Couples separating

[007XX]

Thanks everyone for all the replies.

She left with no warning at all, our realtionship had (I thought) been excellent even to her telling me to buy the 990 in May! She has all new riding gear etc etc

But within the space of a couple of months I suppose she has found her "soul mate" and has moved out

Geez, that's rough man...Sorry to hear, honnestly!

Personally, I'd leave the rings behind in such a circumstance.
Like Sniper said, a promise was made and represented by those rings. The promise got broken therefor she renegated her right to have the rings.

Hope you're going to be ok.

[KATWYN]

She left with no warning at all, our realtionship had (I thought) been excellent even to her telling me to buy the 990 in May!

Sorry to hear that. Awful shock.

The above comment kinda indicates she has either acted on a whim and may be back when whatever it is, is out of her system.......or it could be that satisfactory communication between the two of you wasn't happening....either case she may be back (rings and all) at some point.

Then it will probably be up to you whether you want that or not

p.s In the past would she have easily said "Yes" to you buying a bike?? If not, then I reakon it was on her mind to leave then

Hope it works out for you
my 2c

[jrandom]

It's easier to walk away
Cover up and fade to black
When love scars and leaves you branded
Walk away and don't look back.

The man spoke truth.

[soundbeltfarm]

look on the bright side mate.
go find a dirty ol soccer mum.
if she was doing the dirty mate i'd never take the bitch back.
and if her new root knew she was married i'd hunt that prick down and give him a present of whooppety whoop ass.
i do feel for your kids too mate, that must hurt them with all being fine and dandy to all being split up and shit.
i see your're in NP. im down Kaponga so if you want we ride out whanga track a bit till trail rides start you can come out if you want.

[young1]

Thanks Buddy for the offer!

look on the bright side mate.
go find a dirty ol soccer mum.
if she was doing the dirty mate i'd never take the bitch back.
and if her new root knew she was married i'd hunt that prick down and give him a present of whooppety whoop ass.
i do feel for your kids too mate, that must hurt them with all being fine and dandy to all being split up and shit.
i see your're in NP. im down Kaponga so if you want we ride out whanga track a bit till trail rides start you can come out if you want.

[BuFfY]

I think it should be discussed when you split the other assests.
If she wanted to leave then I would see no point in her keeping the rings, as they were a symbol of the love you shared. If anything you could sell the rings and split the money. Or get her to keep them to give to your son/daughter if they are the sort of rings to pass on.
I am very sorry to hear about this. My dad left us for another woman, but we knew something was wrong as he would leave for days on end and we were unable to contact him.
Best of luck in the coming weeks of sorting it all out

[NinjaNanna]

If you had no idea that it was coming - then I would assume that you'd want her to come back. Continuing to wear her rings will signify that she hasn't totally given up and will be a constant reminder to her.

From a technical point of view I think that rings should ALWAYS be returned if they are family heirlooms - its not fair that she keeps your Grandmother's ring, other than then its up to the couple really.

In my particular circumstances the couple of grand sitting on my wife's finger is much less in value than the motorbike's that she supports me in buying and the time she allows me to ride them.

[Taz]

Just think of it as a lucky escape and try not to get caught again. You have the perfect opportunity to live your life your way.... Go ride the world, Keep single and enjoy? Forget the rings.

[jrandom]

Do you think...

Let me make my position clear.

Burn all bitches.

Fuck a whore, go for a ride, and celebrate your freedom.

[kiwifruit]

Let me make my position clear.

Burn all bitches.

Fuck a whore, go for a ride, and celebrate your freedom.

what a bitter c00nt!

[Stickchick]

Let me make my position clear.

Burn all bitches.

Fuck a whore, go for a ride, and celebrate your freedom.

Pretty harsh comments don;t you think? someone might be a little jaded maybe?

[jrandom]

Pretty harsh comments don;t you think? someone might be a little jaded maybe?

Mmm, yes. Sometimes my inner twisted sociopathic autist comes out to play...

[007XX]

Let me make my position clear.

Burn all bitches.

Fuck a whore, go for a ride, and celebrate your freedom.

Yeah right...is all I got to say to that...

[jrandom]

Yeah right...

The great thing about the internet is that it allows us to type sober what we would otherwise say drunk...

[don rocard]

She left,wouldnt try,Destroyed our family.Took the trust of our two boys,took all my money,possessions and my heart.I am now told that she is not happy,why not look at yourself for the answers.My boys still suffer,I am back where I started from and just feel like giving up.Have a happy life sweetheart.