Info on Skelstar

[Fatjim]

Just got off the phone with Mel and she reports no change overnight which is a very good thing.

He's currently in a stable condition in Hutt Hospitals ICU unit, although he is still unconsious. The doctors have not yet decided when they intend to wake him up.

The ICU is closed for visits between 2 and 4pm each day and Mel has asked you not visit first thing this morning as the family want to spend some time with him.

If you visit him, and want somewhere to let everybody know how he is you can this thread.

Again, if you need more info then PM Deano, Darkman or myself.

----- 09:39am 25th -----
Mel's just txt'd me that he's waking up all by himself.

Fantastic news.

----- 09:57am 25th -----
Well he's awake, a "bit" groggy and hates the breathing tube. All good news.

I guess he'll be like this for a while now. If anything changes I'll let you guys know.

----- 12:52pm 25th -----
Cheers T.

Mel just txt'd and said today is not a good day. He's having another CT scan, I imagine this will be quite tiring for him since he's awake.

So please if you get this in time please hold off till tomoorow any plans to visit.

If anything changes I'll let you guys know.

----- 13:50pm 25th -----
Pretty good results from the the CT scan with nothing too worrying there.

He's asleep now and the doctors have asked now to keep visitors to family only.

Looks like his SHOEI X-ELEVEN Kagayama (in red) did the trick.

----- 10:38am 26th -----
Sean's much more responsive this morning and the Doctors say this is a good sign.

They expect to remove the ventilator this morning.

His dad's asked to hold off visiting Sean till 5-6pm tonight, Seans's very tired and visiting is a bit of a strain. Would be good to leave this to his closer friends today.

But feel free to call into the ICU to visit Mel and Sean's family anytime. Swiss chocolates were mentioned as an ideal gift.

----- 05:30pm 27th -----
Well he's talking to Mel now, just a bit. But small steps.

Apparently they left his contacts in a few days too long, before they noticed them, must have used the non tinted ones that day. I wonder how much of the grunting and nodding he's done over the last few days was "get my bloody contacts out"!

Sean's dad rang before to ask that we leave visiting to Saturday as he's going into surgery tomorrow for about 5 hours and he'll be in recovery till Friday.

He said feel free to show up anytime Saturday, but if it gets too much they may have to throttle back a bit on the visiting.

----- 09:31am 28th-----
Latest info that Sean's dad has asked me to pass on to y'all.

"Good day yesterday, some whispered talking, all making sense. Still in ICU but probably into ortho ward tomorrow. Leg Doctor explained fractures and remedial approach - screws and plates and he was very reassuring - no problems anticipated but some risks - infection and clots. Goes to theatre about midday for 5-6 hours. Tomorrow will likely be a quiet one recovering. Expect him to pick up Saturday and welcome visitors in small numbers. Would love to to see you anytime but you might not see Sean. Thanks for your support. Merv"

----- 11:01am 28th -----
Ok I have to do it, I tried to resist, but it was all too much.




While we were there Sean's mum came running out to say that Sean was talking - and making sense! It was a special moment for the three of them and we were priviledged to be there.

Indeed, a special moment is Skeltars life.

----- 01:51pm 28th -----

Well you can all forget about my post last night. What a difference a day makes. As I still have not charged up my phone I just popped in here to give you all some good news.

He is VERY alert and talking ALOT today. :) When I told him that he had been in a bike accident on the takas he smiled and looked at me and called me a nob, as if HE would have a bike accident! Doesnt believe me at all. I asked him if he would like visitors at some stage (after operation) and he does, so I asked how many he would like, he replied 5 million, so I guess hes going to be slightly disappointed with that. He put his arm around me and rubbed my back... sweetie. Anyhow... hes a little confused, wanted to go off to a conference this week he said, when I told he couldnt, he just said "we will see". Think hes having me on a bit. So good news aye!!

Oh and I told him that cowpoos wanted me to give him a hug from him, so he said "well do it then" so I did and it hurt, so good on ya Ryan, hurting my man like that ;)

Will answer txt etc when I get it charged. Have loads of work to do (at work atm) and I might stay over here tonight and come over in the morning to see him.

[Joni]

Thank you very much for this. :(

[TerminalAddict]

pass on my thoughts ... shit news, get better skel*

[Fatjim]

Mel's just txt'd me that he's waking up all by himself.

Fantastic news.

[007XX]

OMG :gob: :gob: I'm feeling sick to my stomach.

I've been away all weekend, so knew nothing of this!

All my thoughts of speedy recovery. I wish I was down the line to come and say Hi :weep:

[Fatjim]

Well he's awake, a "bit" groggy and hates the breathing tube. All good news.

I guess he'll be like this for a while now. If anything changes I'll let you guys know.

[Sully60]

That's encouraging news.
Like 007 I've been feeling a bit sick as well. Having been in a similar situation to Skel I really feel for him.
All the best mate, our thoughts are with you!

[sels1]

Hadnt been on KB yesterday, saw the article in the Dom this morning and thought holy crap, hope it wasnt....but.....
All the best with the recovery Skel, my thoughts are with you, and those that are close to you

[Colapop]

Thank f*ck for that. Hopefully his full recovery will be just as quick. Thanks for the update FJ. He'll be getting no hugs from me for a long time...

[Pex Adams]

Thank f*ck for that. Hopefully his full recovery will be just as quick. Thanks for the update FJ. He'll be getting no hugs from me for a long time...

+1

My thoughts exactly

[Freakshow]

Good to hear he is awake I don't know what happened and don't care so long as he gets better Glad to hear he is awake and please pass on best wishes!!

[McDuck]

Get well soon mate. (even tho i dont think i have met you)

[madmal64]

Fatjim for a star for relaying the info as it comes to hand. Legend there mate!

Wasnt the news anyone wanted and for me on my wedding aniversary it did put a bit of a damper on it when I heard about it. Got a couple of calls after the news it was an Aprilia that went down came out to see if it was me & then was the waiting for news period. Urgh!!

Skels..you work hard on getting yourself better. Im so glad to hear that you are going to be around with us for a while longer.
Might put a damper on your post count here on KB for a while! Then it may increase it!

Just shout out you people that are a lot closer to this than me if there anything that needs to be done and Im there in a flash!

[Number One]

That's encouraging news.
Like 007 I've been feeling a bit sick as well. Having been in a similar situation to Skel I really feel for him.
All the best mate, our thoughts are with you!

+1

My thoughts with Mel, family and other mates too!

Sooo pleased to hear you woke up by yourself S and are annoyed by that tube...very good sign.

Thanks for keeping us updated Fatjim - it really does help keep the butterflies under a bit of control.

[Kendog]

That is excellent news, thanks for the update.

Best wishes to you again Sean, will come see you soon.

[chanceyy]

Best news I have had today FJ .. thanks for the updates .. its appreciated


Sean heal up soon matey .. lissa let us know if you need anything :D

[Trudes]

Sean's parents have asked me to post to ask that people don't go up to the hospital just yet as Sean is still having tests at this stage and we won't be able to go in to see him just yet.
There will be plenty of time for visits, but just now there isn't anything for us to do but keep him in our thoughts. I'm sure it will be posted when visits will be good, but we don't want to fill the tiny waiting room at the moment.
Cheers all. :sunny:
T.

[ducatilover]

best of luck to skel*
hope you make a speedy recovery mate! i too have been away all weekend.
were all thinking about you dude

-doug

[bert_is_evil]

Oh no just logged in and found the biker down thread - terrible news, I'm so glad to hear you've woken up, get well soon Skel!

[Fatjim]

Cheers T.

Mel just txt'd and said today is not a good day. He's having another CT scan, I imagine this will be quite tiring for him since he's awake.

So please if you get this in time please hold off till tomoorow any plans to visit.

If anything changes I'll let you guys know.

[DingoZ]

Lots of good thoughts coming your way. Skel and Lisa.

Need anything or if anything can be done. Holler at me.


