Becoming fearless isn't the point. That's impossible. It's learning how to control your fear, and how to be free from it.
bakes and gear leaver might need to have the height set to suit your feet position, The bike needs to fit you to feel comfortable
For a man is a slave to whatever has mastered him.Keep an open mind, just dont let your brains fall out.
I don't see what's fun about constantly dropping the bike sometimes every couple of minutes and being totally exhausted and stressed. I'm not worrying about getting it right, but my lack of ability to get things right directly corresponds to all my falls and stress. Don't see how I can make riding more fun, especially if my options as to where I can ride, are limited. So far I've really only ridden at woodhill and find it bloody stressful and I don't really know anything different. If I get stuck in a trail and get stressed I can't really stop for any length of time, cause there are other people around. And, if I do get stressed I have to keep going on through the whole trail just to get back to the car, you can't turn around and go back. There is no fun to be had in what I've been doing because of my lack of skill and of course, fitness, still!
Becoming fearless isn't the point. That's impossible. It's learning how to control your fear, and how to be free from it.
Maybe you need to work on some sort of stress relief system then. There is a solution to every problem if you look hard enough. If others are getting pissed off at you for falling off and blocking the trail, laugh at them too. Fitness certainly helps, but no crucial to having a good time. Maybe woodhill is not the place for you at the moment.
I personally think you are trying to hard, from what you have posted. And then it becomes a chore, and not fun at all. You have to find a way to get the fun back into it.
It will happen.![]()
For a man is a slave to whatever has mastered him.Keep an open mind, just dont let your brains fall out.
Sounds like a break is in order, clear your head and maybe come back to it later? I wonder if successfully tackling some gravel roads on the Ginny (under supervision ie not on your own) in the meantime might be a way to shake off some of the stress? Once you've done that you might have a hankering to get back on the dirt. Mom reckons gravel roads are fun! Might be completely different tho what do I know.
Moe: Well, I'm better than dirt. Well, most kinds of dirt. I mean not that fancy store bought dirt. That stuffs loaded with nutrients. I...I can't compete with that stuff.- The Simpsons
You kind of picked the worst time of year to start learning how to ride, your options of places to ride are limited to sand. Which, as you have found, pretty much sucks unless you already kind of know how to ride.
You would enjoy it much more if you were learning to ride on dirt.
Or you're just having the biggest cry cause you can't do something you thought you would become good at quickly.
we may just go where no ones been
Sigh... I don't think you're getting it. I am basically in a world with little comprehension of what I'm doing both in terms of the bike and the surface I'm riding on and don't know what to do when faced with something. An experienced rider would think hey if i do this, then xyz will happen. Me, no idea, totally clueless. Trying too hard? haha I've been going on the EASY trails and resting and fluiding up constantly. If I could go slowly, that would be great, but if I go slowly, it makes things worse on the sand. I can't even get my standing position right. I'm not trying too hard, I'm just trying. Take today for example, I purposely did easy stuff, I didn't even go on a trail! but still, get tired. I'm also not worried about people getting upset at me blocking the trail, no one has, but it's bloody dangerous as you can't see through trees and they could come flying around and not see me in time. Not great for me, or them. And of course getting tired and having to continuously pick up a 120(ish) kg bike aint easy, I'm not exactly the hulk, well not strength wise anyway haha.
Becoming fearless isn't the point. That's impossible. It's learning how to control your fear, and how to be free from it.
As I keep saying, wait for Thundercross. Summer will be here soon.
I hardly stand or do anything else right. I get puffed getting the bike off the trailer.
I dont want to block a trail but when I have most people stop and help.
Just wait for Thundercross, and the next Waitamata ride(no pressure there, I can kick the fast riders out of the beginner trail and its a great trail)
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