]

didn't know that babies ande hence the human race came from apples:2thumbsup Bugger that is where I have been going wrong and why I have no kids!!


i thought thats when apples became a big deal :scratch:

[flame]

This is the actual quote - (and I love it)

“Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand – strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming ‘Woo hoo – what a ride!’”

:woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::woohoo::w oohoo:

I remember that! I think it was actually you that quoted it to me C!! :yes:
Great quote:niceone:

[BIHB@0610]

If it isn't then you are doing it wrong!! Sex is the most natural thing in the world and with the right person in the right relationship it is pure bliss. But sex should never be used as a weapon and men as much as women do use it to get what they want. That's the key to it, bikernimpho - sex is SO natural. For many of us I think it takes a while for it to be accepted as "natural" - having been raised in the shadow of Victorian disapproval. Perhaps it's as much about achieving independence in a financial sense as it is about independence in an emotional sense, and breaking away from those entrenched beliefs. Women seem to grow an awful lot, personally, between 30 and 35 - some of us anyway!

[hXc]

i thought thats when apples became a big deal :scratch:Is that what you call it nowadays?

[Bikernereid]

and you weren't climbing the walls after just one hour!! You are slacking young man!!


Personally, after about 36 hours of going without it...

[BIHB@0610]

Oooh and have to share a story - two bikers out on New Year's Eve, riding around Tauranga/the Mount, no kids, no responsibilities, endless night, full tank of gas. They park up, lie on the grass, gaze at the stars, philosophise and navel gaze - life is generally grand. Mobs of teenagers walk past, jovial and jolly, banter is exchanged with a few groups, until one gorgeous young hard-belly yells out "yeah, bro, go for it - give it heaps". Bikers laugh along .... then the hard belly adds a post-script ... "yeah, bikers, hey, you're never too old to do that shit". The comment was so well intentioned that at the grand old ages of 36 and 41 all the bikers could do was laugh and hope their incontinence pads held up .....

Seems even though we women might think about it more often, the youngsters will never accept us actually acting on our thoughts! Might have to resort to the measures we employed in our youth ... bike sheds, sand dunes, bushes, cars ..... ooooh sounds entirely fabulous to me!

[Disco Dan]

How the SMEG did I miss this till now???? :gob:


I'm losing my touch!!!


The wise sexually charged Disco Dan has some words of wisdom:

"Science is a lot like sex. Sometimes something useful comes of it, but that's not the reason we're doing it."

"For me, love is very deep, but sex only has to go a few inches."

"Just saying 'no' prevents teenage pregnancy the way 'Have a nice day' cures chronic depression."

"If sex doesn't scare the cat, you're not doing it right."

"Sex always has consequences. When Hitler's mother spread her legs that night, she effectively canceled out the spreading of fifteen to twenty million other pairs of legs."

[jrandom]

and you weren't climbing the walls after just one hour!

No, not really. That would just be silly.

[Disco Dan]

I LOVE SEX and I guess I am like a bloke in the wanting it 24/7.

I can be at your place in 5 minutes.

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[hXc]

I can be at your place in 5 minutes.

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:And be done and home in another 5.:Pokey:

[Bikernereid]

Believe me I would be!! What am I saying I am!!


No, not really. That would just be silly.

[Subike]

enjoy!
At the very young age of 50, my lady and I are more active then we were in out 40's but not quite as active as we were in out 30's
With no adult children to disturb us , the ones that go " ewe mum keep it quiet"
and the only spectators at home being the little Dog and the Parrot , sex has regained its enjoyment and fun.
Ok so things have a tendency to have a gravitational pull, skin tone is a little different, hair colour is either grey or from a bottle but!
the eyes dont change, and they are the windows of the soul...

The enjoyment is better, as it is more relaxed, the intimate dinners, secret spots in the public arena, naughty week ends away at holiday spots are much more fun. Even skinny dipping under a summer moon...

ROFL Because the perspective is that we are too old and respectabile to be doing THAT!

Yes I do agree that women are not the house keepers of men anymore, and that is a good thing.
Cooking my own meals, washing my own clothes, spending my own money (finnaly) are all part of the enjoyment of being a individual, which makes for more fun!
Its time now, that we explore areas of sex, that were not possibile before, because joints and backs etc are not as flexabile, so finding new positions becomes and everlasting enjoyabile game.

Sex does not stop at 50, it mellows like old wine, soft on the pallet and much more enjoyabile.
I dont expect that we will stop till it is a physical impossibility, so for you young men who think that you need as much as possibile before it wears out, Dont stress, because stress will be the thing that stops it.
Girls, there really is life after 50, but dont wait till then
You Ladies who have all the wonderfully naghty thoughts, they are not naughty at all! , they are just reminding you of who you are.
A highly sensual being with strong natural urges, that should not be bottled up and hidden because of the ""Moral Standings" of others.

We have the freedom of choice, and just like we ride bikes, because of the freedom it gives us,
the freedom to explore our sexuality should be our own personal choice.
We should not be governed by rules and fears forced upon us by thoses who only think that the risks involved are not worth the enjoyment gained.
Of the social standards that come from years of religious suppression.

Like a bike, always SHOULD be remembered,
Make sure the rubber is in good condition,
because its all that seperates us from a accident that will change your life.

[Mr Skid]

Untrue. I've known a couple of guys and at least one girl with bodies that I could honestly not fault in any way.

:love:

All it takes is hard work.Kiwifruit and who else?

[hXc]

Kiwifruit and who else?Me, of course. I'm legal!

[Disco Dan]

Me, of course. I'm legal!