:niceone:

[Fatjim]

Pretty good results from the the CT scan with nothing too worrying there.

He's asleep now and the doctors have asked now to keep visitors to family only.

Looks like his SHOEI X-ELEVEN Kagayama (in red) did the trick.

[NZsarge]

Pretty good results from the the CT scan with nothing too worrying there.

He's asleep now and the doctors have asked now to keep visitors to family only.

Looks like his SHOEI X-ELEVEN Kagayama (in red) did the trick.

Sweet, that's good positive news, cheers.

[Waxxa]

I'm sure this goes for all Auckland riders, get well soon Skels'. Plenty of thoughts going to you and your family from the Big Smoke.

[Maha]

Thinking of you Skel....and Mel (Lissa)...:hug:

Cheers Fatjim for the updates...

[FROSTY]

Thanks for the updates FJ.

[bugjuice]

bloody heck, what hell happened?!?! didn't hear anything about this..

mate.. hope you pull thru it all fast n well.. my thoughts n funny feelins are with ya Skel*, and all the family too.

all the best mate, hope you're back soon
gutted to see this

[riffer]

Not good to hear. Just logged in after a couple days off the site and see this. Let us know when he can have visitors guys and I'll go and say howdy.

GWS Sean.

[Vapor]

Althought I have never met you Skel, You have always been nothing but helpful in your replies to my posts, Hope you have a speedy recovery mate. Take care! My thoughts are with all involved.

[Fatjim]

Firstly, I made a mistake. After confering with Darkman it's been established his helmet was an XR1000, not the X-Spirit, but importantly it's still the red Kagayama.

Well I popped into to Mel and the Family as did a few others today including Str8jacket, Tazman, Crazylittleshit and Darkman.

We managed to piss off the staff there by all sneaking in and having a chat to Skel about his lack of personal skills at the moment, in that he wasn't up to much a chit-chat like normal.

Mel managed to get some good responses out of him though. The doctors are encouraging the family to spend time with to help him start to stay awake a bit longer, so they can get the breathing tube out sooner rather than later.

The ICU is closed 7am-9am and 2pm-4pm everyday and you won't get in their during that time. I'll check with Mel in the morning whether the staff are happy for the throng to start showing up tomorrow, Although if you want to go and give Mel and Skel's family some support I'm sure they won't mind.

[Keystone19]

Thanks for the updates Jim. Thoughts are with you Sean and Mel. Wish I could do more.

Jill

[Rashika]

ditto here fatjim... glad he is awake and talking/grumbling, thats always a good sign :niceone: for your updates

[Fatjim]

Well he ain't talking just yet, the tube makes that impossible, and those of you who him well will admit thats a bit of a hardship.

[Sparky Bills]

All the best Sean. Glad you had a good lid!
Good luck with a speedy recovery!!:headbang:

[Macktheknife]

Sad news Sean, heal fast and well mate, all the best to you and your family.
Thanks for the updates FJ.

[Str8 Jacket]

I got in to see Sean twice today. He looks OK and apparently has smiled as well. I think he is going to be OK, he did a few things today that will hopefully mean that he'll open his eyes soon. That will be cool.
His family and Mel are really holding up well I thought. Its been awesome to see how many people came up today and text them etc. This is what KB is really all about.

[elle-f]

Well he ain't talking just yet, the tube makes that impossible, and those of you who him well will admit thats a bit of a hardship.

:laugh: @ the hardship of not talking. jim - thank you for the updates.

[Rashika]

Well he ain't talking just yet, the tube makes that impossible, and those of you who him well will admit thats a bit of a hardship.

not everyone talks just with their mouth tho... :innocent:

[nick69]

Best wishes Sean and Mel. I had a big off in September which left me the same as you and i have made a full recovery. Its hard at times but be positive. The members of KB are an amazing bunch and i cannot thank them enough for their support. If you want to talk to someone who has been there and is till going through it please drop me a line. Get well soon mate and be strong Mel. Best Wishes

[McDuck]

J
Looks like his SHOEI X-ELEVEN Kagayama (in red) did the trick.

Best advertising a helmet maker can have...

[cowpoos]

I heard there was a accident involving Sean,while at manfield yesterday...heart kinda sunk a little bit...as He's a dam good mate!!

Could one or more of the welly crew give Mel a big hug from me Please..and Tell Skel I'm thinking of him and wishing for a speedy and full recovery!!

[Lissa]

Sean had a goodnight, but a very sleepy one. He just needs to wake up a bit now, will be off to the hospital soon to bug him.

Cellphone is all charged up so please keep sending txts if you are worried or for any reason, it is nice to receive them and can make the long day go a little faster.

Cheers

[Pwalo]

Sean had a goodnight, but a very sleepy one. He just needs to wake up a bit now, will be off to the hospital soon to bug him.

Cheers

Good to hear Sean's getting on ok. He'll probably be a bit sleepy for a while yet though, so don't bug him too much!!

[Devil]

Get well soon Sean. Hope you're not keeping the ICU awake with that snoring!

[Lissa]

He needs to wake, and be stimulated to wake, its important that he is more alert so we can get that damn breathing tube out. Hes had enough sleep, hes got to do some work now.

[Lissa]

Get well soon Sean. Hope you're not keeping the ICU awake with that snoring!

You know, I think this may have cured that snoring... hes as quiet as a mouse.

[et al]

My thoughts are with you Sean, all the best for a speedy recovery.

[Swoop]

He needs to wake,... Hes had enough sleep, hes got to do some work now.
Let him have a good snooze. It's probably like having a shag and then needing a good kip afterwards.:zzzz:

"Got work to do"!?? You better not have him out mowing the lawn and painting the roof... just yet:whistle:



:first:

[Fatjim]

If anyone wants Mel's cellphone number PM me.

Don't forget to put your name at the end of the txt.

[pzkpfw]

Take (sneak) photos.

My experience (visiting friend) is that he won't remember who visited him, but he may like a reminder.


Best wishes.

[Finn]

If anyone wants Mel's cellphone number PM me.

Jesus, talk about hitting a man when he's down!

[slowpoke]

WTF??!! I've been on shift all night and managed to miss it until now...I don't know whether to be upset or relieved. Sounds like the signs are all positive so long may the trend continue.
Best wishes to ya, Sean, and to those nearest and dearest.

Oh yeah, for what it's worth, nothing perks a bloke up like boobs and beer...and no, the order in which they are presented is not particularly important....

[crashe]

Sean, all the best for a speedy recovery.
Oh and wake up and check out all the gorgeous nurses..... but do it sneakily when Lissa isn't around :msn-wink: :whistle:

Lissa, do look after yourself as well.....

[ipod1098]

Good luck with a speedy recovery mate! all the best ipod

[Dodger]

Get well soon,
These valley riders are tough, so you will be fine :)

[babyB]

thoughts and wishes to ya Skel for a good recovery

[Fatjim]

Sean's much more responsive this morning and the Doctors say this is a good sign.

They expect to remove the ventilator this morning.

His dad's asked to hold off visiting Sean till 5-6pm tonight, Seans's very tired and visiting is a bit of a strain. Would be good to leave this to his closer friends today.

But feel free to call into the ICU to visit Mel and Sean's family anytime. Swiss chocolates were mentioned as an ideal gift.

[Fatjim]

If anyone wants Mel's cellphone number PM me.

Don't forget to put your name at the end of the txt.

This is hilarious, everyone who has pm'd has misread this post. I don't want your name in the PM, but Mel wants your name in the txt as she most likely won't have your number in her address book!

[James Deuce]

I actually read it the same way Finn did.

[Fatjim]

Right guys, slapping time. :spanking: :bash: :girlfight: :mad: :argue: :2guns: :angry: :Police: :Oi:


Don't ask the Docotrs at the ICU about Sean's condition. They won't tell you, but might slip something nasty into your cup of tea.:sick:

Carry on.

