The 360 has gotten better how ever you can not forget what the ps3 has to offer for the money... Built in wifi, bluetooth, blu ray, HDD (arcade 360 does not offer this) and free online play. The main thing that swade me was the 33% failure rate of xbox 360's terrible by any standards. I wouldnt worry to much about graphics how ever i have not seen to many 360 games come close to MGS4 and killzone 2. PS3 is also the more silent of the two. The 360 is amazing value but you get what you pay for.
However beautiful the strategy, you should occasionally look at the results.
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