Not another "old enough to bleed, old enough to breed" supporter??? :sick:

:rofl:

[oldrider]

Successful sex is not about yourself. (unless you are masturbating)

It is all about studying your partners needs, learning what they want and how to do it for them, time after time after time.

When they want it, how they want it, how fast they want it, how slow they want it, the list goes on and on.

When you think you have worked it all out, start again and approach it all from a completely new.....well...whatever!

The opportunities are endless! (and rewarding)

Fantasies are just our ability to think outside the square and dream up new ideas.

Enjoy them, they are fun but can go quite pear shape when you try to introduce them to reality.

Be careful, there can be high risk involved the more inventive we become! :confused:

Like the best cowboys, they are the ones who get off their horse, drop the reins and the horse doesn't run away!

When the cowboy moves away, the horse follows him.

Why?

Because it wants to be near him, their relationship has been too good for either of them to want to leave it, they are partners for life.

Why mention horses?

Because women and horses are very similar in their loyalty, love and affection.

love, respect and appreciate them and they will always be good to you and return it in spades, abuse them, or that trust and they can become your worst nightmare.

Work on your relationship always, you only get out what you put in but of course, nobody said it would be easy. Good luck! :sweatdrop Cheers John.

[Grub]

Men experience their peak somewhere between 18-22, just in time to mess up our concentration for college. While women reach their maximum sexual velocity between 35 and 40, right about the time that men start losing theirs…nice. Is this God's idea of a cruel joke?

I mean, how are we supposed to take advantage of this?!? I don't know how many of you were an 18 year old male, but I can't see too many of them having the savoir faire to entice a woman twice their age into bed. As for a 30 something women looking to hook up with a man in his prime, she's pushing her chances with the law.

I can't help but think that both sexes are being cheated out of great, earth shattering, teeth-clenching sex.

Seems a pretty fair assessment to me. You have to love the vision created by his last sentence :cool:

[hXc]

Not another "old enough to bleed, old enough to breed" supporter??? :sick:

:rofl:'Tis a personal joke between me and Mr Random.

[trump-lady]

Seems a pretty fair assessment to me. You have to love the vision created by his last sentence :cool:

AMEN!
and the little voices start and images start again.......

[trump-lady]

Night Night everyone........
Sweet Dreams

remember

30 = DIRTY 40 = NAUGHTY

[RiderInBlack]

Many of you have said love does not matter - my own experience is the opposite. Love matters a great deal to me but first you have to believe in both love and romance. Look at my taste in bikes - they are choices of love - not common sense and that carries over into my private life - love amplifies lust into something else and I thank my lucky stars every goddam day that I enjoy the love of a fine woman who accepts me and my love in return.... Some people need a new lover and a new bike every season - others love to know every curve, every shade, every nut and bolt in intimate detail and funnily enough - it never gets tired or stale - in fact, at this rate I think i shall die not of old age but from pleasure...

I could think of worse things...Right on the money. If just sex was what it was all about then I'd use sex workers rather than have a relationship.
For me, I have had a better sex life in my 30's and 40's. This has been because the Women that have been my partners start to value guys like me better than they did as teens (when all they could think about was getting it with the "popular" guy). Also I had gain more confidence in myself.
As for sex, for me, if ya want me ta "get it up", then it helps if ya make me feel wanted. Ex-wife found that out the hard way. After months of turning down my advances, she decided that she "wanted it". Too bad she had chosen a night that I was dog tired. She had not put in any "fore play" ether. Just lying in bed and decide she wanted it. What she got was "Ya making me feel like a dildo", which went down like a ton of bricks. The moral of the story is: "If ya want ya partner ta want you, then make them feel wanted". Works both ways. Guys are not "up for it" 24/7. Timing and atmosphere does play a big part for us too.

[Number One]

Like the best cowboys, they are the ones who get off their horse, drop the reins and the horse doesn't run away!

When the cowboy moves away, the horse follows him.

Why?

Because it wants to be near him, their relationship has been too good for either of them to want to leave it, they are partners for life.

Why mention horses?

Because women and horses are very similar in their loyalty, love and affection.

love, respect and appreciate them and they will always be good to you and return it in spades, abuse them, or that trust and they can become your worst nightmare.

I Like this take on things and agree with the sentiment. Would like to point out though that unlike horses who 'foam' during 'brisk activity' ladies 'Glow' :laugh:

[007XX]

Smart arse MOI??? Never...

I have many found memories of women in their 30's. They start way back when I was about 18 and continue right through until about 8 years ago (Megan is responsible for that 8 year gap). Women in their 30's are the most fun if you ask me, mainly because their attitude to sex, relationships etc is starting to gel with what guys want. In my experience they're finding it's more fun because they're ditching the baggage that surrounded sex when they were younger and they're also making up for lost time

:headbang:Go Megan!!! Interesting aspect on the subject. However, I would

doubt it is making the entirety of it. I strongly think there is a hormonal portion, which is something I'm pretty sure has been already scientifically proven. We girlies "peak" our sexual prime in our 30s. Our bodies see to that by releasing greater amounts of hormones, turning us into little hornbags :first:
Gosh! Don't ya just looooooove Mother Nature??? :woohoo:


There is nothing wrong with sex. Within the confines of Holy Matrimony and only for the purposes of procreation. Of course.

:killingme :killingme I embrace with vigour my atheism...(no disrespect intended to any believers of any religion admonishing virginity before marriage btw...each to their own).


Peverted? no such thing! I believe it is called being healthy love, the little voices can lead you to all sortsof yummy places

My lady! :not:


Grubby girl!