[Fatjim]

I actually read it the same way Finn did.

I would expect nothing less from desperate old men.

[Ocean1]

Right guys, slapping time.

Oh yes, they're bloody good but they're VERY protective. Beware of fuzzy haired blondes in particular. :whistle:

[Number One]

they're bloody good but they're VERY protective.

Tooo bloody right! They need to be just stroppy enough to be effective.

[Finn]

I would expect nothing less from desperate old men.

I'm still in my thirties, thank you very much.

[steveb64]

Bloody good news to hear Skel's is improving rapidly! :niceone: One thing to remember Skel's - Once you start healing, every morning, it'll hurt less than the day before! So hang in there, and mend well dude! :doctor: :rockon:

[Fatjim]

I'm still in my thirties, thank you very much.
1930's?

Da-da da-da da da, da-da da-da da da

[sels1]

You know, I think this may have cured that snoring... hes as quiet as a mouse.

Sounds like a drastic way to cure snoring....

But actually its probably the tube thats doing that I'm afraid

[Trudes]

Hell, now you've probably given Mel some evil ideas on how to stop Skel's snoring (loads of tubing here you can have hun!)

[James Deuce]

So long as it's not a boob tube.

Or maybe that would be just the thing!

[Trudes]

*mental images of Sean in a boob tube* ewwwerrrr:lol:, he'd look lovely in make-up, actually, that gives me evil ideas on making him wake up and stay awake for a while.... the fear of Trudes putting make-up all over his face if he stays asleep too long!!!

[007XX]

the fear of Trudes putting make-up all over his face if he stays asleep too long!!!

:shit: would work for me! :eek: :laugh:

Awesome news that he is doing a bit better. His dry sense of humour is being missed.

[Drew]

Just popped my head in before visiting closed till later. (Hadn't read this thread before going.)

Got a smile out of him, Lissa thinks it was her kiss on the cheek he grinned for, but I know it was mine:cool:

Heal up brother, you got work to do on the stunt bike, and tyre warmers to put on at the hill climb.

[gijoe1313]

Thanks for the update, glad to hear there has been some progress positively in his condition .........

[Al]

Best wishes for a speedy recovery Sean and thoughts are with all, Mel and the rest of your (extended) family!

Not much I can do from the "West Island", but you are both in my thoughts and prayers!

Take care

Al

[twotyred]

Just popped my head in before visiting closed till later. (Hadn't read this thread before going.)

Got a smile out of him, Lissa thinks it was her kiss on the cheek he grinned for, but I know it was mine:cool:

Heal up brother, you got work to do on the stunt bike, and tyre warmers to put on at the hill climb.

smiles are ALWAYS good in these situations:2thumbsup... all the best to all involved.

[Mom]

What a horrible time for you all! I have not met this man yet, tho I have an online thing with his lovely lady :o

What an awesome thread to keep looking into. Sean, keep up the slow but steady recovery. And to all the rest of his friends and family, my thoughts are with you all as well. This is KB at work for sure!

:love: Anne

[Guitana]

Heard about Seans accident while at the superbikes in manfield.
Its always a bummer when one of our fellow bikers has such a nasty off.
Some of us know too well what Seans going through, and wish him a speedy recovery.
Get well soon and hope to see you back on the hill!!!

[SDU]

Sean's much more responsive this morning and the Doctors say this is a good sign.

They expect to remove the ventilator this morning.

His dad's asked to hold off visiting Sean till 5-6pm tonight, Seans's very tired and visiting is a bit of a strain. Would be good to leave this to his closer friends today.

But feel free to call into the ICU to visit Mel and Sean's family anytime. Swiss chocolates were mentioned as an ideal gift.

Great news! Thanks for the updates,
Best wishes for Sean & the the family in this tough time

[Drew]

Went to see him again tonight, but the doctors say he is responding better to close family than many different visitors, so might pay for an invite before goin down to see him.

He is responding well to Lissas visits, and even without being able to talk, is trying to get her not to smoke by makin faces when she goes to have one. Poor lass is having to tell him she is taking a wizz.

And I've just heard a wee first hand story from Flame, that his sense of humor has not been affected at all. Good news too, cos he aint got fuck all else goin for him. Just kidding bro, you're THE MAN!

[Renegade]

holy hell, this is the first i have heard of this,

i never met the guy but he always waved out to me when we passed each other,

hope he gets well soon :hug:

[Lissa]

Tonight Sean is very drowsy, so I just stayed and held his hand and read a dirty FHM magazine that someone had brought... really embarrassing when I turn the page and theres a half naked women on it and the nurse right behind me!! Sheezz didnt have anything else .... you guys need to read real stuff like womans day or something.

He gets worn out and tired from visits, so its best that until he is alert and able to interact that it is just family and close friends that visit. His parents and sister are doing really well under the circumstances. He hopefully will be having his legs operated on on Thursday.

Feel alot better today, because even though it is fleeting he does seem to be more alert when he is awake. Cant really say much more than that. Will try and keep you posted. Am on Seans computer, so I think he left it running and it looked like he was logged on, sorry it was just me.

Thanks for the txts guys its awesome. Thanks hels for the loan of the clothes, will get them back to you chick!

Cheers Mel.

[koba]

Hey Mel,
Good to hear he is sounding alot better. Glad to meet his family yesterday and find they all seem like real good sorts. lots of thoughts for them in such a tough time. Sean is sooo scarily like his dad aye!

[Sparky Bills]

Please wish him all the best for me. :rockon:
Shows that hes a strong boy to handle such an off! Hang in there Skels!

[Fatjim]

Yeah good to hear. Make sure you don't wear him out though. :)

[The Tazman]

Just got home from work and glad to hear things are looking better all the time for Sean. I can do a full nights (well day really!!) sleep now.

Mel, both phones will be on and by the bed just in case though :yes:

Taz

[Lissa]

No change over night. Going to head down soon. Cellphone is getting flat and have to get hold of a charger. Gary you can come down to the hospital anytime you know to see us. :)

Oh and thanks to coffeeman (kapitiken)

[Str8 Jacket]

No change over night. Going to head down soon. Cellphone is getting flat and have to get hold of a charger. Gary you can come down to the hospital anytime you know to see us. :)

Oh and thanks to coffeeman (kapitiken)

Stay positive chick, he will wake up soon!

*hugs* :)

[Dooly]

Been in the same situation as Skel, ventilator, ICU etc etc.
It all takes time, but a good attitude is paramount.
He probably wont remember much, but ICU staff are superb.

Best wishes.

[Edbear]

Please wish him all the best for me. :rockon:
Shows that hes a strong boy to handle such an off! Hang in there Skels!

+1.....:sunny:

[Colapop]

Sometimes it's too much to say words and do stuff. Just being there is sometimes enough. Much *hugs* my thoughts are with you - Sean, Mel and your families.

[Fatjim]

Well he's talking to Mel now, just a bit. But small steps.

Apparently they left his contacts in a few days too long, before they noticed them, must have used the non tinted ones that day. I wonder how much of the grunting and nodding he's done over the last few days was "get my bloody contacts out"!

Sean's dad rang before to ask that we leave visiting to Saturday as he's going into surgery tomorrow for about 5 hours and he'll be in recovery till Friday.

He said feel free to show up anytime Saturday, but if it gets too much they may have to throttle back a bit on the visiting.

[Skunk]

Steady improvement - that's good. Hope it's not too tiring on Mel and Sean's parents.

I'll put off visiting until he's really up to it.

[Colapop]

Thanks Jim. You're a good mate for not telling the nurses about his contacts! ya bastidge

I'm voting next week or so will be a god time for me to visit once the dust has settled.

[Number One]

So good to hear Sean has managed some words. I'll bet they were the most thrilling words Mels heard in a long time whatever they were!

[janno]

Just caught up with the news - scary stuff :gob:

Best wishes to everyone and I hope a speedy, trouble free recovery is on the cards. Fingers and toes crossed and positive thoughts coming your way . . .

