The law and men's rights

[kevfromcoro]

Divorse,,Separtion. when u are left alone....its a nasty bussniss.just like to put this thread in here to tell u all the rights of men.......interesting subject.....MY Story.... ..ok. Got married to a thai lady about 8 yrs ago..we had a happy life for quite some time..then at xmas she up and fucks off..iam sitting here stratcting my head thinking WTF.. well off i go 2 c a lawyer. heres how it went.well my missus has fucked off .sorry Kev but she is up for 50%...hang on says me thats not fair....i had a $300 000 house when i met her..now we have bought a house in coro and its worth $700 000..well she is up for half...wot about the 3 houses she has in thailand.......well she bought them before she met u ..separate property.... they are hers.....FUCK this aiant fair.....the law is a fucken arse ....the law is the law..says mister lawyer....well shove it were the sun dont shine.so off i go..that lawyer is a dickhead...lets go see another lawyer....in the last 6 weeks i have seen 8 lawyers...and the sad story is just the same.50 50 down the line....it just doesnt seem right.....i wouldnt mind if my wife had of contributed to something here..but never has,,,,,had 6 trips back to Thailand.and i gave her a $1000 every time ..never worked ...fuck we are getting screwed..... to anyone in a simalar situation..please post here..iam not a legal person but have most of the answers,. to top that of the missus has put a caveat on the house...cant sell it.cant borrow money against it....wot to do.....any way everthing has turned out for the best.....Regards KEVTHEKIWI

[chanceyy]

sorry to hear that kev ... methinks pre nup is the way to go ..

My ex was lucky .. he walked & I did not keep anything of his or go for half .. but then I i can look at myself in the mirror & know that I am not the vindictive type either ..

[Grub]

Just be happy you didn't have any kids Kev ... then you'd really find out how stacked the system is.

I feel sorry for your lawyers man, they didn't write the law, they don't deserve the grief.

[kevfromcoro]

sorry to hear that kev ... methinks pre nup is the way to go ..

My ex was lucky .. he walked & I did not keep anything of his or go for half .. but then I i can look at myself in the mirror & know that I am not the vindictive type either ..

HI YA..HAD A FIEND THAT HAD A PRE NUP.. ( sorry didnt mean to shout...) WASNT worth the paper it was written on..to any of us that think they may be screwed in the future....go and c a lawyer and stick it family trust,,,,thats it,,,doesnt cost much to set up........KEV

[chanceyy]

HI YA..HAD A FIEND THAT HAD A PRE NUP.. ( sorry didnt mean to shout...) WASNT worth the paper it was written on..to any of us that think they may be screwed in the future....go and c a lawyer and stick it family trust,,,,thats it,,,doesnt cost much to set up........KEV

agree with ya Kev ... to many guys/gals think its ok to stick it to the partner when they leave .. have certainly heard the horror stories

[Delphinus]

Yeah putting all your assets into a trust is the only way to do stuff these days it seems....

[007XX]

Real sorry about your trouble...it sucks majorly. Just like Chancevy, all I took when I left my ex husband was what I had bought and that fitted in my car...

It took me over 6 months for me to be able to have my son stay with me for one night though...The bastard was using my baby boy as emotional drawcard.

Separation/divorces suck, full stop. I'm afraid I can't give any advice, but all the best to you.

[kevfromcoro]

Yeah putting all your assets into a trust is the only way to do stuff these days it seems....

FUCK didnt think i would get so much resonspe to this..just shows ya wot a bunch of caring cunts we can be,..lol,,been thinking about it for about 6 months and now i have done it ....Shit how i feel good...should of asked sooner...anybody giong to ask about the happy ending..........one thing i have allways held is a sence of humour...gets ya through the hard times.learn to laugh and the world laughs with u....off to ausssie going to sit my arse on a sl 1000 s...Yahoo

[007XX]

FUCK didnt think i would get so much resonspe to this..just shows ya wot a bunch of caring cunts we can be,..lol,,been thinking about it for about 6 months and now i have done it ....Shit how i feel good...should of asked sooner...anybody giong to ask about the happy ending..........one thing i have allways held is a sence of humour...gets ya through the hard times.learn to laugh and the world laughs with u....off to ausssie going to sit my arse on a sl 1000 s...Yahoo

Good on you!!!Enjoy yourself...

[kevfromcoro]

Good on you!!!Enjoy yourself...

Thanks..do u relly look like that pic..ive been on my own for a long time.....hmmm.all is koooooooooool.....hope i get a few ?? from younger peeps...thanks guys and girls....KEVTHEKIWI

[007XX]

Thanks..do u relly look like that pic..ive been on my own for a long time.....hmmm.all is koooooooooool.....hope i get a few ?? from younger peeps...thanks guys and girls....KEVTHEKIWI

Of course I do...I'm just $14K short of having them watermelons, but eh
Let just put it this way: nature has been kind enough that i don't feel like complaining.

[Lissa]

Gosh, all I can say is glad you dont have any kids Kev... makes it a darn sight harder. Cant really give any advice, seems you have had a lot from lawyers etc. All the best, have a good time in Aussie.

[Delphinus]

Righto whats the end of the story Mr kevfromcoro

[kevfromcoro]

Of course I do...I'm just $14K short of having them watermelons, but eh
Let just put it this way: nature has been kind enough that i don't feel like complaining.

F UCK THE ... 14K...NEVER didnt like the biggys..couple of fried eggs is enough........mayebe i have found my true love...sexy ass does it........KEV

[kevfromcoro]

Gosh, all I can say is glad you dont have any kids Kev... makes it a darn sight harder. Cant really give any advice, seems you have had a lot from lawyers etc. All the best, have a good time in Aussie.

thanks lissa..had a couple of replys from u...no kids...been down that road,,of to ozz...were is my helmet....and the bike keys.....fuck the bike keys ...going to but a new one over there...will still post in KB..mayebe someone wants to do some riding in oz.......stick a post in..and c wot resposne i get.all the best KEV