:shifty:Mebe...but only cos I'm a little more comfortable talking about it...your head's as good as mine I would say :laugh:


.... Playing movies in my head that make a porno feel like home ....

Always thought that line perfectly described the inside of my head :niceone:

Master :not: I bow to thee awesomness...

[Mental Trousers]

:headbang:Go Megan!!! Interesting aspect on the subject. However, I would

doubt it is making the entirety of it. I strongly think there is a hormonal portion, which is something I'm pretty sure has been already scientifically proven. We girlies "peak" our sexual prime in our 30s. Our bodies see to that by releasing greater amounts of hormones, turning us into little hornbags :first:
Gosh! Don't ya just looooooove Mother Nature??? :woohoo:


Oh I have no doubt there are many variables that contribute to this subject and I was just pointing out 1 or 2 that I've noticed.



Master :not: I bow to thee awesomness...

You are welcome Grasshopper

[BIHB@0610]

sex for life ......

30 = dirty (yay me!)
40 = naughty
50 = nifty (and thrifty?!)
60 = sexy
70 = heavenly
80 = racey. And perhaps medicated ....

OK some don't rhyme but it's the thought that counts. Who wants to come to an orgy in a rest home in 2048...........???

[007XX]

That's, like, an entire week's worth of ego inflation. Right there. Bang. Gone.

*sniff*

Get over it! Sheesh, them men and their fragile little egos :rolleyes:...Just as well I don't call you a BR again then eh? (:love: ya buddy!)


More to do with the fact that I can see where all this is headed:spanking:

And it'll go there wether you like it or not :bleh: It's called Human Nature.



Tryed it standing up,,, in a hamick....

nope, done upside down in a hammock though, that kinda similar?

Tried that...it's lethal and I wouldn't recommend it to the unitiated...something a little off putting about finding yourself entangled in each other's limbs and a netting material, with a sudden hitch you can't reach and mozzies attacking tender bits, which are by then even further out of reach...:shutup:


It just showed what we are really like!!!!

We who? Sorry, but I didn't identify with it that much...Gave me lots of giggles though.


Men have always been our sex toys we just have never admitted it before!! It is just now we are no longer prepared to cook and clean etc for them!!

I have always though of sex for sex but that may have something to do with the fact that I don't want to have kids. Not sure if others feel like this though.

Maybe women are more free to do what they want in their 30s/ 40s as they are happy with who they are, where they are etc etc.


I can partly see where you're coming from with some of these statements, but I can't totally agree however. I've never thought of men as my sex toys, I've never seen sex as a baby making process (although I have a son), seeing it as such I am told would be a sure fire way of killing the passion. But eh, that's just me...I'd hate to generalise too much :innocent:


Some of us didn't need a TV programme to show us what we liked - we already knew...:niceone::bleh:

:hug: Oh how I like your thinking! :love:

[Bikernereid]

but Then again 29 year olds are great they knows just what I like.:Punk:
Thanks shane

[Hitcher]

Get over it! Sheesh, them men and their fragile little egos

I am a Real Man. I have neither an ego nor feelings.

[hXc]

I am a Real Man. I have neither an ego nor feelings.
And you're not scared of anything. Except your wife.

[Hitcher]

And you're not scared of anything. Except your wife.

You have learned well, Grasshopper.

[007XX]

I am a Real Man. I have neither an ego nor feelings.


And you're not scared of anything. Except your wife.

Dang, hXc beat me to it...:laugh:

[FilthyLuka]

Tried that...it's lethal and I wouldn't recommend it to the unitiated...something a little off putting about finding yourself entangled in each other's limbs and a netting material, with a sudden hitch you can't reach and mozzies attacking tender bits, which are by then even further out of reach...:shutup:


Can't say i've had the mosquito problem as of yet :crazy:

[007XX]

Can't say i've had the mosquito problem as of yet :crazy:

Yes, well...I was in the Tropics at the time. But it does make for an hilarious situation, although my then partner didn't think it was that funny.

Hence the fact I have now someone who shares in my sense of humour. Nothing better than having a good giggle during or after :clap: :niceone:

[Number One]

Yes, well...I was in the Tropics at the time. But it does make for an hilarious situation, although my then partner didn't think it was that funny.:

Hee hee - our first night on honeymoon in Fiji we decided to have the romantic private candle light dinner at the tables right on the beach. Clearly I have a tasty butt because the damn mossies got me all over it in between all the slats of the chair...came up in big welts, felt quite sick and looked damn scarey! Great memory though...now the pain has gone...luckily Sully60 laughed and cried with me...didn't hold up the 'shenanigans' :msn-wink:though afterall that's what honeymoons are for!


Hence the fact I have now someone who shares in my sense of humour. Nothing better than having a good giggle during or after :clap: :niceone:

Abso-Fricken-Lutely :laugh:...if you can't laugh 2gether before, during or after how sad life 2gether would be. Rock on and keep laughing all...

[Sully60]

Hummmmmmmmmmm:msn-wink:

[owner]

but Then again 29 year olds are great they knows just what I like.:Punk:
Thanks shane

Man! what a weapon,
Who is this Shane guy?

[jonbuoy]

Successful sex is not about yourself. (unless you are masturbating)

It is all about studying your partners needs, learning what they want and how to do it for them, time after time after time.

When they want it, how they want it, how fast they want it, how slow they want it, the list goes on and on.

When you think you have worked it all out, start again and approach it all from a completely new.....well...whatever!

The opportunities are endless! (and rewarding)

Fantasies are just our ability to think outside the square and dream up new ideas.

Enjoy them, they are fun but can go quite pear shape when you try to introduce them to reality.