Jan.

[BiK3RChiK]

Well he's talking to Mel now, just a bit. But small steps.

Apparently they left his contacts in a few days too long, before they noticed them, must have used the non tinted ones that day. I wonder how much of the grunting and nodding he's done over the last few days was "get my bloody contacts out"!



Owww! They tend to dry up if left in!

Good to hear he is making small steps forward. Steady as it goes. Healing takes time...

You are doing a fine job of updating everyone Fatjim! I have never met Skelstar but am following all this anyway. Well done, you! +1 from me!!

M

[onearmedbandit]

Thanks for the updates. See you back on here soon Sean.

[Pussy]

Great positive news! I like your strong constitution, Sean.
And Mel... you rock!
Looking forward to every positive update
Cheers

[RantyDave]

Well he's talking to Mel now, just a bit. But small steps.
Bloody hell, just starting to speak after a prang on Sunday? OMG.

No visiting for a while then. Gawd.

Dave

[Deano]

Apparently they left his contacts in a few days too long, before they noticed them, must have used the non tinted ones that day. I wonder how much of the grunting and nodding he's done over the last few days was "get my bloody contacts out"!

So maybe he wasn't actually reaching for the ventilator tube all those times.....can you imagine the frustration !!

It was great to see him today, awake and eyes open. I mentioned coffee and how he hadn't had one for a few days - he replied with one word........beer !!

The nurse had an ear probe to take his temp and before she inserted it he looked sideways at me and gave a corny grin like where was she going to put it.

Nice one Skels. It's such a relief to see you on the mend.

Visits are obviously tiring for him, but despite pretending to be asleep for 10 minutes or so, when I said I had to go and would catch up over next couple of days, he grunted in acknowledgement, eyes still closed, resting but listening.

[Mom]

Nice small steps make for steady progress.

Love to all Anne

[Lissa]

Well hes a worry. Every little reaction I get from him makes me so happy. So he smiled when I told him I was tired and if I could lie down next to him. And yes he said a couple of words to me... they were good too. I cling to them. It has only been a few days since the accident and he needs time to heal.

Hes still not out of the woods, there are alot of unknowns. I mean talking and nodding and opening his eyes sounds great,but he does this very briefly,he may very well have alot of damage up there in his noggin. And he is in a lot of pain.


I know its hard, you feel like you want to do something, we all feel like this. There is just nothing we can do, and its a horrible feeling. He has a great bunch of friends and I thank everyone who has helped me... you all rock, I mean it, I dont have much family over here, so I really appreciate it!!! It really is awesome to get people come by just to see how he is and to have a little natter with us as we wait to take our turn. (We have taken over a corner of the waiting room, and have lots of food on offer!) Sean also has friends who arent Kiwi Bikers, two very close ones who I think should also get some time with him.... because I really think he would love to have them there. Its hard to determine who gets to see him, because only two people can see him at a time, and each new visit tires him out. I'm not being grumpy I think its great those that have visited him have done, I am just trying to figure out who Sean would really like to see at this time, as he has no choice at the moment.

But hopefully.... fingers crossed, he will be in a ward soon.

The amount of time it takes for him to start to walk again is going to depend on his brain function, but also on his fractured back. We have to get all three of these things right, before he is right and its going to be along haul.

I dont live near the hospital, and am going to have to at some stage get back to work and the children. I will be making the trip to visit him alot in the afternoon and at the weekends... and that scares me, because I want to be with him always, so this week I am having with him is highly important to me.

But staying positive... he thought it was a great idea that I lie in the bed with him! And everyday is a new day, we just dont know what it is going to be like for him.

[Deviant Esq]

I just hopped on KB for no good reason and felt that nasty feeling in the gut that you get, when something bad has happened to someone you care about, when I spotted this thread.

I'm relieved that the thread details are about Skel*'s recovery process and not anything worse.

Is anyone able to enlighten me on the nature of his accident? I've gleaned that it seemed to have happened at Manfield. Can anyone elaborate?

Skel*: Thoughts are with you and Lissa. You had be bloody worried for a minute mate, and I'm thoroughly relieved you're still able to grumble at people! Good signs. I'll be watching this thread for updates on your condition, but in the meantime, no hurry, here's hoping you patch up well and make a full recovery. Will spot you a beer when I'm up in Welly sometime. :niceone:

[MyGSXF]

Awesome to hear positive news! All the best Skels :2thumbsup

You're doing great Lissa :hug: just remember to look after yourself too babe!! :msn-wink:

Jen :rockon:

[Lissa]

Off to hospital soon. Sean is having the operation today, so its probably not worth coming down at all, as we are all going to have a break from the hospital for a while.

My cellphone battery is flat (hehe should have got you to come down Mark!) but I am off home to get more supplies today, and to see the kids (they have some pressies for sean) so will grab the cellphone charger then, and will answer any txts when I can.

[Swoop]

I know its hard, you feel like you want to do something, we all feel like this. There is just nothing we can do, and its a horrible feeling.
Hi Lissa. Look after yourself and don't wear yourself down too much.
Skel* will require your strength in the longer run, once he is fully recovering.

Take care.:niceone:

[yungatart]

Hi Lissa. Look after yourself and don't wear yourself down too much.
Skel* will require your strength in the longer run, once he is fully recovering.

Take care.:niceone:

You took the words right out of my mouth.....
Take care of yourself Lissa
We will continue to send positive thoughts your way and Skels.

[Fatjim]

Latest info that Sean's dad has asked me to pass on to y'all.

"Good day yesterday, some whispered talking, all making sense. Still in ICU but probably into ortho ward tomorrow. Leg Doctor explained fractures and remedial approach - screws and plates and he was very reassuring - no problems anticipated but some risks - infection and clots. Goes to theatre about midday for 5-6 hours. Tomorrow will likely be a quiet one recovering. Expect him to pick up Saturday and welcome visitors in small numbers. Would love to to see you anytime but you might not see Sean. Thanks for your support. Merv"

[Okey Dokey]

Thanks for the updates on Skel's progress, Lissa. You are an amazing lady! Stay strong, both of you. There are lots of us thinking of you each and every day.

[Drum]

I haven't been online and my heart sank when I got Shadows' text telling me the news.

All the best to Skel and his close friends and family. Gutted.

[Grub]

Nasty and I were able to pop in yesterday at midday to take Mel a survival kit (4 girlie mags and two bike mags) and to meet Seans mum and dad. As Mel said, they've taken over the waiting area outside the ward so we were all flopped there.

While we were there Sean's mum came running out to say that Sean was talking - and making sense! It was a special moment for the three of them and we were priviledged to be there.

[Fatjim]

Ok I have to do it, I tried to resist, but it was all too much.




While we were there Sean's mum came running out to say that Sean was talking - and making sense! It was a special moment for the three of them and we were priviledged to be there.

Indeed, a special moment is Skeltars life.

[007XX]

:clap: How very awesome!!!!

Interesting how much the simple ability of speech is taken for granted, until it is taken away.

Fantastic news. Lissa, as everyone has said, you're an amazing lady, and I can only barely imagine how you feel. Take good care.

[Kendog]

Indeed, a special moment is Skeltars life.

All great news really.
Thanks Fatjim and Lissa for keeping us updated on his progress. The small steps are big ones at times like this.

[Pex Adams]

Ok I have to do it, I tried to resist, but it was all too much.



Indeed, a special moment is Skeltars life.

Wait till he has his first poo... Imagine the people running round celebrating that:doctor::doctor::doctor:

[Lissa]

Well you can all forget about my post last night. What a difference a day makes. As I still have not charged up my phone I just popped in here to give you all some good news.

