Threesomes

[MSTRS:Me]

Optimism is far better than Pessimism

Of course. As long as you are prepared for occasional disappointment...

[007XX]

thats the best i have had for a while & dmntd's pic just bout made me choke on my apple .. but you have really hit the nail on the head with this post ..

was trying to be reasonable succinct on this one, but it is very much one of those multi layered subjects with lots of pros and cons, and reasonably sensitive grounds for a lot of people...

Glad you found some enjoyment in it...what you doin' later?

I'm with 007XX on this; never seen the point of FFM threesomes where the girls aren't into each other. Haven't tried one, can't comment personally, but the only dynamic I'd find interesting would involve watching the two girls get each other off and adding a bit to the mix myself if and when required.

MMFs, of course, would work well for the girl, but as far as I'm concerned, the idea of another guy getting his penis anywhere near my woman involves the line "over my dead body".

I'd only do an MMF with a guy I knew well and trusted, and a woman I didn't really care about.

Absolutely... Ultimately, a threesome is not really to be based on the same criterias as a relationship would be...and essentially probably should stay a "once in a lifetime" sort of opportunity. Any prolonged interaction is bound to create feellings, be them good or bad...

So you do, or don't want to make Jill happy? I'm confused...

Eh, he said he'd do that with a girl he didn't care about...

[DMNTD:Me]

... when he realised his balls were touching the mates and it was all over rover....

[NZsarge]

Optimism is far better than Pessimism

Try telling the old man that.....arrg, bloody All blacks, they'll choke! Dammit...he was right...

[007XX]

Try telling the old man that.....arrg, bloody All blacks, they'll choke! Dammit...he was right...

Phhwoooaaaarrr...now there is a picture straight out my mind:

007XY, me and Richie McCaw!!!!

*Swoon*

[DMNTD:Me]

Phhwoooaaaarrr...now there is a picture straight out my mind:

007XY, me and Richie McCaw!!!!

*Swoon*

...choke/gag...same thing innit?

[chanceyy]

Of course. As long as you are prepared for occasional disappointment...

if only it was occasional ..

was trying to be reasonable succinct on this one, but it is very much one of those multi layered subjects with lots of pros and cons, and reasonably sensitive grounds for a lot of people...

Glad you found some enjoyment in it...what you doin' later?

oh I think you managed succinct quite well .. extremely sensitive subject for most ..
& since I am home sick today honey I think i will be sleeping later but thanks

Absolutely... Ultimately, a threesome is not really to be based on the same criterias as a relationship would be...and essentially probably should stay a "once in a lifetime" sort of opportunity. Any prolonged interaction is bound to create feellings, be them good or bad...

only strong relationships can handle the sharing of partners in the most intimate way .. but eventually most (not all) crumble under the strain.

Try telling the old man that.....arrg, bloody All blacks, they'll choke! Dammit...he was right...

sarge

[NZsarge]

Phhwoooaaaarrr...now there is a picture straight out my mind:

007XY, me and Richie McCaw!!!!

*Swoon*

Me and Monica Bellucci......and no bloody one else

[jrandom]

only strong relationships can handle the sharing of partners in the most intimate way...

Hmm, I'm very dubious on that one. Smells like bullshit to me. The kind of bullshit that a selfish man would brainwash a woman with as a way of acting out his fantasies. It's the kind of line you'd hear from a woman when she was the lower rung in a ladder disparity relationship.

I'd say that only the least committed relationships would handle sharing. What I know for sure is, the closer I am to a partner, the less inclined I'd ever be to share her with another guy.

It's got nothing to do with security or insecurity, it's a simple instinct that I have no intention of denying or suppressing. My woman is my woman. End of story.

Maybe the female mind is a very different thing, and you girlies wouldn't mind seeing the man you love sticking his dick in another woman. I dunno. I can't see it happening, to be honest.