Be careful, there can be high risk involved the more inventive we become! :confused:

Like the best cowboys, they are the ones who get off their horse, drop the reins and the horse doesn't run away!

When the cowboy moves away, the horse follows him.

Why?

Because it wants to be near him, their relationship has been too good for either of them to want to leave it, they are partners for life.

Why mention horses?

Because women and horses are very similar in their loyalty, love and affection.

love, respect and appreciate them and they will always be good to you and return it in spades, abuse them, or that trust and they can become your worst nightmare.

Work on your relationship always, you only get out what you put in but of course, nobody said it would be easy. Good luck! :sweatdrop Cheers John.

Wise words old fella.

[pete376403]

So next time I "dismount", givng the missus a slap on the arse and a "You're a good old hoss!" will be enough? Or should I provide a bucket of water and fresh oats? :-)

[Mom]

So next time I "dismount", givng the missus a slap on the arse and a "You're a good old hoss!" will be enough? Or should I provide a bucket of water and fresh oats? :-)

I dare you to!

[jrandom]

Man! what a weapon,
Who is this Shane guy?

I dunno, but I've been reliably informed that I'd hit it.

:love:

Good show though eh bro, I was starting to worry that she'd be sent home short-changed. Can't have our colonial oppressors thinking that the KB menfolk are all raving queers.

:niceone:

[FilthyLuka]

Can't have our colonial oppressors thinking the KB menfolk are all raving queers.


:crybaby:

And i thought we were gonna have something special Random!!!

[ManDownUnder]

Wow what a cool thread... my 2 cents (on a fav topic of mine)

Sex is no contest... for some reason those that want it more seem to have some sort of status accorded to them whereas a high libido simply means just that, an individual has a higher libido.

Ultimately that would be coupled with:

Self confidence
A caring partner of similar libido
A partner as adventurous as yourself


Low libido couples can have happy lives sans (or with very little) sex... and that's perfectly fine. If that's what meets the needs of both parties there's ab-s-lute-ly nothing wrong with that. Just as others can go at it till their respective connection points are rubbed raw, they're gasping for air and totally dehydrated.

If you are happy with your lot then that's good... but to repeat my assertion - it's no contest. Wanting more (or less) sex is simply like wanting more (or less) potatoes in your diet. If you do it at the exclusion of everything else, and/or the express expense of others it's unhealthy, but getting enough (whatever that means) of a good thing is just that... a good thing!

So... anyone out there looking for a meaningful one night stand with a married white guy?

2c poorer.

[The Lone Rider]

As a Kber woman in her 40s recently told me, its the revolution of feminism. Rather then giving woman equal rights, it gave them a lot more rights that men don't have.

Promiscuity is the flavor of the century.

[MotoKuzzi]

I reckon this thread just proves that, men really do listen when women have something to say.

[Bikernereid]

The good ones listen and believe me we REALLY appreciate it!!


I reckon this thread just proves that, men really do listen when women have something to say.

[Bikernereid]

Don't know but I have found the perfect catherderal to marry him in!! Just need to meet my future father-in-law!!


Man! what a weapon,
Who is this Shane guy?

[jrandom]

The good ones listen and believe me we REALLY appreciate it!!

Eh wha?<tencharacters>

[Bikernereid]

When they listen we really appreciate it!!!! So listen hun.


Eh wha?<tencharacters>

[ynot slow]

So next time I "dismount", givng the missus a slap on the arse and a "You're a good old hoss!" will be enough? Or should I provide a bucket of water and fresh oats? :-)

Or enjoy the rodeo position,doggie style and as ya slide in,say to her,hope you're like your mum/daughter (which ever one you're shagging),and try to stay on for 8 seconds.:woohoo:

[Bikernereid]

Wht not mother and daughter, get the whole family combo!!


Or enjoy the rodeo position,doggie style and as ya slide in,say to her,hope you're like your mum/daughter (which ever one you're shagging),and try to stay on for 8 seconds.:woohoo:

[owner]

Hey listening is Very important, He asked when the wedding was today actually. I told him I cant decide on which bike.
I think its something special when you dont get tired of listening to your partner and actually listen not just nod with a blank stare
Church aye? I was thinking of somewhere more outdoors

[Bikernereid]

Tell him if we can fit it in on Monday I am game!! I even asked about costings today and it should be 'cheap as chips' and the acoustics for a Busa are brilliant.

I didn't say church I wrote cathederal and it is outdoors but enclosed. I know how you like being at one with nature and all that!!


Hey listening is Very important, He asked when the wedding was today actually. I told him I cant decide on which bike.
I think its something special when you dont get tired of listening to your partner and actually listen not just nod with a blank stare
Church aye? I was thinking of somewhere more outdoors

[ynot slow]

Wht not mother and daughter, get the whole family combo!!

Was in aussie in 98 for bathurst 1000,saw a couple of playboy girls (playboy sponsored a car)in the marque area for sales etc,mate and I perved(as you do)at them,they turned to us and offered a signed poster each,they were mum and daughter,the mum was hot as,she said she was 37 and daughter was 18,both blonde and had a great conversation with them.

[Bikernereid]

Is that what they call it nowadays? And you just settled for a signed poster, if you were a chick and it was a hot dad n son combo you would be getting something else signed. Men must be a little ..........


Was in aussie in 98 for bathurst 1000,saw a couple of playboy girls (playboy sponsored a car)in the marque area for sales etc,mate and I perved(as you do)at them,they turned to us and offered a signed poster each,they were mum and daughter,the mum was hot as,she said she was 37 and daughter was 18,both blonde and had a great conversation with them.

