
Originally Posted by
*Col*
BTW - you've never been legally allowed to beat up your kids, why did we need another law to tell us that it's not ok?
It's about whether using 'reasonable force' for the purpose of correction is a defence to a charge of assault against one's kid(s).
Right now, it's not. Anything that's an assault against another adult is an assault against your own child, regardless of whether you were doing it to the kid to punish them for bad behaviour or not.
And it's a bloody hard question to answer as to whether that should or shouldn't be the case.
I was walloped a bit as a kid, as most of our generation were, and I can tell you for sure it never did me any good. Just made me loathe authority even more.
Whereas some folk swear with hand on heart that being smacked now and then did them a world of good.
I think the variable is parents, not the methods applied, to be honest. Good parents will always raise good kids, whether or not they use physical pain as a deterrent, and useless parents will always raise fuckups, whether or not they ever lay a hand on them.
Personally?
I remember how I felt being beaten as a kid, and I don't think any other child should ever have to feel that way.
So I support the law in its current form, inconvenient as it may be for well-intentioned-but-frustrated parents.
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