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    Are you the father of your children?

    http://www.stuff.co.nz/4278228a19716.html

    Nearly a quarter on all newborn's in Aussie (that are tested) are not! (1 in 4!) Compared with 10 years ago it was an 1 in 10 - which still seems incredible....

    Do we in NZ, have similar count - for all you Dad's out there, I really couldn't think of anything worse than finding out the not only is your partner's a dirty cheating slappa, but to also find out the child isn't yours... Heart wrenching!

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    1 in 10 is still flippin nasty. Every day I just get more reason not to trust women...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coyote View Post
    Every day I just get more reason not to trust women...
    Good man.

    Don't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    Good man.

    Don't.

    No remarks inspiring hope? Sigh...

    The current girl seems nice enough, but I've learnt not to get so worked up if I do find her cheating on me like the last one

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    Good man.

    Don't.

    You are not biased are you.

    Funny despite ex doing the dirty I still trust...............cannot go around doing otherwise in my book.

    My friend and his ex had a child. 3 months later she left as she had been seeing his best mate. Went to Canada, ex that is. Claimed childs support etc, sent Daddy pics from boy, then when she returned she produced DNA test showing he was not the Dad................she would have known anyway....some people eh.

    But he is okay, getting refund from IRD.

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    Are you the Father of your Children??
    Yuck, I just had a metal image of what your kids will look like.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coyote View Post
    No remarks inspiring hope? Sigh...
    Past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour.

    If you can find a girl who, as far as you can tell after your best investigative efforts, has never behaved badly, snag her pronto.
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    We if they're not mine then one of my brothers must be to blame.

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    From a girlies point of view. I think it's horrible that some chicks do that sort of thing.

    Such a nasty betrayal of trust.

    My thoughts are how does a woman like that keep up the deception?? Literally on a day to day basis she would have to lie. Even simple things like discussing (or people commenting on) how much he/she looks, acts, or has the same characteristics as "dad"

    I think it would be awful. But then theres also the extended betrayal like the rest of "the fathers" family who are equally involved in the betrayal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pex Adams View Post
    http://www.stuff.co.nz/4278228a19716.html

    Nearly a quarter on all newborn's in Aussie (that are tested) are not! (1 in 4!) Compared with 10 years ago it was an 1 in 10 - which still seems incredible....

    Do we in NZ, have similar count - for all you Dad's out there, I really couldn't think of anything worse than finding out the not only is your partner's a dirty cheating slappa, but to also find out the child isn't yours... Heart wrenching!
    I think it's 1 in 6 here. There was an article last year about it.

    To be honest it wouldn't change how I felt about the child in question. It wouldn't be his fault now, would it? Plus I'd be the only father he knew thus far. I'm far from perfect too, so why do men expect their female partners to be thus? I'm fairly sure after observing some of my work comrades in action over the years that married men shag about at least as much as the Aussie stats above. If it goes wrong for a woman, it's a bit more obvious, isn't it?
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    Saw my mum go through countless betrayals on my dad's part and saw how it broke her time after time. It broke my heart as a child to see her so upset. I have total zero tolerance for infidelity and all my past boyfriends have known up-front of my stance (and the pain there will be if the same happens!).

    I know people fall out of love, I know people move on, but for chrissake, do the right thing and finish up one relationship before getting into the next one.

    I simply can't understand how one person could betray another to such an extent. It shows an incredible lack of respect for your other half. I don't expect my other half to be perfect, but I do expect total commitment. I will, and do, accept a lot of flaws - I know I'm far from perfect, as is Dave! But infidelity....nope, not acceptable under any circumstances (and that goes for me too by the way - it's not just him who has to keep his hands out of the cookie jar!).
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    I hope I'm not the father of any of my kids....went through a shit load of unmentionable yuk to deliver them if that is the case! (Don't remember being warned about it at ante natal classes either)
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    It's all relative. Trying to find a decent, honest bloke who isn't ful of shit & drugs, & lies through his teeth.. is like trying to push shit up hill with a toothpick!
    GET ON
    SIT DOWN
    SHUT UP
    HANG ON

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    Quote Originally Posted by MyGSXF View Post
    It's all relative. Trying to find a decent, honest bloke who isn't ful of shit & drugs, & lies through his teeth.. is like trying to push shit up hill with a toothpick!
    Nonsense. I know many men who aren't like that. You're either not looking in the right places, or don't have the goods yourself to attract them with.
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    the results are meaningless, people who take dna tests on there kids have some susspsion that the kid is not thiers, so its not representive of the general population.
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