[duckonin]

:niceone:Yep ran all of this past my wife and she confirms most woman have a problem, so to help you all out with a solution..Why not get paid for enjoying your sex, try an ACC claim, let's know how you get on te he te he:banana:

[Bikernereid]

Wee bit confused here.


:niceone:Yep ran all of this past my wife and she confirms most woman have a problem, so to help you all out with a solution..Why not get paid for enjoying your sex, try an ACC claim, let's know how you get on te he te he:banana:

[jrandom]

When they listen we really appreciate it!!!! So listen hun.

Whoooooshhhhh...

Oh, and don't call me 'hun'.

[Bikernereid]

Sorry big girl's blouse, I forgot!!!


Whoooooshhhhh...

Oh, and don't call me 'hun'.

[duckonin]

Wee bit confused here.
:argue:Read what the thread starter wrote, follow it a while, as it stays on track ....Untill Untill Untill, someone else takes us off onto another tangent, in other words the thread plot was changed..... :2guns:

[Colapop]

Well that never happened in my marriage. My wife was quite a sexually happy woman when I first met her (at age 24). After the first child things cooled (as you'd ecpect) then after the second things cooled again. Going from 3-4 times a week to eventually once a month was not good. I think she had her libido removed and buried in the back yard. Thank god there were other problems otherwise I'd still be trapped!

[trump-lady]

:argue:Read what the thread starter wrote, follow it a while, as it stays on track ....Untill Untill Untill, someone else takes us off onto another tangent, in other words the thread plot was changed..... :2guns:

Thankyou!
Im getting tired of reading my own thread. Total non relevant BS....If your ganna BS with anyone who will bite pm each other...If its not relevant to the first post, start another thread.

[buellbabe]

Well Trump-Lady yr original questioning was interesting and certainly got me thinking.
And if what I am about to say has been said already well apologies but my break is nearly over and its a long thread!

I reckon 'thinking about gettin some' is in direct ratio to 'how much you are actually gettin' !

And then theres the quality factor... I ALWAYS check out the hands and if they don't measure up then sorry not even gonna bother...no matter how much I like the guy or how horny I might be.

I'm in my 30's now and have had a few men, some good in bed some useless and a couple phenomenal. Problem is when you have had phenomenal you really can't be bothered with ho-hum...and the size of the hands/fingers has never let me down!

As for a sexual revival? I reckon sex is definately better in yr 30's than in yr 20's cos you know what you like and what HE likes.
As for 40s and beyond...oh yeah! bring it on!

[trump-lady]

Well Trump-Lady yr original questioning was interesting and certainly got me thinking.
And if what I am about to say has been said already well apologies but my break is nearly over and its a long thread!

I reckon 'thinking about gettin some' is in direct ratio to 'how much you are actually gettin' !

And then theres the quality factor... I ALWAYS check out the hands and if they don't measure up then sorry not even gonna bother...no matter how much I like the guy or how horny I might be.

I'm in my 30's now and have had a few men, some good in bed some useless and a couple phenomenal. Problem is when you have had phenomenal you really can't be bothered with ho-hum...and the size of the hands/fingers has never let me down!

As for a sexual revival? I reckon sex is definately better in yr 30's than in yr 20's cos you know what you like and what HE likes.
As for 40s and beyond...oh yeah! bring it on!
Ha Ha...will be sure to check hands of any potentials in the future hehehehe
I am getting some, as much as I need (the benefits of young dumb and full of .... and theres always the other alternative because I give it to myself the best) and as you havent read the thread (it is way to long with to much bs) but the question I was asking is do women become more sexual at 30 and over because I have been thinking ALOT about sex and not wanting to do every good man I see literally but thinking...hmmm wonder what hed be like/wonder if hes got a big short little pretty or veiny one. It appears from this thread that YES women have a hormonal thing that kicks in and makes us think nasty things that we really didnt before. Mom and some other over 40s say you peak sexually at 40.....Im scared Ill be a rapist by then! Im not acting on my thoughts but watch out when Im 40

The press:
Social worker aged 40 convicted of serial rape against men in Auckland with big hands.......

LOL

[cowpoos]

:killingme :killingme Oh that was funny...misguided, but very funny!

Do explian how this is misguided?? I mean...here say...and the word of two women in their thirties is hardly to be believed...especially as I believe your strumpet-ness is possibly fraudulant!!

[007XX]

Do explian how this is misguided?? I mean...here say...and the word of two women in their thirties is hardly to be believed...especially as I believe your strumpet-ness is possibly fraudulant!!

Hmmm, let's see. Where to start?

Well, firstly: what makes you more apt than any other guy on KB in witnessing the veracity of such an event?

Secondly, what makes you think I would be in any way encline to select you rather than anybody else?

And last but not least, we (women in our thirties) are old enough to know better. *smiles sweetly*

:nya: :nya:

[trump-lady]

OK I cant say whos been pm me but many members have,mods included. At first I just said.....oh well, so is the nature of humans. I think earlier the thread had some good points but I cant be bothered complaining. I think the thread has served its purpose.....so let the dribblers dribble to each other over dribbles. I then got asked to not let the dribble ruin a thread that happens all over KB and make a complaint about thread dribblers. I then posted

Quote:
Originally Posted by duckonin

Read what the thread starter wrote, follow it a while, as it stays on track ....Untill Untill Untill, someone else takes us off onto another tangent, in other words the thread plot was changed.....

Thankyou!
Im getting tired of reading my own thread. Total non relevant BS....If your ganna BS with anyone who will bite pm each other...If its not relevant to the first post, start another thread.

