My brother may be a total obnoxious prick, and an arsehole, but he's my brother and if something happens to him I care and want to know. Blood is thicker than water, but grease is thicker than both.
My brother may be a total obnoxious prick, and an arsehole, but he's my brother and if something happens to him I care and want to know. Blood is thicker than water, but grease is thicker than both.
Originally Posted by skidmark
Originally Posted by Phil Vincent
The same happens in aviation, in fact they formalise it at govt agency level.
All accidents teach something. They teach us how easy it is to get hit or how easy it is to fall off. They teach us that great riders can fall and that reminds us thae we ourselves are not as immortal as we think we are. The manner of falling off is of interest, from it we learn. The place of falling off is important as we ride there every day and now know what might happen.
etc etc Drew etc
on kb, and in new zealand, chances are, if a biker has an off, then theres someone on here who knows someone who knows the guy who came off.
its interesting reading about motorbike accidents on trademe... the number of female members there who come in saying they have someone riding that way. i know the one involving the camper had a member on there ALL day panicing, because her husband and his riding buddies were not answering their phones. the whole day was spent reassuring her, telling her that cell reception isnt the best etc etc.
im betting new zealand chefs dont have a close knit forum "kitchenchef.co.nz/forums" to post about kitchen accidents. plus most kitchen accidents dont result in serious injury or death.
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the really happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery when on a detour.
Seeing a biker go down, you know they're someone to somebody - and when going down riding might be the last thing you do, it's always serious.
I went down on SH16 a few years back and word of mouth meant I had umpteen messages on my cellphone (when it was working again) all saying "holy shit are you alright?"
The day when people stop caring / seeing a bike accident as serious news is the day we've lost that great 'kiwi' sense about us.
"I have this really bad problem with not finishing my..."
Morbid fascination and relief that it wasn't them.
The most recent threads have been seeking affirmation of motorcycling as a "no-fault crash sport", a "dangerous" activity in which all responsibility for the motorcyclist's health & safety is in the hands of others.
Motorcycling is about as dangerous as knitting. In fact, I reckon more Old Ladies (and not a few old men in some countries) die whilst they are stitching and perling than motorcyclists die whilst motorcycling.
The "biker down" threads are always tedious and filled with nervous dread and anticipation, and very seldom have any discussion based in fact contained therein. They are nothing but ill-founded malicious gossip.
If a man is alone in the woods and there isn't a woke Hollywood around to call him racist, is he still white?
I hardly think malicious is an appropriate term
The same expressions of concern and interest are expressed if a biker is sick or injured for non crash reasons. There have been many such threads. Which shows that it is not some sort of morbid crash fascination.
Originally Posted by skidmark
Originally Posted by Phil Vincent
I respectfully disagree and I firmly believe that all discussion should be squashed until the rider is clearly identified, the damage to bike and person clearly identified, and the OK has been received from family, not friends, to even present condolences or get well messages.
They may not be malicious in intent, but I have had to deal with the aftermath of an unthinking post declaring someone dead when they weren't. One of KB's "shining" moments. They are malicious in deed.
If a man is alone in the woods and there isn't a woke Hollywood around to call him racist, is he still white?
the internet makes the world a much smaller place. anyone remember the shooting in lower ontario a while back? something like 4 people killed on the farm, that was suspected to be gang related?
i met a friend on the net, went over the canada to meet her, and then met one of the 4 shot. i was shocked when i realised i knew one of them.
same goes for bike accidents over there... one guy is currently in ICU after a tyre blowout that nearly killed him and his partner... many of the boys from the forum im on have travelled to visit him in hospital, despite never meeting them before, and others are sending cards.
that same group also often posts new articles involving bikes, many from new zealand. the most recent few have been from my area. many of the articles dont even make the newspapers here.
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I see the "accident/biker down" threads as a reminder/jolt/wakeup post, that helps to remind me that annoying/frustrating/painful/tragic things can happen in this lifestyle choice that I have.
I have some sympathy/concern, and sometimes annoyance and frustration about different types of situations that are posted. But never morbid curiosity. Thats just wrong.
Yep, I fell off the scrambler weekend just gone. No big deal, and quite funny,(after I had a little sulk about it).
People post things for different reasons I guess.![]()
After my accident, when I was allowed home that night from the hospital all drugged up on morphine.
I turned on my computer to find a thread all about it on Trade Me.....
People who had driven past me all sprawled out on the road and wondered if I was ok...
They didnt know me at all...... but they cared.
I was able to tell them that I was alive.
Mind you the road that I had the accident on was a busy road, so many took a bit longer to get home that evening.
I think it's because we all take a secret enjoyment about how dangerous riding is.
Oh, and our seemingly inate fascination in others misfortunes.
I agree, both reasons play a part.
The essence of the matter is that motorcyclists are slightly apart from the rest of society and indeed people treat us that way. There is still a bit of the "rebel","1%er" about bikers despite wearing suits and ties in normal life.
There is a brother/sisterhood among bikers and we are concerned when any of our number is hurt. It harks back to clannish and tribal links in the dim past.
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