Parents - would you let the kids do this?

[Conquiztador]

Piss over someones car wheels.
Wife just came back from getting some chips for tea,she came out of the takeaway shop to find a teenager pissing over our front wheels in the gutter.
She politely asked the mother what the hell is he doing?Having a leak came reply,can't find a toilet.

So the mum was told to clean it up or fork out $10 for wheel cleaner,she begrudgedly(sp)used her top to wipe her kids piss off our mag wheels.

Wife couldn't believe it as it was in town and kid was a teenager not a 5yr old.

Man my wife can be straight up at times ,and told the lady her kid could've gone over to subway about 75mts away,me I would've said a bit less,still she has a grin and a laugh about it now.

U respect other ppls property.

And I have a simple solution to all our problems: If everyone took care of their own kids we would have no problems.

[bull]

And I have a simple solution to all our problems: If everyone took care of their own kids we would have no problems.

Thats the exact same understanding that i have, now back to the pissing on the wheel - why oh why is the child told to piss on the wheel of another car? at worst just piss into the gutter.

When my little boys younger 3 or 4 i let one of them piss in the gutter in a carpark coz he was not going to be able to make it to the toilet, now this may be bad but i had the 3 boys with me, 8yr old, 3yr old and the 4yr old and there was no way id be able to get them out of carseats and off to a toilet somewhere nearby.

Apart from that my kids behave bloody well at home and in public and we aptly praise them for this and let them know that thats how you are supposed to behave. And because of their behaviour we can happily go anywhere with them and know they will behave nicely.

But i still see kids being left to run riot around town and the parents looking very stressed because they havent taught them well enough.
Big tip - dont let your kids watch Supernanny or the likes, we did once and the next day they tried to mimic the naughty kids, pretty much ended up with them doing hard time in their rooms till they were ready to adjust their attitudes.

[kro]

I'm a tit for tat kinda guy, I would have taken a dump on her bonnet.

[sAsLEX]

I would've fucken clouted the kid. He's old enough to know what he's doing is wrong and disgusting. Give him a couple of years and he'll want his own car and no doubt he wouldn't appreciate anyone doing it to his mags.

Yeah but being a woman you are less likely to be in front of a judge defending an assault charge, it may be sexist to say that but thats the way assault laws are.




I would vote for: Letting em do it, then making them wait there to the owner got back apologise and go and wash there car then and for a month of Sundays. There is too much of this shit going around and often it is precipitated by the pond scum that are some parents these days.

[Dave Lobster]

Piss over someones car wheels.
Wife just came back from getting some chips for tea,she came out of the takeaway shop to find a teenager pissing over our front wheels in the gutter.
She politely asked the mother what the hell is he doing?Having a leak came reply,can't find a toilet.

So the mum was told to clean it up or fork out $10 for wheel cleaner,she begrudgedly(sp)used her top to wipe her kids piss off our mag wheels.

Wife couldn't believe it as it was in town and kid was a teenager not a 5yr old.

Man my wife can be straight up at times ,and told the lady her kid could've gone over to subway about 75mts away,me I would've said a bit less,still she has a grin and a laugh about it now.

Were they from a 'disadvanted' background?

[Grahameeboy]

Most definitely...when my son started school, he went through 3 teachers in 3 months...he wasn't dealing very well with his father and I separating. He acted up and to the risk of sounding like a bad mum, I was very embarassed to take him anywhere in public.
You could feel the reproachful look in people's eyes..."she can't handle her brat" type of thing...
Almost 5 years later,a lot of hard work and an amazing stepdad / role model in his life, my boy is a well rounded, polite and praised at school young man that I am VERY proud of...

Even my friend who don't have kids comment on his good manners.

I'm not saying to blow my own horn , just to say that no matter what the excuses, kids are not born bad in general, they are raised poorly!

We forget that adults have melt downs during difficult times in our lives so we have to expect kids to react at times too.......sometimes adults forget this and expect kids to deal with things that we may not deal with well.

[007XX]

We forget that adults have melt downs during difficult times in our lives so we have to expect kids to react at times too.......sometimes adults forget this and expect kids to deal with things that we may not deal with well.

agreed there and I can only suspect that you would speak from experience...children can be both very resilient, and yet not. I didn't have any doubts that the separation would affect him, but he didn't actually show it to me. He kept the acting out for the outside world, and that made it very difficult to solve as it rellied on strangers to help with it.
Now, we have daily catch up talks either in the car or at bedtime, and we'll talk about absolutely everything...girlfriends, bullies at school,etc!

I can say proudly that I am extremely close to my son, and I protect that fiercely, and make sure to nurture it every day.

