
Originally Posted by
98tls
Worse still it gets offered as a defense


not sure whats worse,someone actually using the fact that there old man bum fucked them as an excuse to do it to a child or a justice system that listens to it and gives them a limp wristed sentence because of it.

Originally Posted by
98tls
Think you mis read my post,i dont accept that because its done to me it gives me a reason to do it to others,far from it.As for the reasons it happens,its not rocket science eh and i dont need an army of well intentioned social workers coming up with a different reason each week as to why it happens.It happens because theres a heap of fuck ups out there,money

whats that got to do with abusing a kid?nothing at all,social enviroment

again a load of tripe.Head outta the sand eh all the govt depts full of whoever with whatever degrees in anything wont change a thing,they have all been around forever but has it made any difference?.Cant shoot the fuck ups so whats next then?

Originally Posted by
Coolz
We need one of those psychological torture camps like the one yanks throw terrorists into. A bit of intense therapy till they realise the fault lies with them and not society and when they stop feeling sorry for themselves and feel a genuine remorse for their victims then they will be ready to start their prison sentance.
OK .. you seem to accept that a persona who has been abused (sexually or physically) as a child is likely to become an abuser ...
I am sugesting that "it si societies fault" .. I am not sugegsting that it is the "social environment" ... I am suggesting adult personal responsibility ... but I am also sugegstign that we do something to stop the innocent victims becoming the abuser ...
So ... some innocent little boy of five years old goes to bed one night .. and his father arrives two hours later and sodomizes him ... through no actions of the child's - totally the father's fault.
This goes on at least once a week for three years, when at the age of eight years someone notices there is something wrong and there is an investigation ... and the father is proved to have raped his son for three years ... Now we take out the father and shoot him ...
What do we do with the innocent victim?
There is a good chance he will become an abuser ... we know that ... This has nothing do with money (No idea why you might suggest that 98tls) ... he is psychologically scared - etc etc ...
How do we deal with this boy? If we do nothing then abuse will continue - the innocent 5-year-old will grow up to be an abuser - at which point we shoot him - and leave his victin to become another abuser ... at eight-years-old we feel sorry for the abused child - at 25 we call him a perp and shoto him .. same person ...
And no, we do not subject him to aversion therapy - that's just another form of abuse and it does not work.
There is something wrong with doing it that way ...
I am not offering this to excuse the behaviour .. I am offering this as a way out of the trap - a trap that your violent solutions will not release ...
I agree that adult abusers should be shot - they are beyond help - it's too late for them ... the five-year-old boy about to be abused tonite by his father is not beyond help .. but he will be if nothing is done for him ...
"So if you meet me, have some sympathy, have some courtesy, have some taste ..."
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