Dickens Cider
Exactly!!Originally Posted by MSTRS
In my opinion, people get into swinging out of pure laziness and boredom!!! Long-term relationships need to be constantly worked on by both parties, as the individuals grow and develop so to does the relationship. It certainly isn't easy at times, but it is farken worth it! I wouldn't risk what I have for a bit of cock on the side!
No body move... I dropped my brain
Just faidin away!
Ha, "life", as you go on, if you delve a little deeper into yourself, you may be surprised to find out who you really are!
It may not be anything like the person you thought you were, you begin as the person your parents set you up to be and life experiences mould you from there on.
In a relationship you have to be honest with you self and each other and move forward together, helping each other find the things you need.
Life will then move you and your partner closer together (as in our case) or suggest that you each seek out new directions and/ or new partners in life.
Fantasy and reality are often poles apart be careful out there.
3825 67 944779 (oh yeah)
See this is where you make a HUGE mistake.
Most people dont "expect" commitment - thats what you look for in staff etc. The commitment in a marriage is something that is given willingly and with love - its a totally different thing. Nothing to do with insecurities in the slightest.
And only swingers see it as sexual jealousy - its not that most married people are scared of losing their partner that prevents them from swinging - its that they wouldn't want to share in an intimate way something they love.
Ultimate keyboard Warrior
Marriage is about standing before your family, friends, community and partner (and for some people before God) and making a commitment before them all as to how you feel, and pledging to hold your position through all that may prevail. This is done (hopefully) due to a deep love for your partner, and they in turn make the same commitment.
It can be something very powerful and worthwhile or it could all just end badly, But what sort of retarded fuck breaks that down to it being a fantasy based on insecurities due to sexual jealousy?
God damn I would hate to be you. Its not about sex or delusion.
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That just about sums it up for me.
i'm motarded
it would probably ruin her cracks good and proper
One hell of a ride.
Celestine Prophet
One man's meat is another man's poison. Judge yet not lest ye be judged!
Swinging can work if BOTH parties truly want it, have complete trust in each other, are honest with each other and know what the limits are. However, some of the pit falls are that one person may bullied into swinging out of fear that if they don't their partner will stray and they wont know with whom etc. As with so many aspects of life one size does not fit ALL. Just because throughout most of Christian traditionalist countries may believe in monogamy does not mean that it is right for all.
After all, how many women accept their men spending their cash on fast bikes and football matches which may appear abhorrent and incomprehensible to other women. How many men like to see their wives/partner wearing skimpy skirts and flashing their cleavage whilst other men like their wives/partners to dress 'modestly'. We are all different and whilst others may live their lives differently to us it does not mean that what they are doing is necessarily wrong, and especially not for them.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
Running over the same old ground.
What have you found? The same old fears.
Wish you were here. QWQ
3825 67 944779 (oh yeah)
I honestly cannot think of a single nice thing I can say about another mans meat.
Celestine Prophet
Thanks you have just made my day LMAO!! As they say don't knock it till you tried it;-)
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
Running over the same old ground.
What have you found? The same old fears.
Wish you were here. QWQ
www.MAG-NZ.org
Me neither, Another mans meat IS poison.
Double shot!!
In your opinion. You won't be dragging me into a debate.
Steve
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"read what Steve says. He's right."
"What Steve said pretty much summed it up."
"I did axactly as you said and it worked...!!"
"Wow, Great advise there DB."
WTB: Hyosung bikes or going or not.
Celestine Prophet
Me thinks there might be some insecurity issues within some of the KB men.........Size isn't everything;-)
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
Running over the same old ground.
What have you found? The same old fears.
Wish you were here. QWQ
3825 67 944779 (oh yeah)
Meh - normally people if they believe in something can argue and justify a position - I reckon you just proved Catus's point. byeeeeeeeIn your opinion. You won't be dragging me into a debate.
Steve
3825 67 944779 (oh yeah)
"in your opinion" - according to Steve. Each to their own. Meh - personally I'll stick to girls.
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