Kinky Much?

[Lelitu]

with pic's ???

Master would be so mad if I did that, so very very mad...
I'm not allowed to give out pics of myself even to people that I know well, let alone the whole internets

First base then

the base system doesn't really apply to kink
for one person what I listed may be a home run

for me, you'll be lucky to make it halfway to first with that.

[mossy1200]

A mate of mine wanted to do it in a bath full of M&Ms but they are so expensive IDD settle for a using a M&M wrapper now as a joey.

WAIT that sounds Honda DAMM

[GingerMidget]

mmm, limits are rarely fixed, and even more rarely completely absent
it's usually possible to think of something someone likes that just makes you feel like throwing up

oftentimes it is just the psychology at play. but not always.

Entirely true. One thing that weirds me out. Why is it socially acceptable for two girls to kiss, encouraged even, yet two guys are actively discouraged (in most places) ?

I don't like it, and frankly it stinks of what I went through in college. I got picked on, and bullied because people thought I was a lesbian. I still don't define myself as anything, and was a virgin right until I left school. Maybe its because I didn't procreate with the unwashed miscreants at my school?

[mossy1200]

Master would be so mad if I did that, so very very mad...
I'm not allowed to give out pics of myself even to people that I know well, let alone the whole internets


the base system doesn't really apply to kink
for one person what I listed may be a home run

for me, you'll be lucky to make it halfway to first with that.

Nope finding someone of equal or greater kink is half way to first base.You cant trick me that easy.

[GingerMidget]

Nope finding someone of equal or greater kink is half way to first base.You cant trick me that easy.

Like people who discuss anal sex on facebook?

[Lelitu]

Nope finding someone of equal or greater kink is half way to first base.You cant trick me that easy.

*laughs* nope, that's required to get on the feild at all
not kinky enough, I'm not interested, because even if you go along, you won't actually be rough enough, or demanding enough.

Entirely true. One thing that weirds me out. Why is it socially acceptable for two girls to kiss, encouraged even, yet two guys are actively discouraged (in most places) ?

I don't like it, and frankly it stinks of what I went through in college. I got picked on, and bullied because people thought I was a lesbian. I still don't define myself as anything, and was a virgin right until I left school. Maybe its because I didn't procreate with the unwashed miscreants at my school?

yeah, that is seriously disturbing
and people are quite good at pulling shit like that
is why I'm reluctant to discuss most of my kinks in a public venue like this. it will upset people
and set off every white knight in NZ

[HenryDorsetCase]

As for sexuality, girl on girl used to be a taboo thing, now its encouraged, and seen as normal. For a girl to say oh i'm bisexual, was a shock, and she used to be seen as dirty, and not in a good way. Now its encougraged, and rewarded..

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[GingerMidget]

You fascinate me Lelitu. This isn't a bad thing FYI. Interesting people always make me want to know more. I won't ask you to explain more than you are comfortable with sharing on the internet though.

An ex of mine was well known for saying he only dates chicks that do anal. So I was known as the kinky school girl. Mostly because I was young, and the assumption he was getting what he wanted. FTR, he wasn't. I was still very young mentally.

[Lelitu]

You fascinate me Lelitu. This isn't a bad thing FYI. Interesting people always make me want to know more. I won't ask you to explain more than you are comfortable with sharing on the internet though.

An ex of mine was well known for saying he only dates chicks that do anal. So I was known as the kinky school girl. Mostly because I was young, and the assumption he was getting what he wanted. FTR, he wasn't. I was still very young mentally.

well, I have to go now, it's bedtime for me
but we can talk about it in pm.

I'll share more as I get to know you and be comfortable that it won't come back to bite me.

[GingerMidget]

well, I have to go now, it's bedtime for me
but we can talk about it in pm.

I'll share more as I get to know you and be comfortable that it won't come back to bite me.

I'm quite intrigued now. And yes, its definitly past my bed time. Given I came home from work and sat on the couch and played fruit ninja for 3 hours on the ipad instead of going to the gym. or eating dinner. Two days of work left for the week!!!!

[Newbi]

I'm quite intrigued now. And yes, its definitly past my bed time. Given I came home from work and sat on the couch and played fruit ninja for 3 hours on the ipad instead of going to the gym. or eating dinner. Two days of work left for the week!!!!

It makes me happy that I have bought people together through a thread I started

[GingerMidget]

It makes me happy that I have bought people together through a thread I started

Haha it spawned an interesting discussion on facebook too. Its now up to 34 comments, and gone from jokes about anal, to someones bearded aunty. Wait, 35.

[oldrider]

I'm reluctant to discuss most of my kinks in a public venue like this. it will upset people
and set off every white knight in NZ

Life? ... Kinky? ... Reality?

First you are conditioned to become the person your parents want you to become, then you are conditioned to becoming the person that society expects you to become, then you start to become the person that you would like to be and finally (usually when it is too late) you realise who the person really is that you actually are!

That last person can be very scary to get to know and if you are married (or whatever the modern equivalent is) don't forget that your partner has got all that scary shit to work out too!

Getting to know the real one another and accepting each other "kinks" and all can make life very interesting!

Don't ever believe that old age is boring either, it is just a lot more painful swinging on the trapeze at 72 than it was at 21, that's all!

[Hoarn]

Entirely true. One thing that weirds me out. Why is it socially acceptable for two girls to kiss, encouraged even, yet two guys are actively discouraged (in most places) ?

Honestly, I think this comes about simply because us Guys are socially conditioned in NZ to vocally defend our masculinity in Public whenever it is perceived as being challenged, such as Male -> Male kissing. I think its a defensive reaction, and may not accurately reflect what individuals think behind closed doors. Consider it a kind of peer pressure maybe. Talking to female friends, they don't seem to mind it, and some do actively encourage it. I think it's one of those things that over time will become acceptable, it might just take a while.

[Newbi]

Haha it spawned an interesting discussion on facebook too. Its now up to 34 comments, and gone from jokes about anal, to someones bearded aunty. Wait, 35.

Hahah thats awesome, I too have had the "anal" chat with a couple of friends and their all like eww, and i'm sitting there quietly, thinking get over ya self hahahah. Don't know why peeps have these hangups about sex and stuff. I love having converstions about it. I find it fascinating tbh lol