He is VERY alert and talking ALOT today. :) When I told him that he had been in a bike accident on the takas he smiled and looked at me and called me a nob, as if HE would have a bike accident! Doesnt believe me at all. I asked him if he would like visitors at some stage (after operation) and he does, so I asked how many he would like, he replied 5 million, so I guess hes going to be slightly disappointed with that. He put his arm around me and rubbed my back... sweetie. Anyhow... hes a little confused, wanted to go off to a conference this week he said, when I told he couldnt, he just said "we will see". Think hes having me on a bit. So good news aye!!

Oh and I told him that cowpoos wanted me to give him a hug from him, so he said "well do it then" so I did and it hurt, so good on ya Ryan, hurting my man like that ;)

Will answer txt etc when I get it charged. Have loads of work to do (at work atm) and I might stay over here tonight and come over in the morning to see him.

[Mikkel]

That's awesome news indeed. :yes:

Man, he's going to be guttered (sic) when he finds out you're not joking about the bike bit ;)

[Trudes]

Great news Mel. Poor confused boy, we should tell him all sorts of shit and really confuse him:confused:, :laugh: nah, just kidding. Hope his op goes good today and he is back to telling us all to pull our heads in soon.:msn-wink: Pity we can't torture him by taking him to the buckets on Sunday, I'm sure Nige wouldn't mind sharing his brolly dolly/pit bitch job with him!

[RantyDave]

When I told him that he had been in a bike accident on the takas he smiled and looked at me and called me a nob, as if HE would have a bike accident!
So, how does he *think* he got into hospital? Clearly getting very much better anyway. Whohoo!

Dave

[Lissa]

So, how does he *think* he got into hospital? Clearly getting very much better anyway. Whohoo!

Dave
He has no idea why he is there. I told him he is having an operation and wanted to know why. I said because of his legs (but didnt go into detail) and he said "that sounds bad", so I just told him he will fine. We have been telling him the last few days why he is there, it just must never of sunk in.

[Deano]

He has no idea why he is there. I told him he is having an operation and wanted to know why. I said because of his legs (but didnt go into detail) and he said "that sounds bad", so I just told him he will fine. We have been telling him the last few days why he is there, it just must never of sunk in.

Drugs :doctor:

[Number One]

We have been telling him the last few days why he is there, it just must never of sunk in.

Hubby couldn't remember whole sections of time and conversations. Even conversations we'd had weeks after his accident he couldn't remember - came in handy at times actually :shutup: Yes dear remember we talked about it and you said I could go and get that.....

Great to hear Sean is alert and looking forward to seeing some people - hope the op goes well today and look forward to seeing him (and meeting you Lissa) once he is up to it.

Keep up the good work Sean! Take care Lissa! :sunny::sunny:

[Swoop]

A KB'er talking and making sense...
Oh dear. We'll have to get that stopped forthwith!

Just tell him that he is in hospital to get some wisdom teeth put in...
:sunny:

[Bigbadflyer]

Hi Guys, well this is my first post on KB. I've been sitting back in the wings a bit just watching and reading. Have been meaning to say hello but never got around to it. I was going to introduce myseif to Skel as I brought an Aprilia, live in Lower Hutt and wanted to say hi. (I still will!!)
Next thing I see hes managed to lay himself up in hospital for a little while :doh:

Anyway Lissa I thought I would let you know that my partner works up in the hospital Theater (she the nice one that puts you to sleep) and she said to say to you that she will make sure she takes extra special care of Sean while he's with her. (See.... there are biker chicks everywhere!!). Shes been keeping an extra eye out for him. We biker types need to look after each other :niceone:

The people helping him are some of the best in the country so hes in safe hands.
Trust me I live with one of them!!

He sounds like a hell of a nice guy and respected by lots and lots of people so I look forward to meeting the both of you one day soon.

Cheye

[scumdog]

Welcome to this loony-bin Bigbadflyer, you'll regret joining up, your social standing will slip, you'll be tainted by contacting dead-beats and drongos, you'll realise you bought the wrong brand of bike, your riding is crap and you know bugger all about anything:stupid: - and then there's the other KBers who aren't too bad.:devil2:

And glad Skelstar has another friend or two...:niceone:

[Clivoris]

:woohoo:Shit hot news. Thanks for the updates Jim, Mel and family.
Keep that healing up Sean. Make sure you get everything put back together well cos there might be a queue of people wanted to give you a bit of a kicking for the scare you've given us. Not me of course, I'm a soft bastard, but I've heard that mate of yours Deano has a mean thigh kick.
Great that the theatre nurse is one of us too (welcome BBF, she might be a keeper eh).

[madmal64]

Lissa that fantastic news! I have been waiting to hear this sort of news. Its a good step forward.
Great now they can get on with the job of rebuilding the Skels:niceone:

[phoenixgtr]

Awesome news Mel!! I'd love to know how he thinks he's going to get to this conference

[Kinje]

Thats great to hear and must be a great joy and relief to you Mel. It certainly put a big smile on my dial that did.

Keep going hard and getting betterer and betterer Skel*

[James Deuce]

Drugs :doctor:

No. Classic head injury short term memory loss.

[Fatjim]

Drugs :doctor:

Always trying to make a buck aren't you Deano. :lol:

[Clivoris]

Well... The other good news is that he is now eligible to apply for membership of the Royal Society of Bionic Biking Bro's (NZ branch). Information on membership is difficult to find and they tend to be very secretive, but us outsiders might notice the odd clue like flash scarring, a bit of a limp or a very real enthusiasm for the truly important things in life. Last I heard some geezer called Gremlin was the Pres with another fullah called Jason Mckewen doing the V.P. duties. Now that I think about it there's a bit of a ginga theme going on there. Coincidence?

[Insanity_rules]

Wow, been reading that and what do you say but I wish Skel a speedy recovery.

[ajturbo]

good to hear that things are getting a lot better!!!:clap:

more important.... how is the bike?

[Clivoris]

more important.... how is the bike?

It's all good. It's not a Buell so that's a good start.:Pokey:

[Drew]

Got the bike here now, it aint bad, but it's less pretty by far. I'll start a thread soon for those who would like to help out with the repairs in what ever capacity that might be.

PM me for early offers if ya like.

[Deano]

No. Classic head injury short term memory loss.


Yeah yeah that too. The cheeky smile he gave me was not from memory loss.

[Deano]

Got the bike here now, it aint bad, but it's less pretty by far. I'll start a thread soon for those who would like to help out with the repairs in what ever capacity that might be.

PM me for early offers if ya like.

I've got a fibreglass kit and some builders bog. And you've seen my work.

[mv.senna]

OMG! I just signed on for the first time this week, I'm so sorry to hear about this and that Skelstar's in a bad way - but awfully glad to hear he's getting better day by day.

All the best for a speedy and complete recovery Sean. Hugs to you and your family/special lady.

best thoughts,
jo

[skidMark]

I've got a fibreglass kit and some builders bog. And you've seen my work.

The crash did enough damage, step away from the motormasickle! :blink:

[elle-f]

Thanks for the updates - I am reading.

[Trudes]

Hi all. I just picked up a msg on my phone from Mel from about 8pm last night :doh:..... She asked me to tell you all that The Op went well and he is snoring his head off!
Sounds good, things back to normal eh Mel, snoring his head off!!! She says he's off to a ward today, so that's great news!! Yahh Sean!!:niceone:

[Nasty]

absolutely fantastic news ... that is both the snoring and the off to a ward .... heal well Sean .. .stay strong Lissa ... and look after yourselves .. both of you!