The dribble continued and now Im going to change the thread because I started it to

SHOULD A THREAD STARTER be able to delete any post that is not relevant to the topic as the thead starter sees it?

Because if that was allowed then I would have gone through and cleared this 225 post down to about half. Better for people to read and more informative with out the comercial breaks........

Opinions welcome

[Trudes]

Firstly...I am known as the designated safe guy...people trust me with thier spouses...without fear of any misguided approches' or advance's


I can vouch for that. Many an occasion Kendog has said that he'd be more than happy to leave me in the care of Mr cowpoos, provided he has caramel slice in front of him.

OK I cant say whos been pm me but many members have,mods included. At first I just said.....oh well, so is the nature of humans. I think earlier the thread had some good points but I cant be bothered complaining. I think the thread has served its purpose.....so let the dribblers dribble to each other over dribbles. I then got asked to not let the dribble ruin a thread that happens all over KB and make a complaint about thread dribblers. I then posted

Quote:
Originally Posted by duckonin

Read what the thread starter wrote, follow it a while, as it stays on track ....Untill Untill Untill, someone else takes us off onto another tangent, in other words the thread plot was changed.....

Thankyou!
Im getting tired of reading my own thread. Total non relevant BS....If your ganna BS with anyone who will bite pm each other...If its not relevant to the first post, start another thread.

The dribble continued and now Im going to change the thread because I started it to

SHOULD A THREAD STARTER be able to delete any post that is not relevant to the topic as the thead starter sees it?

Because if that was allowed then I would have gone through and cleared this 225 post down to about half. Better for people to read and more informative with out the comercial breaks........

Opinions welcome

Yeah, so shut up you thread thieves!:bleh:

[trump-lady]

off topic....but ahh Im still at fing work I dunno if I can make 6. I got directions to final meet spot so if im there im there......

ummm yeah off topic but its mine so :2guns:

In reply to ur dribble.......disagree I hate a good thread that has back and forth dribble no one cares about but the two posting who want everyone to see......why dont you just PM each other? I dont get it

[trump-lady]

I reckon we should move it to another thread!! as its been an enlightining conversation!!

Done........

http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showthread.php?p=1373644#post1373644

[007XX]

off topic....but ahh Im still at fing work I dunno if I can make 6. I got directions to final meet spot so if im there im there......

ummm yeah off topic but its mine so :2guns:

In reply to ur dribble.......disagree I hate a good thread that has back and forth dribble no one cares about but the two posting who want everyone to see......why dont you just PM each other? I dont get it

Ok, I'm sorry...no seriously, I am.

So what about this? To take up on your original idea...we have agreed it would seem that a lot of women over the age of 30 are experiencing an increase in sexual appetite.

Does it also involve a change in the type of men they are attracted to (as in being attracted to younger guys than the usual preference) , and / or open mindedness towards new and more "adventurous" sexual practices?


No examples really have to be given, but it would interesting to see if there is a pattern.

[Blue Velvet]

Ok, I'm sorry...no seriously, I am.

So what about this? To take up on your original idea...we have agreed it would seem that a lot of women over the age of 30 are experiencing an increase in sexual appetite.

Does it also involve a change in the type of men they are attracted to (as in being attracted to younger guys than the usual preference) , and / or open mindedness towards new and more "adventurous" sexual practices?

No examples really have to be given, but it would interesting to see if there is a pattern.

Do women over a certain age enjoy anal more?

[jrandom]

Do women over a certain age enjoy anal more?

:blink:

Okay, that came out of left field...

How old were you when you started enjoying anal, then?

:D

[trump-lady]

now THAT will get the thread back sorter on key and revive it (thread must be in thirtys)

well done 07xxx lol

[Blue Velvet]

Okay, that came out of left field...

Just trying to help thread get back on topic and spice it up a bit, ahem

:whistle: :dodge:

Spice is nice

[jrandom]

Just trying to help thread get back on topic and spice it up a bit, ahem

You didn't answer my question, though.

[Blue Velvet]

You didn't answer my question, though.

No one answered mine :bleh:

[jrandom]

No one answered mine :bleh:

I can't answer it; my sample size of women who enjoy anal is not statistically significant.

You can answer mine, though.

[MotoKuzzi]

The good ones listen and believe me we REALLY appreciate it!!
I was slightly tongue in cheek with that post, considering the topic is guaranteed to catch a man's attention<_<

[Blue Velvet]

Does it also involve a change in the type of men they are attracted to (as in being attracted to younger guys than the usual preference) , and / or open mindedness towards new and more "adventurous" sexual practices?

I think I remember, in amongst all the relevant, on-topic posts (tui!), that 'someone' did say 'something' about taste in men changing. Anyone brave enough to trawl back through the dribbling dribble?

[Grahameeboy]

You didn't answer my question, though.

Women's perogative Dan..............

[007XX]

Do women over a certain age enjoy anal more?

Bwahahahah...You got yourself in trouble now!!!! However, what age are we talking about? And also, we would have to know that the said lady had enjoyed anal in the first place while younger...a tad too personal maybe?



:blink:

Okay, that came out of left field...

How old were you when you started enjoying anal, then?

:D

Aaaannnd...I ran out of bling for you...again!!! :laugh:


now THAT will get the thread back sorter on key and revive it (thread must be in thirtys)

well done 07xxx lol

At your service, my lady!

[jrandom]

'someone' did say 'something' about taste in men changing...

Dunno about women's taste in men changing over time, but I know that my taste in women seems to have stayed fairly constant over the years.

They generally describe it as 'slightly salty'.