HOWEVER...should he piss on someone's wheel, he would still get a proportionnal punishment...But he never would, he's too smart for that

[Grahameeboy]

agreed there and I can only suspect that you would speak from experience...children can be both very resilient, and yet not. I didn't have any doubts that the separation would affect him, but he didn't actually show it to me. He kept the acting out for the outside world, and that made it very difficult to solve as it rellied on strangers to help with it.
Now, we have daily catch up talks either in the car or at bedtime, and we'll talk about absolutely everything...girlfriends, bullies at school,etc!

I can say proudly that I am extremely close to my son, and I protect that fiercely, and make sure to nurture it every day.

HOWEVER...should he piss on someone's wheel, he would still get a proportionnal punishment...But he never would, he's too smart for that

No just my insight on things......I am seperated but my Daughter has coped well despite Mum using her as a lever but then she has other things to deal with that are worse and she spends half the week with me (yeah) so still sees both parents........but at 4 she knows and when she is with me there is no tension because I am on my own whereas I know there is tension at Mum's so she deals with it remarkably well.....

[007XX]

No just my insight on things......I am seperated but my Daughter has coped well despite Mum using her as a lever but then she has other things to deal with that are worse and she spends half the week with me (yeah) so still sees both parents........but at 4 she knows and when she is with me there is no tension because I am on my own whereas I know there is tension at Mum's so she deals with it remarkably well.....

yeah, been there as well (re: other half using them as leverage)...Don't get me started on that! I've already had my rant on the subject in a couple of other threads, so will spare everyone this time.
It is a really good thing that she can still see both of you. Girls i believe are far more insightful earlier on and especially your daughter as she has had to grow up quickly due to the tougher things she is dealing with. I don't know the details, but it sounds to me like you're an awesome Dad, and she is a relly lucky little girl to have you.

[Beemer]

I am not impressed by people letting their kids go to the toilet in public, I think it is disgusting! Yes, kids often don't say they need to go until it's almost too late, but I have seen people pull their kids' pants down and let them crap on the edge of the footpath and I can just imagine them yelling if someone let their dog do the same!

As for a teenager, there is no excuse for that. I would have laughed at the size of his dick and said "mate, I'd be embarrassed to pull that out in public!" and I bet he wouldn't have done it again!

Good on her for making them clean it up!

[Sanx]

Oddly enough, there's a byelaw in the London that affords Hackney Carriage (taxi) drivers the right to urinate on the rear passenger-side wheel of their own taxi provided they are also touching the vehicle with their right-hand provided they're in one of the 28 London or 6 Royal boroughs.

This used to be another in the same set of byelaws that required Hackney Carriage drivers to carry a bale of hay and a sack of oats to feed the horse. This was only repealed in 1970, and it was quite common for London cabbies to carry a few hay stalks tied together and a tiny pouch of oats in the glove box, mainly as protection from over-zealous council officers issuing tickets for every breach of byelaw they could find.

[janno]

Oddly enough, there's a byelaw in the London that affords Hackney Carriage (taxi) drivers the right to urinate on the rear passenger-side wheel of their own taxi provided they are also touching the vehicle with their right-hand provided they're in one of the 28 London or 6 Royal boroughs.

This used to be another in the same set of byelaws that required Hackney Carriage drivers to carry a bale of hay and a sack of oats to feed the horse. This was only repealed in 1970, and it was quite common for London cabbies to carry a few hay stalks tied together and a tiny pouch of oats in the glove box, mainly as protection from over-zealous council officers issuing tickets for every breach of byelaw they could find.

Gotta love those bylaws! In colonial America, attempted suicide was very seriously frowned upon, and punishable by . . . death

[sAsLEX]

Oddly enough, there's a byelaw in the London that affords Hackney Carriage (taxi) drivers the right to urinate on the rear passenger-side wheel of their own taxi provided they are also touching the vehicle with their right-hand provided they're in one of the 28 London or 6 Royal boroughs.

This used to be another in the same set of byelaws that required Hackney Carriage drivers to carry a bale of hay and a sack of oats to feed the horse. This was only repealed in 1970, and it was quite common for London cabbies to carry a few hay stalks tied together and a tiny pouch of oats in the glove box, mainly as protection from over-zealous council officers issuing tickets for every breach of byelaw they could find.

Pregnant woman can also relieve themselves in a Bobbies hat.

[KATWYN]

He was probably only marking his territory. Dogs do it all the time.....

[Sanx]

Pregnant woman can also relieve themselves in a Bobbies hat.

That one is, I believe, an urban myth. However, I understand that a pregnant woman may require a policeman to use his coat to shield her while she urinates in the gutter.

Britain's got some wonderful laws.