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    Choice !!!! Have emailed the links to the mrs ! She should open them mmm about the same time as i'm down the club with the boys hehehe cant wait to get home tonight !!!
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    Haha! You guys that think you get to just sit there while she tends to your every whim have got it wrong. You gotta get off your asses and go out and work. Saw a doco on this awhile ago - it's about a partnership not giving up power. If you have to decide who has the power in your relationship then you got it all wrong. And I aint no soft cock liberal either.
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    Ya know this is typical yank crap innit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by *Col* View Post
    Haha! You guys that think you get to just sit there while she tends to your every whim have got it wrong. You gotta get off your asses and go out and work. Saw a doco on this awhile ago - it's about a partnership not giving up power. If you have to decide who has the power in your relationship then you got it all wrong. And I aint no soft cock liberal either.
    Umm, any of us living in the real world know it's a crock of shit.
    It’s diametrically opposed to the sanitised existence of the Lemmings around me in the Dilbert Cartoon hell I live in; it’s life at full volume, perfect colour with high resolution and 10,000 watts of amplification.

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    What a giggle!!

    I saw a documentary on this a while ago. There was one woman who had to wear what her husband said, have sex when he wanted, and when she rode in the car with him, she actually wore a blindfold so she wouldn't belittle her husbands driving skills because she couldn't see what he was doing (and she really hated his driving).

    So basically to be a surrendered wife, you have to give up all your own opinions and wants and do as your hubby says... yup crock of shit alright! Wouldnt it be easier and cheaper if guys just brought a blow up doll and hired a cleaner?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lissa View Post
    Wouldnt it be easier and cheaper if guys just brought a blow up doll and hired a cleaner?
    mmm,....blow up doll....ughhh,....

    Besides, I wear the panties in our relationship......


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    If they nag, critise, or belittle there is only one thing for it......







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    Quote Originally Posted by madbikeboy View Post
    Umm, any of us living in the real world know it's a crock of shit.
    If you and your partner are in agreement there should be any problems with it...?
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    Finally, a woman who gets it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by madbikeboy View Post
    I think you're missing the point - this is a woman advocating giving away her power...
    You might have picked up that I am a strong, and at times opinionated woman. I hate inequality and could even be called something of a feminist.

    But I understand where this woman is coming from and actually agree with her. She is not advocating giving away her power at all, she is talking about giving up unnecessary control and responsibility, the emphasis here on unnecessary.

    She is talking about being honest enough to tell your partner what you need and respecting him. Respect goes both ways.

    You boys are, despite all the seemingly obvious macho aspects of testosterone, very soft creatures, you need to be told how wonderful you are, not constantly pulled up for being useless or what have you.

    I have money on the fact that you are more likely to respond in a positive way to your wives/partners if you know she loves you and trusts you to take care of her. I can take care of myself if I have to, I prefer to know I have the love of a good man who will take care of me.

    She is not talking about women turning into the ultimate kitchen/bedroom doormat here, she is talking about a somehow natural order of things that actually enriches relationships, not harms them.

    EDIT: Of course though there will always be the total, arsehole, wanker, men that use this sort of thing to enslave their womanfolk to some sort or feudal existance. Not the message I am advocating at all. Opps, feminist rises to the surface
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    Quote Originally Posted by madbikeboy View Post
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    Wearing pants? What if she goes "commando" each day?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sinfull View Post
    Choice !!!! Have emailed the links to the mrs ! She should open them mmm about the same time as i'm down the club with the boys hehehe cant wait to get home tonight !!!
    Quote Originally Posted by Mom View Post
    You might have picked up that I am a strong, and at times opinionated woman. I hate inequality and could even be called something of a feminist.

    But I understand where this woman is coming from and actually agree with her. She is not advocating giving away her power at all, she is talking about giving up unnecessary control and responsibility, the emphasis here on unnecessary.

    She is talking about being honest enough to tell your partner what you need and respecting him. Respect goes both ways.

    You boys are, despite all the seemingly obvious macho aspects of testosterone, very soft creatures, you need to be told how wonderful you are, not constantly pulled up for being useless or what have you.

    I have money on the fact that you are more likely to respond in a positive way to your wives/partners if you know she loves you and trusts you to take care of her. I can take care of myself if I have to, I prefer to know I have the love of a good man who will take care of me.

    She is not talking about women turning into the ultimate kitchen/bedroom doormat here, she is talking about a somehow natural order of things that actually enriches relationships, not harms them.

    EDIT: Of course though there will always be the total, arsehole, wanker, men that use this sort of thing to enslave their womanfolk to some sort or feudal existance. Not the message I am advocating at all. Opps, feminist rises to the surface
    I sent it to my wife and she did it when she got home from work after I'd made her a coffee and checked the dinner I was cooking... I made sure I'd done the washing, made the bed, got the fire,(gas), going and tidied the house of course...

    She scored 71...
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    Quote Originally Posted by McWild View Post
    Finally, a woman who gets it!
    I could put you onto a few more....

    Oh, different 'gets it', sorry.

    Anyways, I've always found that the less pants involved the better the relationship. Which is ironic, coz the less pants, the MORE pants. Funny that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lissa View Post

    Wouldnt it be easier and cheaper if guys just brought a blow up doll and hired a cleaner?
    yes................................
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