[Pex Adams]

Hi all. I just picked up a msg on my phone from Mel from about 8pm last night :doh:..... She asked me to tell you all that The Op went well and he is snoring his head off!
Sounds good, things back to normal eh Mel, snoring his head off!!! She says he's off to a ward today, so that's great news!! Yahh Sean!!:niceone:

Thanks God for that - I would have been guttered to know that they stopped him snoring:zzzz::zzzz::zzzz:

[Str8 Jacket]

Woohooo!! Go Sean! :wari::wari::wari:

[Maha]

Thanks God for that - I would have been guttered to know that they stopped him snoring:zzzz::zzzz::zzzz:

Im sure Mel would have happily signed the papers if the surgeon had suggested that it was a prime time to get that weee problem solved....:zzzz:

[Pex Adams]

Im sure Mel would have happily signed the papers if the surgeon had suggested that it was a prime time to get that weee problem solved....:zzzz:

Our wonderful woman need to know we're still alive - thats why we snore (well thats why I do:msn-wink:)

[RantyDave]

he is snoring his head off!
This is going to be great. He's going to recover, come back to KB, and discover that we've all been talking about how much he snores :)

Dave

[Number One]

ooo good - was wondering and pleased to hear op went well. Snore and heal on Sean! :banana::wari::2thumbsup

[Lissa]

This is going to be great. He's going to recover, come back to KB, and discover that we've all been talking about how much he snores :)

Dave

Not just that, he is going to be so pissed to see how much rep I have from this thread. But he cant complain too much, at least it is kinda bike related.... eh babe.

Quite hard trying to work out what Skellybum would like posted and what he wouldnt. I think snoring is the least of this worries at the moment, and will give him a good reason to come back to kb and be grumpy, will give Jim2 a run for his money I think.

Anyway as trudes said he is being moved to a ward today.. not sure when, and not sure if he will be up to visitors today, I will txt James or Dean and let you know when I get there.

Cheers everyone, there are alot of people I have to thank... you have all been so awesome. Skelly is a very lucky man, as I am!! And some of you I havent even meet yet. :hug:

[Hitcher]

Skelly is a very lucky man, as I am!! And some of you I havent even meet yet.


Is there something you should be sharing with us, Lissa?

And great news about Sean.

[James Deuce]

One of the nurses probably taught Mel how to intubate - no more snoring!

[ipod1098]

Great news Sean is on the mend!!
Does anybody know how or what caused the crash??

[James Deuce]

a. Does somthing have to cause it?

b. Not in this thread, not right now. Let Sean talk about that IF he ever wants to, IF he ever remembers.

[McDuck]

Great news Sean is on the mend!!
Does anybody know how or what caused the crash??

Somthing happened. Other threads out there.

[ipod1098]

Somthing happened. Other threads out there.

uummmm ok? care to clarify?
No worries Jim.(just thought somebody might know what happened, maybe prevent it from happening to someone else..)
All the best to Skel Mel and family.
If he needs any parts i have some bits and pieces laying about.

[Str8 Jacket]

If he needs any parts i have some bits and pieces laying about.

Talk to Drew.... He has thebike and is starting to fix it up. You may be able to help out. There is a thread somewhere....

[Drew]

Talk to Drew.... He has thebike and is starting to fix it up. You may be able to help out. There is a thread somewhere....

http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showthread.php?p=1450788#post1450788

For anyone who can help in any way.

[et al]

Am so pleased to hear Sean is on the mend and things are looking better.

[Groins_NZ]

Hope everything's going to be okay for you Sean.

[fireliv]

Everyday things look a little brighter, lets hope it just stays that way!!

:rockon:

[Iggy]

Hi Lissa thats great news about Sean, hope he makes a speedy recovery, :c dont know you guys personally but I know what you are going through as my brother had the same kind of injuries as Sean. Take care as we bikers are always there to support you both in any way we can.
Kind Regards
Iggy

[Deano]

Sean's dad Merv has asked me to post this update, in Fatjim's absence.

Sean is out of ICU and in a ward - great news.

The operation took less time than anticipated which is also a positive thing, however the op and the move have knocked him about a bit and so the doctors have again restricted visits to family only. The doctors have said at this stage, the less stimuli and more rest the better.

Updates will continue as they are received. Hopefully he will be up for more visitors again next week.

[twotyred]

Drugs :doctor:

yup,morphine et al, does that to ya ,have had the same experience with a mate in a bike accident years ago... just laughed at us when we told him he had stacked his bike....

[The Tazman]

Great to hear Deano. Thanks mate. have taken to just following this thread rather than texting you as I'm sure you have more than enough on your mind.

It's times like this that I think this site really shows it's true colours. Bloody fanTAZtic everyone. I'm proud to be part of it.

All the best Sean looking forward to seeing you a bit more with it :yes:

[Edbear]

... The doctors have said at this stage, the less stimuli and more rest the better...

Lissa...?;)

[FROSTY]

Hey guys just a thought from someone thats recently "been there"
I'd suggest keep the visits short n sweet and down to one or two of yas at a time - Its fucking fantastic being visited by ya mates but its petty hard work too.
Hes gonna need yas over then next few weeks n months as well

[Hitcher]

The doctors have said at this stage, the less stimuli and more rest the better.

Good advice. Major head trauma/concussion can take up to a year to fully recover from. In the first couple of months the less *thinking* one can do, the better: no TV, no reading books, no Sudoku puzzles, no going back to work, etc. Doing too much too soon will only prolong the recovery time. And concussion victims will not remember any advice medical staff give them at or immediately following their accident. That's why it's important for friends and family to help them along by reminding them what they shouldn't be doing.

[Lissa]

Good advice. Major head trauma/concussion can take up to a year to fully recover from. In the first couple of months the less *thinking* one can do, the better: no TV, no reading books, no Sudoku puzzles, no going back to work, etc. Doing too much too soon will only prolong the recovery time. And concussion victims will not remember any advice medical staff give them at or immediately following their accident. That's why it's important for friends and family to help them along by reminding them what they shouldn't be doing.

Yup!

I think I am finally over the shock of the past week, because its 'recovery time'. I can be quite and pessimistic person sometimes but unfortunatly I have absolutely no control over how well or fast sean recovers. The best thing that I can do for him is to be postive. There is nothing I can say, or do that is going to heal Sean, except being there for him when I can and not Stimulating Him :calm:

Cheers everyone. Esp the people who have txt me, even though I have been unable to reply to everyone, each message means alot. Yea.. Anne not a slack tart anymore :) Hels.. you are the best!!!! :2thumbsup Drew and Vicki, Deano... Wonderful. Everyone who has come in and given us books, magazines, food even or just come to catch up... oh and big thanks to coffee man!!. You are all wonderful. Fatjim...you have gone out of your way to help us, but especially me in any way you can.... you have no idea how much everything you have done is appreciated. You have been there the whole time, from the moment you rang me from the hill last Sunday to today when you rang to see how he was. :hug: from me and Sean. THANK YOU!! I might not even make fun of you online from now on ;)

[Fatjim]

If anyone wishes to send Skelly anything while he's in hospital pm me and I'll give you his details.

His dad has also ask everyone to refrain from visiting at this stage.

[Mom]

Yup!

Yea.. Anne not a slack tart anymore :) ...... :hug: from me and Sean. THANK YOU!! I might not even make fun of you online from now on ;)


Please dont stop being a bit naughty here on account of the fact that we loves you! :bleh:

[Str8 Jacket]

Mel, you're an awesome chick, you've been so strong and Sean will be proud of you! Sean will get better, its gonna take time but it will be worth it, you'll see! :hug:

[Lissa]

Off to the hospital soon, decided to have a bit of a sleep in today... not that I slept much. From tomorrow onwards I have to go back to Masterton, see the kids, get them back into a routine with school and kindy, and get back to work. Luckly I have a part time job, the week I have the children I will try to get over as much as possible after work and at the weekends... going to be hard saying goodbye to Sean today. :bye: :crybaby: But having a longish distance relationship I suppose we are use to it, except I cant talk to him on the phone everynight.

When he is ready for visitors I will let you know, not sure when that will be, but he is going to need some company. Even if you just sit with him.

:love: Mel

[Toaster]

Yikes, I haven't had much time to read KB lately and am sad to hear of Skels situation - I do hope he makes a full recovery as soon as possible and my thoughts go out to him and his loved ones.

[Fatjim]

Merv "the Swerve" (Sean's Dad) just txt'd an update.

All ops finished with so now its just healing and waiting time.

