Dirty flirt!

[ajturbo]

::EDIT::
The text above does refer to me!! (I wish)

what a load of crap....

this was a recording.... the time you were looking in the mirror...

i was holding the mic just out of sight around the corner...
you have just got to stop drink...!!

[Colapop]

If I had the skill of this guy I wouldn't be wasting my breath here I'd be out making it work for me... I know who it is (a guy at work) but I won't say coz there are other staff from work on here.

[Indiana_Jones]

oh go on, tell us

-Indy

[Colapop]

oh go on, tell us
-Indy

You'll tell!!

[Indiana_Jones]

You'll tell!!

na, I'll leave it to you lol

-Indy

[bobsmith]

Duuude. Old chicks are the best to flirt with...if there aren't any homophobic men around.

Sometimes i wish I had ear plugs so I don't have to hear some of the things they say...

[Pathos]

I depends on the work environment.

In our research and development level its pretty much off limits.

[jtzzr]

YOU DON`T SCREW THE CREW it comesback to haunt you.

[Lou Girardin]

why can't chicks take compliments tho?
just sayin 'nice boobs' or 'you're cute'.. and they get huffy..

Kiwi woman seem to be unable to take a compliment from someone they don't fancy. But "nice boobs" probably isn't the best approach. Did she reply, "what a cock"?

[ManDownUnder]

Jesus guys - it's pretty damned simple.

If you've got it - you'll know it, and if you don't - hang around with someone that has it. Watch and learn for a bit.

Engage your brain for a bit - see what works and what doesn't... and on whom. Work it out... best place I've found is a pub. Sit in a corner with a friend and watch how things work after a few drinks take their toll on the masses.

Inhibitions drop, the temptaton (and ability) to flirt picks up and away they go. Women know how to flirt a lot more readily than men I find. They tend to be more aware of all the aspects of a conversation (i.e. body language) and can use it to their considerable advantage. Any guy learning the very basics will be head and shoulders above the rest.

=== that's the simple approach=== here's some background/bullshit.
A simple and effective first "test" to see how receptive to flirting a woman is - check her clothing. Revealing at all? Cleavage? Anything that then exposes more of herself to you is a sign - a strong sign. The chances are she's not sooooooo hot that she wants to take her jacket off. Let's face it - that situation's not too common in a pub. If she takes her jacket off with a more revealing outfit underneath there's a good chance she wanted you to see the outfit.

SO LOOK. Admire it - let her know if you like it (don't bullshit here though... your mouth will say one thing - your eyes and body the other... she'll spot you and know you for a fraud before you finish the sentence). If she takes it off to get comfortable.... it's not just comfortable in the temperature sense. Let's turn that on it's head... if a woman has a top on that shows a bit of cleavage, with a jacket over the top... and she's near some guy that makes her uncomfortable - do you think she'll take that jacket off?

Hell no. She'll bake in there before allowing him to think she's sexy (although that's not exactly what's going through her mind - that's more along the lines of "fucken perv."). On the flip side - taking her jacket off isn't an invite to shag her. It's simply an example that she's actually ok with you there, and depending on how revealing or attractive the outfit underneath is, the more comfortable she is with you there.

Guys - start with "grooming" or "preening". Hit Google, find "Body Language" and "grooming". See where that takes you. Then check out the other stuff around it, dilation of pupils, smiling, relaxed face, open palms facing you etc etc etc.... there's WAAAAY to much for this post - so find it online and have a read.

Anyway - I'll fuck off now - do your own damned research... it's fun. Start here (and go through the pages - you'll see what I mean)

[bugjuice]

Kiwi woman seem to be unable to take a compliment from someone they don't fancy. But "nice boobs" probably isn't the best approach. Did she reply, "what a cock"?

if she had, would I have been in....?


virtual hi-5

[KATWYN]

A simple and effective first "test" to see how receptive to flirting a woman is - check her clothing. Revealing at all? Cleavage? Anything that then exposes more of herself to you is a sign - a strong sign. The chances are she's not sooooooo hot that she wants to take her jacket off. .

I am sooo glad i'm just a jeans and T-shirt gal. Goodness help me if I dare to wear anything else with all that analyzing going on.

[ManDownUnder]

I am sooo glad i'm just a jeans and T-shirt gal. Goodness help me if I dare to wear anything else with all that analyzing going on.

LOLOL - na - you're safe. Guys generally (like 99% of the time) know very little about what's going on around them. It's fun to watch.

Sorry - I meant say... photos? j/k

[Sparky Bills]

Geez!
Ive never seen soooo many amatures in one area!

I think Mandownunder hit the nail dead on.
Its not hard. Just dont bullshit around. It will kick you in the ass every time.
Just start talking, keep eye contact (their actual EYES!), dont be self absorbed, ask questions, and generally be interested in what they are saying!
And dont get so drunk that you stumble and dribble all over the show! Thats just not a good look.

As far as the flirting part goes at work...
Well alot of you are actually my customers , so you tell me! haha

There is a place for it, but there are limits not to go past.
Last time i was updating my clubbing/night out clothes i had some young girl helping me out. She was all over me! I am sad to say... but she could have sold me anything in that store!
A bit of healthy flirting was never a bad thing! It keeps the self esteem up and going.

Well thats my two cents anyway.

[Indiana_Jones]

Flirting with the boys!

-Indy