How long should I wait between girlfriends?

**GOONR** · 25th January 2010, 21:11

Originally Posted by McJim

Look outside of work. Never shit on your own doorstep. If it all goes pear shaped you will still have to work with her and put up with all the future "he's shit in bed", "he has a samll dick AND a small wallet" comments. I dated a girl I worked with. I got married and we're still together 10 years later (o'course that's coz I'm very good in bed and have a massive knob!

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I take it by the omission (and the fact your a Scott), you have a small wallet?

**Naki Rat** · 25th January 2010, 21:13

Originally Posted by Gareth123

pebcak? Wtf?

PEBCAK Google is your friend.

**Naki Rat** · 25th January 2010, 21:17

Originally Posted by Hitcher

The answer to the question: "How long between girlfriends?" is clearly a function of time and place. There may be times when an interval of a few seconds may be in order, and others when a longer gap is necessary/appropriate.

And it depends whether the past GF is known by next girlfriend. Tupping her best friend can get complicated

**Gareth123** · 26th January 2010, 01:14

PEBCAK - Problem exists between chair and keyboard.

I'm flattered you think I only have one problem? Awwww shucks!

Kinda describes this whole forum doesn't it?

And I have started looking further a field than work, a girl I know wants to lick strawberry jam off me!

**Foxzee** · 26th January 2010, 10:09

Originally Posted by Gareth123

a girl I know wants to lick strawberry jam off me!

FFS! strawberry jam....she will spend more time getting the seeds outta her teeth than licking!

**Gareth123** · 26th January 2010, 15:44

Originally Posted by Foxzee

FFS! strawberry jam....she will spend more time getting the seeds outta her teeth than licking!

Depends what strawberry dam you use. I'm sure I can find a seedless variety.

**YellowDog** · 26th January 2010, 15:56

Originally Posted by Gareth123

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

How long does it take you to have a shower?

**Foxzee** · 26th January 2010, 16:25

Originally Posted by Gareth123

Depends what strawberry dam you use. I'm sure I can find a seedless variety.

Go with the chocolate topping...the one that goes hard in seconds...

It might beat you to it.................LOL

**P38** · 26th January 2010, 17:00

Why wait................?

**StoneY** · 27th January 2010, 06:09

Originally Posted by P38

Why wait................?

Indeed...time for fishing!

**NighthawkNZ:Me** · 27th January 2010, 06:32

Originally Posted by Gareth123

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

you dumped her... wait 30 seconds... date new girl friend

**Genie** · 27th January 2010, 07:18

Gareth 123....got a new one yet?

**Big Dan** · 27th January 2010, 10:52

Ok here is a sensible relpy and told from some experience

Firstly I'd wait a while before getting on the "horse" so to speak

If you started seeing someone new and kept it secret it will just end in disaster, you may lose them both .

I know i was dumped last yeah from my fiancee and remained friends and what i thought was us trying to work things out and maybe getting back together but in hindsight i was wrong as it turned out she had been seeing someone else for a few months and kept it from me and when i found out i was devastated bigtime.

If you do indeed care about her as you say you do you'd be honest with her and if you find someone else be honest with her cause lies always come out. Honesty is the Key

Honesty = Earns respect

**Genie** · 27th January 2010, 10:56

Originally Posted by Big Dan

Ok here is a sensible relpy and told from some experience

Firstly I'd wait a while before getting on the "horse" so to speak

If you started seeing someone new and kept it secret it will just end in disaster, you may lose them both .

I know i was dumped last yeah from my fiancee and remained friends and what i thought was us trying to work things out and maybe getting back together but in hindsight i was wrong as it turned out she had been seeing someone else for a few months and kept it from me and when i found out i was devastated bigtime.

If you do indeed care about her as you say you do you'd be honest with her and if you find someone else be honest with her cause lies always come out. Honesty is the Key

Honesty = Earns respect

Well said. sorry you had this experience but I see you have learnt so much from it. You are right, honesty in all things is the key.