Much better this morning, less confused, more talkative and spent some time with Mel on the phone.

[Lissa]

Wasn't sure if I should continue giving updates (you know Sean hates highjackers!):love:, but this is the best and only way to let a whole lot of people know how Sean is getting along.

Left him yesterday he was quite confused, and didn't really recognize me, I wasn't really worried as he just seemed to be out of it, well he thought he was in Carterton most of the day (thats just crazy talk), and hadnt slept at all the night before.

This morning I get a phone call from Seans dad, Sean wanted to talk to me :) Seemed a little confused but a lot more with it. Hes not happy I am not going to see him tonight but I really have to buy a new car today after work (was suppose to do this last week, but with Seans accident it never came about), so will see how we go, I might pop over this evening, or else I am going over to see him straight after work tomorrow.

Not going to get too excited yet, as he seems to have these days were he is very with it and then seems to go backwards. But am hopeful, getting the phone call was amazing. :2thumbsup No more operations on his legs, and everything went well so I am pleased with that.

Thanks :hug: Mel

[Swoop]

Wasn't sure if I should continue giving updates (you know Sean hates highjackers!):love:, but this is the best and only way to let a whole lot of people know how Sean is getting along.
Damn right you will! Otherwise we will have to track you down to get the information.:blip::whistle:

[Nasty]

the updates are very much appreciated Lissa ... and a great know of letting the masses know the ups and downs and support you through them!

[Number One]

the updates are very much appreciated Lissa ... and a great know of letting the masses know the ups and downs and support you through them!

+1

And I for one won't be popping in on Sean until I get the all clear on here from you or FatJim or Seans daddy.

Take it easy chick and good luck finding a wee cage to suit your purposes.

[007XX]

Yep, what Nasty said...it's also good to know how you are dealing with it all Lissa.

From one chick to another :hug:

[Lissa]

Cant stay away. I am going to visit Sean tonight, about 5pm or 6pm. If there is anything that you want me to give him or pass on to him let me know.

Thanks for the messages guys!!

[Riff Raff]

Yep please keep the updates coming Mel. I regularly check to see how Sean's doing. Big :hug: to you

[Okey Dokey]

Thanks, Lissa. I "know" you and Skelstar through kb and appreciate the updates. It sounds like you are getting good practical support from friends and family on the scene, but I hope it cheers you and Skel up a little to know there are others, further away, who also think of you and what you are going through every day.

[Lissa]

Went to see Sean last night, spent quite alot of time with him, and was amazed at how alert he is, but he is still confused, and I wonder just how much he is going to remember of the next few weeks, if anything at all. Hes making plans, wants to move, he wants to go visit people.

He would love people to visit, but I am unsure how many he should have, so we are just asking him, or waiting for him to ask us who he would like to see. Drew and Vicki went to see him last night, kept pestering me to get them there, he had a good laugh with them too.

[Fatjim]

Thats good news Mel. Give him my regards.

[sels1]

Yeah good stuff Mel. Keep the updates coming and give him our regards

[nick69]

Went to see Sean last night, spent quite alot of time with him, and was amazed at how alert he is, but he is still confused, and I wonder just how much he is going to remember of the next few weeks, if anything at all.

Mel, Unfortunatley as the Docs have probably told you that he will be confused for sometime as the brain recovers. I didnt even remember my wifes name or that i had 3 kids! I dont remember much about ICU or the first 2 weeks in the ward, good really as i had a week of tourettes (but i got my own room!!!). Sleeping is a major part of the brains recovery, i am 6 months since mine and still have to have nana sleeps during the day. Apparently the brain only repairs when its asleep. Dont know if you have been asked but at Middlemore i took part in a clinical test for brain injury where they gave me Insulin as they found it had good effects on recovery for the brain. May be worth while asking. Please pass my regards onto Sean and our thoughts are with you all.
Take care

[Fatjim]

Well I went for a visit last night on the way home from work and bumped into Str8jacket, Drew, Flame and the k'dogs.

Sean quite liked all the attention and put on quite a show but unfortunately he's a stubbon bugger and refuses to admit he needs to rest, Well his mates, we all let him down a bit last night and we all should have insisted we not hang around for so long. Sorry Sean.

The Nurses are PISSED! Sean didn't sleep well last night and was quite agitated. He needs rest as that is the only thing that allows him to heal. So from now on its by appointment only.

Dad's put his foot down and said that its close friends only and now you have to ring him first..If you don't have his number and considder yourself a "close friend" then PM me, I'll give you his details.

[Trudes]

Fair enough FJ.

[Str8 Jacket]

Well his mates, we all let him down a bit last night and we all should have insisted we not hang around for so long. Sorry Sean.


Yeah, I feel really bad. I really hope that he is OK. Sorry Sean, Lissa and family!

[Colapop]

As much as I really want to go and visit I'm mindful that Sean does need his rest and there are plenty enough people coming and going. My thoughts are with both Mel and Sean... :hug:

[Dave-]

well wishes here dude.

[Lissa]

(Copied from other thread). Apparently Sean was very restless in the night, and something happened, not sure yet, but I think he may have tried to get out of bed. Visits are now by appointment, as I know you all want to make him laugh he actually isn't allowed very much stimulation.

Hes pretty pig headed about wanting to move, so I will sort him out tomorrow. :girlfight: :love:

[Pex Adams]

Drew - you better hurry up with the bike, it looks like he's in a hurry to get back on it!

[Swoop]

Hey guys. Perhaps the goodwill and wonderful thought/actions should be saved for when he gets home? Those are the times when visitors will be very welcome and will help pass the day.
Great to see so much enthusiasm, but an angry nurse is a thing to avoid...:argue::whistle::hug:

[Str8 Jacket]

Hey guys. Perhaps the goodwill and wonderful thought/actions should be saved for when he gets home? Those are the times when visitors will be very welcome and will help pass the day.
Great to see so much enthusiasm, but an angry nurse is a thing to avoid...:argue::whistle::hug:

Yeah for sure, however I was told that I could go up last night so that's why I did. Will be waiting a while for the next visit though!

[Fatjim]

Don't wait, just ring his Dad and make sure it's an ok time.

[Lissa]

Its all good, you guys were there cause you care. :hug:

Its just hard to remember when you see him talking and laughing that just over a week ago he was in a coma. He somehow has to get it into his head that he needs to rest and stay still.

[Ocean1]

an angry nurse is a thing to avoid...

Now they tell me...


Its all good, you guys were there cause you care. :hug:

Its just hard to remember when you see him talking and laughing that just over a week ago he was in a coma. He somehow has to get it into his head that he needs to rest and stay still.

Sometimes that's the most difficult thing to handle. My worst memories of hospital are the overwhelming feeling of restlessness, almost claustrophobia, harder to manage than the pain. Sounds like he’s through the worst of it though, and making good progress. Give him my regards eh? And tell him not to mess with the staff too much, they’re a seriously scary bunch if you piss them off. <_<

[Fatjim]

Yes, we warned him that all medication might have be taken rectally if he pisses them off.

[unrealone]

Yes, we warned him that all medication might have be taken rectally if he pisses them off.

That'd sure keep me in bed! :pinch:

[ducatilover]

hope sean continues his so far good recovery. if theres anything i can do or help out with pm me:2thumbsup

[Lissa]

Just got the news that Sean might be allowed outside in a wheel chair today!!! :D Will be visiting him tonight... cant wait!

[007XX]

Hurray!!! :Punk::clap:

Just don't let him line up other wheelchairs in the hallway :shifty:

That's awesome news Lissa:first:

[Str8 Jacket]

Just got the news that Sean might be allowed outside in a wheel chair today!!! :D Will be visiting him tonight... cant wait!

WICKED!!! He will be stoked! :D

You know that he'll try and get you to take him outta the hospital grounds though don't ya!... ;)

[phoenixgtr]

Awesome!! He'll love that!

