Definition of cheating?

**Mental Trousers** · 11th November 2006, 21:57

"Cheating" is a combination of what you and your partner consider it to be. If you're both comfortable with flirting, for example, then that's not cheating even though in a different relationship it would be. You both agree on the boundaries.

**smokeyging** · 12th November 2006, 08:08

Originally Posted by chanceyy

in response to your first sentence .. men/woman usually have a darn good idea if they are being cheated on ... the stupid part is the partner cheating thinks that the other partner has no idea, but there are clues .. also over 90% of cheaters get caught ..

& can you clarify how you "know" that woman can't handle that loneliness to well ??

sounds a bit like a generalisation .. & from the incidents in the last week .. it appears the men do not handle break ups/indiscrections that well, more than the woman

your point has been read.

**MVnut** · 12th November 2006, 08:10

Always liked Bill Clinton's philosophy on cheating. lol

**merv** · 12th November 2006, 08:40

Originally Posted by MVnut

Always liked Bill Clinton's philosophy on cheating. lol

To quote "I did not have sex with that woman"

**chanceyy** · 12th November 2006, 08:43

Originally Posted by merv

To quote "I did not have sex with that woman"

but he forgot to ask Hillary if not having sex with that woman, & putting his bodily parts in her mouth, & cumming on her dress was ok in their relationship

**cowpoos** · 12th November 2006, 09:02

Originally Posted by chanceyy

.. also over 90% of cheaters get caught ..

and 79.12% of statistics are made up on the spot

**chanceyy** · 12th November 2006, 09:13

Originally Posted by cowpoos

and 79.12% of statistics are made up on the spot

laffing poosy

well hows this for stats .. out of 10 ppl i know 9 got caught .. isn't that 90%

pt ... but reality is that when a partner decides to cheat, the clues are left for the other partner .. its just whether they choose to see it or not ..

but what ever the stats .. the end result is the same .. vast amounts of hurt, mistrust & life will never be the same

**merv** · 12th November 2006, 09:26

So what's Hillary going to get up to when she is President?

**KATWYN** · 12th November 2006, 09:29

Originally Posted by chanceyy

laffing poosy

well hows this for stats .. out of 10 ppl i know 9 got caught .. isn't that 90%

I reakon. it also depends on who those 10 are. (i.e., a mixure of lots of different people races,religeon,ages etc that can be inferred to the rest of the population) was the 10th one clever at hiding it or did they have a conscience and confess???

Blimmin cheaters.....its that gut feeling you get. Those clues you speak of and that gut feeling is always right I reakon.

And

to the Clinton definition of cheating.......

btw, I like your profile pic chancyy

**chanceyy** · 12th November 2006, 09:39

Originally Posted by KATWYN

I reakon. it also depends on who those 10 are. (i.e., a mixure of lots of different people races,religeon,ages etc that can be inferred to the rest of the population) and maybe the 10th one is/was clever at hiding it ???

I dunno for sure.. but i believe she is one who is burying her head in the sand .. does not want to throw away what she has .... but then I could be wrong, I do believe she knows .. funny thing is even though we live in a town population approx 20,000 word gets round pretty damn fast

Blimmin cheaters.....its that gut feeling you get. Those clues you speak of and that gut feeling is always right I reakon.

And

to the Clinton definition of cheating.......

btw, I like your profile pic chancyy

yeah gut feeling ... can't beat it .. just dunno why everyone likes to ignore it ..

thanks bout profile pic .. its muh fav .. dog is no longer with me .. but thats one of muh horses ..

**Beemer** · 12th November 2006, 09:56

Still not locked...

I have been cheated on in the past and you DO know. It's often just some little thing that makes you suspicious, but once there is that suspicion, it eats away at you until you know for sure. What bugs me is how you can confront the person and they often lie about it! (Same goes for tv - every person who is asked directly "are you seeing someone else?" says "no, I love YOU darling and no one else"!)

I'm now with someone I know with all my heart would never cheat on me and after knowing what it feels like to be cheated on, there is NO WAY I would want him to ever feel that way either.

Dunno why people cheat, but I'd never take back anyone who did. If they do it once, they'll do it again.

**chanceyy** · 12th November 2006, 10:08

Originally Posted by Beemer

I'm now with someone I know with all my heart would never cheat on me and after knowing what it feels like to be cheated on, there is NO WAY I would want him to ever feel that way either.

Dunno why people cheat, but I'd never take back anyone who did. If they do it once, they'll do it again.

totally agree with you

& the other funny thing .. is when someone cheats, gets found out .. leaves partner 1 to stay with partner 2 .. why is partner 2 really suprised when said partner cheats again ....