Infidelities rampant at work Christmas parties

**Marmoot** · 3rd December 2008, 18:41

Originally Posted by Trudes

Ummm, or you could have a little thing that is kinda pretty important in a relationship.... TRUST!!!!

"Trust me, it's just casual sex. You're still my one and only love"

Will it work?

**Trudes** · 3rd December 2008, 18:41

Originally Posted by klingon

Ummm... so what if the Xmas party really is a 'closed shop' ie for staff only. You just gonna barge your way in there and show the entire company that you don't trust your partner? No wonder s/he's cheating on you!

Exactly eh!
I mean, please!! Either way, how are you going to show your face on Monday at work? You either screwed the ugly receptionist in the conference room or your bitchy possessive wife showed up at the Xmas do where "no partners please" was specified and gave every female staff member the evils. Fuck!
I remember a place I worked at decided one year that the Xmas do would be open for partners to attend. There were more fist fights, drunken debortuary, pissed rooting and spew than any other year, it was a unanimous decision after that year that partners were no longer welcome at Xmas parties there.

**Trudes** · 3rd December 2008, 18:42

Originally Posted by Marmoot

"Trust me, it's just casual sex. You're still my one and only love"

Will it work?

Not likely, I wasn't born yesterday.

**mstriumph** · 3rd December 2008, 18:43

i don't go to functions that are 'staff only' ..... bad enough to have to work with them

**R6_kid:Me** · 3rd December 2008, 19:00

Originally Posted by Trudes

Ummm, or you could have a little thing that is kinda pretty important in a relationship.... TRUST!!!!

Go talk to Sallo and see where TRUST got her...

on the flip side - talk to the guys in the relationships and see how they feel about TRUST

**Trudes** · 3rd December 2008, 19:05

Originally Posted by R6_kid

Go talk to Sallo and see where TRUST got her...

on the flip side - talk to the guys in the relationships and see how they feel about TRUST

I don't need to talk to her about trust, or anybody she has been having 'relations' with. There's a big difference between a casual relationship and a committed and/or married relationship. If I felt I couldn't trust my man to go to a party and not fuck anyone, then I'd be rid of him, and he knows it. End of story.

**Number One** · 3rd December 2008, 22:13

Originally Posted by Trudes

I don't need to talk to her about trust, or anybody she has been having 'relations' with. There's a big difference between a casual relationship and a committed and/or married relationship. If I felt I couldn't trust my man to go to a party and not fuck anyone, then I'd be rid of him, and he knows it. End of story.

Who the fuck is Sallo? ANd I agree with your other comments too Trudes. If I felt I really couldn't trust him I wouldn't hang around and I sure as shit wouldn't show up to the party to eyeball all the skanky hoes in the room. Fuck it - if that's what he wanted he would be welcome to it but he wouldn't be sleeping anywhere near me again.

AND the tag says it all....I've never understood this whole screwing your workmates thing. I have worked with some good looking people but ewww. But then I never was the 'one night stand shagger' and couldn't be arsed with the extra politics and bullshit that I've observed goes on when people do screw the crew. Sure as shit got no interest, desire or motivation to go there where I work now either. I like men with personalities and having a high IQ and large bank balance alone does nothing for me

**stify** · 3rd December 2008, 23:32

Originally Posted by Marmoot

"Trust me, it's just casual. You're still my one and only love"

Will it work?

only if ya lookin 2 ride a different brand i tinks

**Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)** · 3rd December 2008, 23:49

Crikey you would have to be fn drunk, stoned and had the frontal labotomy to even think about screwing any the guys at my work - .

This year I decided I would take a male to my Xmas do - I'm "borrowing" him - NOT BUYing him lol I figured he would enjoy a free meal and drink. And we could do a damn good shit stir. As said above - its bad enough working with them everyday - then you have so socialise with them as well. Anyway I want a free feed and some dancing. If I drank it would have been great cos it is only across the road from me lol

**eelracing** · 4th December 2008, 00:46

Originally Posted by Trudes

I remember a place I worked at decided one year that the Xmas do would be open for partners to attend. There were more fist fights, drunken debortuary, pissed rooting and spew than any other year,

Sounds like a choice knees-up to me.
Wheres this place holding it this year?

**sidecar bob** · 4th December 2008, 02:03

I just give my staff a few hundred bucks each on the last working day of the year & we all fuck off in our own directions. Chrissakes, weve just spent a year working together, its time to get on the piss with the people we dont work with by then.
No jealous partners, no screwing the receptionist & no acetylene bombs, actually, the acetylene bombs were fun.

**Maki** · 4th December 2008, 03:18

Originally Posted by sidecar bob

I just give my staff a few hundred bucks each on the last working day of the year & we all fuck off in our own directions. Chrissakes, weve just spent a year working together, its time to get on the piss with the people we dont work with by then.
No jealous partners, no screwing the receptionist & no acetylene bombs, actually, the acetylene bombs were fun.

Agree 100%

People must have crap relationships and rubbish workplaces if they think it's worth jeopordizing them by screwing around like that...

**Brian d marge** · 4th December 2008, 03:45

Stuff .., my missus just told be the other day to get a girl friend , as long as she is younger , and puts out more ,,, the wife is happy ,,,

I reckon shes calling my bluff ,,, but ,,HELL YEAH ,,,

Ive been up and down this street with this sandwich board ,,a week now ,,,

no Luck

Stephen

ps ,,she did say that ,,,,it twas me who bailed ...