[Trudes]

That's good news!!:woohoo: You could wheel him down to Motomart to peer in the windows and get him some real food from Burgerfuel! (No doing a runner now Sean!)

[Number One]

Oh Lissa that is fantastic news! That should help him feel a bit more normal and less antsy. GO SEAN!!!! Enjoy the sun on your face and fresh air in your hair...oops just loooked outside - is there any sun anywhere in Welly today?

[Mom]

Enjoy the sun on your face and fresh air in your hair...oops just loooked outside - is there any sun anywhere in Welly today?


Sun is not important, fresh air imperative for well being. What great news! Like I said, slow steps make steady progress.

[Deviant Esq]

That's good news!!:woohoo: You could wheel him down to Motomart to peer in the windows and get him some real food from Burgerfuel! (No doing a runner now Sean!)
I'd vote for that! Mmm, Burgerfuel... *grumble* don't have it down here in Christchurch... :girlfight:

Great news that he's going to be allowed out of bed and out of the room! It's quite soon though and he's still confused... what's all the rush Skel*? ;)

[Edbear]

Good news!:first:

[Terminated]

That's what I've been waiting to hear. To get out of that room and take in some fresh air.

A bright sunny day forecast for Saturday, and refreshing news today thanks for the update Mel.

All the best Sean.

[Lissa]

Apparently Sean is allowed his laptop for short periods of time, so ONCE I find it then you will probably see him posting within the next few days. :)

Saw him last night, he was good, and could manage to get out of bed (with help) I think once his back is right he should be on the move a lot more, maybe on crutches even, or at least the wheelchair. I told him not to do wheelies in the hallway.

Oh I passed the Thursday Night Riders on the hill last night... awesome, I can see why Sean enjoyed those rides so much. Did you see the 3 or so Cop Cars at the top of the hill? I wondered why they were there.

[Str8 Jacket]

Apparently Sean is allowed his laptop for short periods of time, so ONCE I find it then you will probably see him posting within the next few days. :)

Saw him last night, he was good, and could manage to get out of bed (with help) I think once his back is right he should be on the move a lot more, maybe on crutches even, or at least the wheelchair. I told him not to do wheelies in the hallway.

Oh dear God. Quick, change his password!!!!

Sounds like things are on the up and up. Woot! :D

[Lissa]

Oh dear God. Quick, change his password!!!!

Sounds like things are on the up and up. Woot! :D

heehee, well hes so bored, I think he has been wanting to thank people on line as well.

Also visitors are allowed, but only two at a time. If he starts trying to move around on his own give him a slap from me. :hug:

[Str8 Jacket]

heehee, well hes so bored, I think he has been wanting to thank people on line as well.

Also visitors are allowed, but only two at a time. If he starts trying to move around on his own give him a slap from me. :hug:

Righto, I shall go slap him, I mean umm visit him this weekend sometime!

[Trudes]

Good news Mel!!:sunny:
Guess we all better start behaving ourselves and stop posting shit about him if he's going to be back telling us off soon!!:shutup:

[Weaver]

Oh I passed the Thursday Night Riders on the hill last night... awesome, I can see why Sean enjoyed those rides so much. Did you see the 3 or so Cop Cars at the top of the hill? I wondered why they were there.

I think the police cars have something to do with Fatjim

[Lissa]

Good news Mel!!:sunny:
Guess we all better start behaving ourselves and stop posting shit about him if he's going to be back telling us off soon!!:shutup:

Hehe I just got off the phone with him, he might be on sooner than you think :shutup: :D

[Trudes]

Hehe I just got off the phone with him, he might be on sooner than you think :shutup: :D

Oh Geezus!!!!;)

[ManDownUnder]

Awesome news. And a big hi from me.

[Fatjim]

heehee, well hes so bored, I think he has been wanting to thank people on line as well.

Also visitors are allowed, but only two at a time. If he starts trying to move around on his own give him a slap from me. :hug:

Those who might have missed this.

Visiting is now ok!

(thats as close to Hospital green there is)


But keep it short, no matter how much he wants to chat (and he does). And remember the wards are open 8am to 8pm except for 12:30-2:30.

[Shadows]

I passed the Thursday Night Riders on the hill last night...

Have you been practicing?

[Clivoris]

Pleasing news to end the week with. Thanks for keeping us in the loop.

[Okey Dokey]

That's great news to hear. Thanks for letting us know.

[et al]

Great news to hear Sean is "on the up" and hopefully will be back online with us soon. Just promise me you will take it easy mate - small steps, don't try to do too much too soon.

[ducatilover]

great to hear seans making progress. ihave to get my arse into gear and get the time to visit the poor chap. :first:

[Leong]

Been away for the last two weeks on the mainland and just heard about this. Shocked to hear the news but glad to hear you're on the mend Sean. Best wishes for the recovery ahead...

Leong

[Deviant Esq]

Excellent news, looks like we'll see him doing what he does best again very soon... lurking on KB! :pinch:

Does he remember the accident yet? I remember it being posted earler that Lissa had told him he had a motorbike accident and him saying something along the lines of "Not a chance..."

[yungatart]

Lissa, Fatjim et al; thanks for keeping us updated. Its great to hear he is making progress.
Please pass on our regards to him.

[Drew]

Excellent news, looks like we'll see him doing what he does best again very soon... lurking on KB! :pinch:

Does he remember the accident yet? I remember it being posted earler that Lissa had told him he had a motorbike accident and him saying something along the lines of "Not a chance..."

He knows he crashed, but has no idea what happened.

To those intending to visit, the doctors are still saying no more than two at a time, so no cramming people in, and please keep it short.

[Trudes]

Hi Sean!!!:niceone:

[Str8 Jacket]

Hey Sean, How YOU doin? :shake:

:niceone:

[McDuck]

Yes hi Sean ;)

(Bet you wil not get here for a while tho)

[Str8 Jacket]

Yes hi Sean ;)

(Bet you wil not get here for a while tho)

Bet you a meeeelion dollars that he's on here soon than you think! ;)

[James Deuce]

Looks like he fell asleep about an hour ago.

[McDuck]

Bet you a meeeelion dollars that he's on here soon than you think! ;)

I meant the end of the thread :)






(i can see his name in the bottem corner)

[McDuck]

Looks like he fell asleep about an hour ago.

lol...........

[Trudes]

Yeah!!! Wake up Skelsy or we'll send Str8 down to the horsepiddle to sit on you!!! (I was going to say on your face, but figured I better not cause Mel's probably still there.... hi sweety!!):sweatdrop

[skelstar]

Heh, who is this skelstar fellow? ;)...did we finally get him with that Falcon?

Soo many people to thank, I have a great family, some awesome mates and a beautiful g/f (and her kids). Bit more to read, if you want to come have a bullshit session then just send a PM or visit. It'd be like listening to Drew but I can't follow you out of the building (but am better looking).

Spec KB ta to FJ and all the welly folk. Talk real soon! ;)



(stop dicking around and come see me Jim2)

[kiwifruit]

HIGH FIVE!!!!! :clap:

[James Deuce]

Oi'll be in tomorra chuck.

[RantyDave]

Heh, who is this skelstar fellow?
Whahey! It speaks! It types! I juggles chainsaws! I have to go see this for myself.

Dave

[Mom]

Welcome back love. Take it slow and steady now, and hug that lovely lady of yours for me when you can!

:love: Mom

[McDuck]

and NO MORE CRASHING.

[chanceyy]

hi Skel .. real good to see ya posting mate .. take it easy & we shall be seeing you out there real soon :hug: :yes:

[FROSTY]

yaaaayyyyyyyy :Punk::Punk::Punk:

[Lissa]

No need for me to give up dates now. :woohoo: :love:

[boomer]

where there's no sense, there's no feeling huh bro!

good to see you out the other side; heal up and take it steady mate; the recovery can be long and tiring.

[fireliv]

Hey welcome back!!! Awesome stuff!:Punk: