Internet dating

**marty** · 11th June 2010, 09:20

Originally Posted by HenryDorsetCase

but he still banged her, right?

Nup - she lived in Timaru and was married to a teacher down there. He lived in Hamilton. They've never met.

**marty** · 11th June 2010, 09:21

Originally Posted by lorenzo.V

"Men are from Mars, women are from Stratford-upon-Avon..."
So...a hard road...but not impossible!
Just don't get done for speeding, that's all, lol.

Nothing worse than a camera ticket from somewhere you're not supposed to be huh

**RiderInBlack** · 11th June 2010, 11:26

Originally Posted by marty

I have a mate who went to meet a flash lawyer (that he had met online, and spoken to on the phone!) on her arrival back from an important meeting in Wellington, at Auckland Airport - surprise her with flowers and night on the town. Turned out she was a housewife in Timaru that had made the whole thing up.

This I why I have a "Meet as soon as possible" policy when it comes ta Internet Dating. It is harder for someone to BS ya when ya meet them, and I drop BSérs like hot cakes & time wasters their are.
If ya fake ya weight, ya photo, who ya are and we meet, ya have already blown it. Ya looks & ya weight are not as important to me as ya personally. Hot women may be a turn-on ta look at but, if ya fake on the inside & a Liar it's huge turn-off for me. If we work-out, we work out, but that will only happen if we are both being who we are.
Sex is just sex. Enjoy it when it happens, but ya only get good sex with someone ya feel comfortable with. To be comfortable ya need to trust each other. To trust each other ya need to know each other. To know each other Ya have ta drop the BS.

**Quasi** · 11th June 2010, 11:52

Originally Posted by RiderInBlack

This I why I have a "Meet as soon as possible" policy when it comes ta Internet Dating. It is harder for someone to BS ya when ya meet them, and I drop BSérs like hot cakes & time wasters their are.
If ya fake ya weight, ya photo, who ya are and we meet, ya have already blown it. Ya looks & ya weight are not as important to me as ya personally. Hot women may be a turn-on ta look at but, if ya fake on the inside & a Liar it's huge turn-off for me. If we work-out, we work out, but that will only happen if we are both being who we are.
Sex is just sex. Enjoy it when it happens, but ya only get good sex with someone ya feel comfortable with. To be comfortable ya need to trust each other. To trust each other ya need to know each other. To know each other Ya have ta drop the BS.

Keep that up and I.m going to have to marry yah after Ratti

**Ronin** · 11th June 2010, 12:01

Lessons learned

]Meet as soon as possible. It it easy to be smart, witty and not smell on the Internet. Be honest and straight up after all, that is what you want them to do isn't it? If you meet and you are really not into them be be polite and honest and wander away. You may have met a good friend for life rather than breaking some ones heart in 6 months time because you were to scared of hurting them.

Just because you can... Doesn't mean you should.

**Genie** · 11th June 2010, 14:42

Originally Posted by Quasi

Keep that up and I.m going to have to marry yah after Ratti

I agree, the words he's saying he might just end up with a nice little KB Harem going on.

Due to the events in my personel life over the last few months and after reading this thread I thought....I'll have a looksie at this NZ Dating thing.

I have to say it's interesting. I've had about 8 pics of erect penis's and so many offers of hot and steamy sex and they can thrill me in ways I couldn't imagine (ha they have no idea who my last was!!), some msn online computer sex?????? WTF, if I'm going to allow someone to get a load of what I got....it'll take a hell of a lot more than that!!!

And then there's the stalking ones....the ones that have seen me at the gym, the one that asks do I still live in the same house, knows my name and reckons I have nice boobs!!! FFS, talk about scarey. Have not come across any that have induced me to think I may wish to met them at all, they seem to be a bunch of dirty perverted sex starved animal....oh shit, they're men what more could I expect.

Guess it's just me for now or I could go bat for the other team.....but do I really care, I have a motorbike and we just went out to play and boy did we have some fun!!!!!!
After my last experience I'm rather wary and it will take quite some time before I'd trust another.

**SPman** · 11th June 2010, 14:55

I have to say it's interesting. I've had about 8 pics of erect penis's and so many offers of hot and steamy sex and they can thrill me in ways I couldn't imagine (ha they have no idea who my last was!!), some msn online computer sex?????? WTF,

LOL - had a friend that was trying the Internet dating thing and she had the same experiences - she couldn't believe some of the stuff that was sent (she is broadminded, but not THAT broadminded....)

**Quasi** · 11th June 2010, 15:30

Originally Posted by Genie

I agree, the words he's saying he might just end up with a nice little KB Harem going on.

Get in line.

**Genie** · 11th June 2010, 15:44

Originally Posted by Quasi

Get in line.

those that are part of a haram may only be "serviced" once in a lifetime so I'll think I'll give it a miss

**Reckless** · 11th June 2010, 16:10

Originally Posted by Genie

Due to the events in my personel life over the last few months and after reading this thread I thought....I'll have a looksie at this NZ Dating thing.

Yep same here!
I had the final word today it's no go. I've had a wee look at the dating sites but not signed up for any of them! I have a fear of posting my credit card to any site like that, maybe I'll have to go get a new debit type one??

There seems to be such a range of Sites from ones showing the full open fanny (WTF is that all about)? I like a naked women as much as the next guy but fuck me, you could fall in some of them LOL! And quite nice looking women some of them, surly things haven't got that desperate have they? So genie there is another side to the coin too. LOL!!
If those sites are like you say their must be lost of room for a nice guy to slide his way into a girls charms ahead of the dickheads. Seems someone with the correct approach could have a field day LOL!!!

I haven't tried getting out and about much yet so we shall see about dating sites?? Just gotta get the house finished, sold and get another road bike as you don't meet many like minded nice women in the bush on the dirt bike! LOL!!

Trouble is there is a ton of dating sites and I certainly ain't looking to get married or even involved again for a while, which one is the question?

Edit: I need a girl with two bikes LOL!!! (I have a spare MX one)

**Bren** · 11th June 2010, 16:19

I met my wife through NZD, we have been together for 7 years now...when we seperated a while ago I went on to NZD for a bit, but now we are back together...

I prefer the internet dating sites to actually doing the pub scene