[Grahameeboy]

Dunno about women's taste in men changing over time, but I know that my taste in women seems to have stayed fairly constant over the years.

They generally describe it as 'slightly salty'.

Aniseed...................

You put so much salt on your food I am surprised you know when you are eating................:dodge:

[007XX]

Aniseed...................

You put so much salt on your food I am surprised you know when you are eating................:dodge:


Dunno about women's taste in men changing over time, but I know that my taste in women seems to have stayed fairly constant over the years.

They generally describe it as 'slightly salty'.

You both should try drinking a good amount of pineapple juice about an hour before :love:. Your respective ladies will thank me for it! And you'll get more oral willingness :innocent:

[Trudes]

You both should try drinking a good amount of pineapple juice about an hour before :love:. Your respective ladies will thank me for it! And you'll get more oral willingness :innocent:

Ahem..... tried that, didn't work.:shutup:

[007XX]

Now, to stay on topic...Cos you boys are just all over the show :bleh:

I'll start to answer the new angle I presented on this thread:

My criterias for physical attraction in men has definitely changed since I neared 30. I used to be attracted to guys with dark olive skin, black hair and blue or dark eyes.
Now, I get weak at knees when I see my gorgeous hubby who has light bronze skin, blue eyes and blond hair.
Also, the body type I have noticed has gotten musclier and a bit taller.

Now, this could be due to the fact that I took a very strong physical dislike to my ex who used to fit the first description. I don't know, but is a drastic turn around.

In regards to being adventurous...heck yeah! I've never been scared as per say, but it is more the ideas that come to mind and the willingness to give it a go that has changed.

And that's all I'm prepared to say on the matter. Right! Who's next?

[007XX]

Ahem..... tried that, didn't work.:shutup:

Really? what was the brand of pineaple juice? I'll stay away from it...:laugh:

I tend to buy the natural stuff, not the one made from concentrates which are just filled with colourings.

[Colapop]

While I do realise (trumpy) that this thread is directed at women, is it only women who's sexual tastes change?

[BALZY BUELL]

Hay all i'm the better half of balzy buell(hehehehe) i have to say it is an over 30 thing, I'm 33 and i'm suffering from it too, lol, Best advice i can give if your in a relationship is......You can feast ya eyes as long as ya eat ya means at home. I got told this by the wisest man i know, My dad,lol

[martybabe]

:confused:
No one answered mine :bleh:


:sweatdrop I can't say for definite that ladies enjoy anal more as they mature but I can tell ya a lot more mature women practice it than younger girls because age does bring on the hot hornies,confidence and desire to try different naughty behaviour.Quite right too,older babes rock.:headbang:

There,I nearly answered your question,lets never mention it again.:oi-grr::msn-wink:

Oh shit,you did mean anal not annual sex didn't ya, had a bit o that too,me no like.:laugh:

[Blue Velvet]

You didn't answer my question, though.

OK. Well last year, at band camp... I briefly saw a man who was all about anal. All the time. Part of his persuasion was that his ex, an older lady, was all about it too.

So my angle when I posted yesterday, was whether it is purely a preference thing, or whether, as you get older, things like anal sex become more enjoyable. I know people have noted here that older women experiment more etc.

I guess the subject is a bit rude and personal for some. But I'd have this conversation in person too, FWIW.

:whistle:

This is, after all, a thread about sexual stuff...

[Blue Velvet]

:confused:

:sweatdrop I can't say for definite that ladies enjoy anal more as they mature but I can tell ya a lot more mature women practice it than younger girls because age does bring on the hot hornies,confidence and desire to try different naughty behaviour.Quite right too,older babes rock.:headbang:

There,I nearly answered your question,lets never mention it again.:oi-grr::msn-wink:

Oh shit,you did mean anal not anual sex didn't ya, had a bit o that too,me no like.:laugh:

:msn-wink: :niceone:

[jrandom]

I'd have this conversation in person too, FWIW.

See you tonight, then!

:eek:

[martybabe]

Amendment to the above, all women rock and are very scary.A very close lesbian friend once gave me a book called,womens fantasies,or somat.These ranged from I fancy my boyfriends mate, to bend me over tie me up fill me with yoghourt,lobby and tradesmans entrance,let the dog in and show the photos to my mom.I,I have never been the,gibber same since.

Do women get hornier as they get older? Bloody right you do.:wari:

[jazbug5]

http://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Secret-Garden-Womens-Fantasies/dp/0704332949

That the book, Marty?

[martybabe]

http://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Secret-Garden-Womens-Fantasies/dp/0704332949

That the book, Marty?

Not that one but I would imagine it's equally scary (and fascinating). You ladies are so deep and complex nes pas.

Cripes you peeps are quick on the interweb.:yes:

[jrandom]

Cripes you peeps are quick on the interweb.

Jasmine is actually just a giant brain constructed from leaf mould and suspended in nourishing fluids, deep in the bowels of a mist-enshrouded mountain somewhere in the Highlands.

She posts at the speed of thought.

[Trudes]

I'm sorry, but not matter how old, saggy, or horney I get, my bum hole has one purpose and one purpose only!!:pinch:

[007XX]

Not that one but I would imagine it's equally scary (and fascinating). You ladies are so deep and complex nes pas.


We're not scary....just misunderstood! Complex? Bloody Oath :banana: But then, the successful individual (with enough patience and love) who unravels the labyrinth of layers which makes the beauty of the smart female's brain, will be generally rewarded with a joyride he's not likely to forget...

But if that's too much trouble, then I guess the five finger monkey shuffle is always an option...or easy dumb women! :yawn:

[Colapop]

I'm sorry, but not matter how old, saggy, or horney I get, my bum hole has one purpose and one purpose only!!:pinch:So where do you poop from???

