When is it too soon?

[Owl]

Well as a conservative safety conscious biker, I have only one thing to say. Condoms!!!

[Lonely_wolf]

sheesh
on the one hand you say you left the first guy because he told you what to do all the time
on the OTHER hand you are now asking all and sundry what you should do about the new man in your life

i mean ----- don't you think that you should make up your OWN mind?

That is very true! It is just so hard to know what guys are thinking sometimes, an extra couple of opinions can be helpful...

Try some girl on girl action first. I want full details.

Lol, know of anyone down my way?

[Mom]

Lol, that sounds sad! I know what you mean, my relationships seems to start that way and then I get too involved . It would just be really nice to know what it is that he wants from this...

Sweetheart you are young! You have a heap of life experience to gain knowledge from. You are too young for relationships! What the hell is wrong with bf/gf bonk yourselves silly saturday nights while under the influence of a couple of drinks. You are far too young to be talking relationships! You need to get happy in your own shoes girl!

Last post for me on this subject, I am going to go talk "bikes"

[mstriumph]

That is very true! It is just so hard to know what guys are thinking sometimes, an extra couple of opinions can be helpful...



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i think my point is who CARES what a bunch of miscellanious people in cyberspace think?

it's YOUR life

LIVE IT!!

[Lonely_wolf]

If I was you, I wouldn't go for the other new guy but try and work things out with your ex, you both know each other if you have been together for that long and surely you can work it out to make it the way it was.
I mean 10 months is a long time end a relationship with someone you were serious about.
People make mistakes all the time and if he is willing to try and make things right I say give him a chance.

I don't want to give things another try with this guy, things are well and truly over for me. I don't feel anything for him anymore.

[jrandom]

www.laddertheory.com

Read it.

Be enlightened.

Why do teenagers always think the world's ending and high-level philosophical input is required when their silly little relationships fail?

Edit: Come to think of it, that applies to people of all ages.

Top tip, Lonely_wolf: Just go shag someone new already. You'll feel heaps better.

[325rocket]

if he got violent, the day after you booted him out is fine.

[Sanx]

Why do teenagers always think the world's ending and high-level philosophical input is required when their silly little relationships fail?

The world only ends if you're the one who gets dumped. But high-level philosophical input is required to ensure that you're not doing something f'ing stupid. Of course, you're going to ignore all the advice anyway and do something that really isn't a good idea, but that's what experience is built by.

[justsomeguy]

i think my point is who CARES what a bunch of miscellanious people in cyberspace think?

it's YOUR life

LIVE IT!!

.....and that ladies, gentleman and things is the truth. Well said wise lady.

[jrandom]

The world only ends if you're the one who gets dumped. But high-level philosophical input is required to ensure that you're not doing something f'ing stupid.

In my experience, the f'ing stupid part was usually getting involved with the dumper or dumpee in the first place.

[scracha]

Lol, know of anyone down my way?

Lets hold that thought.

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And like crashing a bike...it never happened if there aint no photos.

[jrandom]

i think my point is who CARES what a bunch of miscellanious people in cyberspace think?

You forget that most of us miscellaneous cyberpeople are boys, and that Miss Lonely_wolf is now available.

I bet she cares plenty.

[Sanx]

In my experience, the f'ing stupid part was usually getting involved with the dumper or dumpee in the first place.

Hence my comment about ignoring all the advice anyway.

Lonely_Wolf ... it doesn't matter what you do, provided whatever it is is aimed at ensuring you end up happy and content. And you're really the only one who can judge that.

[Sanx]

But how does your ex feel? If he is saying he's sorry and wants to make things right then give him a chance. I wouldn't let 10 months go cause things went bad at the end, think why they went bad? How much did you help to make things go bad? I am sure its not all one sided.

Hmmm - zero posts and joined today. Also in Dunedin. Anyone know this person, or is it the ex indulging in some subterfuge?

[sinfull]

Well as a conservative safety conscious biker, I have only one thing to say. Condoms!!!

You must spread more rep around before giving it to ferris again !

Just go shag someone new already. You'll feel heaps better.