Given the generally greater fluidity of feminine sexuality, I'd say that the FFM where the man only focuses on one woman is both the most likely and the psychologically healthiest form of threesome.

All just theorising on my part, of course.

[007XX]

...choke/gag...same thing innit?

oh I think you managed succinct quite well .. extremely sensitive subject for most ..
& since I am home sick today honey I think i will be sleeping later but thanks

Cheers mate...as stated earlier, I have givenm it some thought, just like I do about a lot of things that make a lot of people bristle up the wrong way!

and big hugs to you, hope you feel better soon...

only strong relationships can handle the sharing of partners in the most intimate way .. but eventually most (not all) crumble under the strain.

Yes, I'd think you'd be quite correct on that one! So, ultimately, a lot of people who endeavour to go that road would really have to weigh in the " is it really worth the risk"...

Me and Monica Bellucci......and no bloody one else

OI you...we're talking threesomes, get it right, will ya!

[007XX]

...choke/gag...same thing innit?

Anyone choking me would get more of a unpleasant reaction...

As far as gagging...what's that?

[Stickchick]

I'd say that only the least committed relationships would handle sharing. What I know for sure is, the closer I am to a partner, the less inclined I'd ever be to share her with another guy.

It's got nothing to do with security or insecurity, it's a simple instinct that I have no intention of denying or suppressing. My woman is my woman. End of story.

Maybe the female mind is a very different thing, and you girlies wouldn't mind seeing the man you love sticking his dick in another woman. I dunno. I can't see it happening, to be honest.

Females minds are not very different really. I have had the opportunity to be involved in both FFM and MMF but all parties were friends only, no one was romantically involved with each other etc as that would have made things very difficult. It put a strain on the friendship to begin with so I can imagine that it would put a huge strain on a relationship.

If I am involved with someone they are mine and mine alone, I don't like to share!!!!

[chanceyy]

Hmm, I'm very dubious on that one. Smells like bullshit to me. The kind of bullshit that a selfish man would brainwash a woman with as a way of acting out his fantasies. It's the kind of line you'd hear from a woman when she was the lower rung in a ladder disparity relationship.

I'd say that only the least committed relationships would handle sharing. What I know for sure is, the closer I am to a partner, the less inclined I'd ever be to share her with another guy.

It's got nothing to do with security or insecurity, it's a simple instinct that I have no intention of denying or suppressing. My woman is my woman. End of story.

Maybe the female mind is a very different thing, and you girlies wouldn't mind seeing the man you love sticking his dick in another woman. I dunno. I can't see it happening, to be honest.

Given the generally greater fluidity of feminine sexuality, I'd say that the FFM where the man only focuses on one woman is both the most likely and the psychologically healthiest form of threesome.

All just theorising on my part, of course.

ohh dunna get me wrong I am not a sharing kinda girl at all ..I would hate to see a man I love getting it on with another girl .. I am pretty open minded but not that open minded

I have had friends who do the bouncy thing & had friends who the sharing thing .. some are still together & some are not .. funnily enough what drew them together is the one thing that forced them apart ..

to me trust & communication are the two vital ingredients of a relationship (along with compromise, listening etc) but without those two building that foundation it will crumble eventually

so those who have remained together have those two ingredients & work hard to ensure they remain .. others have lost the communication & trust which failed their relationship

[KATWYN]

No thanks. Theres just some things in life you don't share communally.

[MSTRS:Me]

I'd say that only the least committed relationships would handle sharing. What I know for sure is, the closer I am to a partner, the less inclined I'd ever be to share her with another guy.

I'd factor that with....
A strong relationship would not be in the habit of messing about with a third party. But should such a thing happen, and many will have experienced 'that one time at band camp' sort of scenario (even if no 'action' ensued), then a strong relationship will be able to survive it.
However, a weak relationship may be the catalyst for repeated occurences, and will not survive the stress it causes, or will survive only because the partners are unwilling to trade convenience for self-respect.
IMHO