Shitty rock and a hard place

[Mental Trousers]

Thanks all you've made me feel better (and right) in my choice! I will have a cute new little family member and loose two big shits in the trade!

Good choice. She's going to need all the support she can get, especially as your cousin seems to be a useless shit who created the situation that he doesn't want to take responsibility for.

You can now guilt trip your useless prick of a cousin. That alone is worth any hassles with the rest of your family.

[BAY CITY MOTORCYCLES]

Thanks all you've made me feel better (and right) in my choice! I will have a cute new little family member and loose two big shits in the trade!

Oooh....can I be Uncle DMNTD?

[meteor]

Long story short my cousin knocked up his girlfriend... found out she was knocked up and dumped her... What you reckon?

Your cousin's not a nice man! His family who won't support her and give him the advice he needs about being an adult are negligent and irresponsible. You are right to offer her support and friendship and if you can keep the connection going for the kid... great. Maybe in time he'll figure it out, maybe he's just in shock? Good on you to do the right thing regardless of family pressure.

[Oblivion]

It takes balls to knock up a chick.

It takes even bigger balls to own up and say that you want to be apart of the childs life.

Obviously this cousin of yours gets led around by his sexual desires and is not willing to pay the price.

But as long as you do what you think is right no-one else will think the better of you

I have an uncle who I have not seen or heard from since our Grandads passing in 07'. All he wanted to do was to take everything of value for himself. All the leather furniture, cabinets, Overseas trinkets. He didn't care that his brother had a family and could use all the stuff that he wanted so badly. Not to mention that he has a job where he pays himself to sit at a computer all day. (Not to mention the XXXXXXL Keg he has strapped to his body)

Hell, Last year he sucked up and asked the person who he was staying with to marry him. (She is a wonderful and frivolous person, Get along with her just fine) And guess who didn't get and invite to that wedding?

Even after the earthquakes in Ch-ch, Dad gladly offered them a place to stay, if he was willing to put all the shit behind them. And what does he do? Bugger off to Queenstown for 3 weeks.....

Family are sometimes the biggest arseholes that you can come across. Don't let them stop you from doing what you think is right. By the sounds of things, they are the ones that need to get the clip up the backside. (Any takers? )

[flyingcrocodile46]

I know they don't sound like they (my family) are worth the effort giving this situation as an example, but they are still my family none the less...

What you reckon?

Does she swallow?.. perhaps not! It's an important consideration

[nodrog:Me]

So when are the pictures coming?

I need some new stuff for the wank bank...

-Indy

You impatient bastard, it hasnt even been born yet!

[avgas]

Befriend the breeder. Your cousin sounds like a worse fellow to be associated with.

[placidfemme]

Well the "side taking" accusations have already started... Oh well. No loss there

[imdying]

It's not an accusation, it's a statement of fact.

Your reaction should be, "So what?".

He's being a cunt and you're a big girl who is entitled to take sides if you want. Own your actions, tell them to eat shit.

[Banditbandit]

Hang on I thought Christians didn't have anything to do with cock until after popping the ring?

That's why they invented confession ...

[placidfemme]

That's why they invented confession ...

And forgiveness

[Ratti]

Family are the ones who care for you not matter what, not necessarily the ones who share your genetic heritage.

You're not choosing sides, you're choosing to make decisions about your own life

[ynot slow]

Can't choose your friends,sounds like dictatorship to me,or idle threats to be disowned,but guess what,choose family and they may still crap on ya,choose her and you have a friend and smaller friend for life,and the family may come round as well. Man am lucky to have good family,all the cousins get along,my brother(s)as well,same on kids mums side they all get on together.

[scumdog]

What the hell wrong with your 'family' - do they hate the girl for not keeping her legs crossed or something?

Sheesh, some people are even more judgemental than KB and as shallow as a hokker.

Be supportive to her - she'll need all the friends she can have at the moment...

[Number One]

Do what you feel is right. I think your family could show some more compassion.....(that's me being extremely polite about it !)

Yeah that is EXTREMEMLY polite....I won't be so.

HOW RUDE - he spreads his seed far and wide and isn't man enough to deal with the consequences...stupid little boy she is better off without him and if family can't see it that way...stuff them!

Typical - the woman gets left dealing with the shit and he gets supported by family to fuck off and leave her too it...raise a man not a mouse! ARRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHH

BTW that feels heaps better thanks and good luck!

PS: I'm a totally biased as the child of an irresponsible dog of a sperm donor who never made an effort and fucked around on my mum once I was born.