[jrandom]

the successful individual (with enough patience and love) who unravels the labyrinth of layers which makes the beauty of the smart female's brain, will be generally rewarded with a joyride he's not likely to forget...

Yeah, I figured out years ago that getting inside their heads was the key to getting inside their panties, but thanks for finding such a fancy way of putting it.

:niceone:

[007XX]

Yeah, I figured out years ago that getting inside their heads was the key to getting inside their panties, but thanks for finding such a fancy way of putting it.

:niceone:

You are welcome...however, that is a bit of a role reversal, isn't it? :shifty:

[slowpoke]

Ok, so we've established that some women get more adventurous as they get older (you know who you are, you saucy thing), how about the menfolk?

I work in a 100% male environment for weeks at a time and as seems to be the way many jokes and conversations gravitate towards the one thing none of us can get: sex....(er, involving another person that is)

I recall being astonished when a work mate piped up that once every now and then was fine with him. Just scratch the itch and get on with life he reckoned, couldn't be bothered with anything flash, no "Batman costume jumping off the wardrobe" for this guy. I envy him in a way, life would be so much simpler without the little head talking the big head into "sticky" situations (excuse the lousy pun).

So, how prevalent is it that a womans sex drive actually overtakes their man's? All of a sudden you realise that you are the one doing the chasing instead of being chased, does it affect how you feel about your partner? About yourself?

[jrandom]

... that is a bit of a role reversal, isn't it? :shifty:

I'll switch with you anytime.

[Colapop]

You wouldn't fit her undies Dan!!

[007XX]

I'll switch with you anytime.

I'll make sure Neil knows...I just can't wait to see the look on his face! :lol:

[slowpoke]

My criterias for physical attraction in men has definitely changed since I neared 30. I used to be attracted to guys with dark olive skin, black hair and blue or dark eyes.
Now, I get weak at knees when I see my gorgeous hubby who has light bronze skin, blue eyes and blond hair.
Also, the body type I have noticed has gotten musclier and a bit taller.


So you actually have a type?

I can't say I've ever had a set criteria that had to be met or that particularly appealed. Sometimes you see a curvy Selma Hayek type woman that ooses sensuality, other times it's a hard bodied althlete that looks all lithe and lovely. A young woman in the full bloom of youth may catch your eye, but an older woman can have a knowing smile that is equally as enticing. Bronzed beauty's can be stunning but so to are those displaying a more porcelain perfection.

Nup, I can't say I've ever had a type, it's more how the sum of the parts (including that indefineable "something") come to gether as a whole.

[007XX]

So you actually have a type?

I can't say I've ever had a set criteria that had to be met or that particularly appealed. Sometimes you see a curvy Selma Hayek type woman that ooses sensuality, other times it's a hard bodied althlete that looks all lithe and lovely. A young woman in the full bloom of youth may catch your eye, but an older woman can have a knowing smile that is equally as enticing. Bronzed beauty's can be stunning but so to are those displaying a more porcelain perfection.

Nup, I can't say I've ever had a type, it's more how the sum of the parts (including that indefineable "something") come to gether as a whole.

:laugh: Good spotting, although I was refering to a type in general...The greater majority of individuals I seem attracted to at first glance, if you know what I mean.

But yes, I fully agree that I would find attractive different people on a case by case basis as well. It is not ruled entirely by physical attributes alone either...

For example, I find Anthony Hopkins mesmerizing, but it is entirely due to his charisma and presence. A true gentleman and someone that would be more than able to hold a conversation is so very appealing.

And sometimes, it is just a fantastic smile which does it for me, where everything else might be considered average by other people.

[Sparky Bills]

So where do you poop from???

You must spread rep around blah blah..

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

[Bikernereid]

I used to be quite rigid in my tatse in men when I was younger, they tended to be tall, dark skinned and had dark hair (muscles were a big bonus). As I have gotten older and hopefully wiser I have found that it is mostly about the personality and if they can make me laugh then wehey.

Now I find that the old 'should be this and should have' criteria has disappeared. if a guy sparks me with his wit, intelligence and is kind, sweet and respectful that is of more importance than wether he is tall etc etc. Amazing men come in all shapes, sizes and have various backgrounds and so long as they treat me well that is the main thing!


Now, to stay on topic...Cos you boys are just all over the show :bleh:

I'll start to answer the new angle I presented on this thread:

My criterias for physical attraction in men has definitely changed since I neared 30. I used to be attracted to guys with dark olive skin, black hair and blue or dark eyes.
Now, I get weak at knees when I see my gorgeous hubby who has light bronze skin, blue eyes and blond hair.
Also, the body type I have noticed has gotten musclier and a bit taller.

Now, this could be due to the fact that I took a very strong physical dislike to my ex who used to fit the first description. I don't know, but is a drastic turn around.

In regards to being adventurous...heck yeah! I've never been scared as per say, but it is more the ideas that come to mind and the willingness to give it a go that has changed.

And that's all I'm prepared to say on the matter. Right! Who's next?

[trump-lady]

So, how prevalent is it that a womans sex drive actually overtakes their man's? All of a sudden you realise that you are the one doing the chasing instead of being chased, does it affect how you feel about your partner? About yourself?


ME (30) + BOYFREIND (24) = Viagra
That stuff rocks

[oldrider]

ME (30) + BOYFREIND (24) = Viagra
That stuff rocks

"Viagra" at your age!

Frankly I think that is very sad.

Viagra at any age is very sad!

Then again am I just lucky, or missing something! :Oops: John