When do you prefer to do it?

**RiderInBlack** · 4th September 2007, 07:50

Originally Posted by Goblin

Unless of course, you're into spooning...but that can lead to trouble too.

Originally Posted by jrandom

Spooning leads to forking.

Originally Posted by Goblin

Heh! Just before the knife goes in. Yay for sleeping alone!

Once upon a time I would have agreed with ya but that's because my relationship with my now ex-wife was not a good one. Since then I have found a partner where we both enjoy the proper use of "cutlery". "Spooning" is great and we have no problem if "forking" or "knifes" get envolved

**Grahameeboy** · 4th September 2007, 07:56

Originally Posted by Kornholio

Im basically a willy with a human attached

So you are a big plonker then??

**Blue Babe** · 4th September 2007, 08:44

Originally Posted by sunhuntin

i agree... i love cuddling before going to sleep [actually, falling asleep like that is heaven to me.] and i have met one man where i basically spent the whole night wrapped up in a hug of some type.

every time i moved, id be grabbed in both arms *sigh*

i do, also, agree with random... i have tried reversing sleeping positions with my partner, and my arm went dead and i couldnt get it out. never again. i do worry about sleeping on peoples arms because of that, but theres no where else for that arm to go it would appear! the night i reversed things, i did try having it between us, and also bent around behind me. both resulted in pins and needles.

On cooler nights Doug is like that with me, mind you if he moves away from me I follow him & he lands up with very little room on his side of the bed.

If I move away he often pulls me back into a cuddle where I'm tucked into his front with my back. Sooo Cosy

I can't explain exactly but I seem to get my arm tucked in between us, with my hand sticking out & resting either on my thigh or just on his thigh. Elbow is not bent. It's very comfortable & I very rarely get pins & needles. (I get pins & needles bad if my arms are tucked up under my chin.)

**fireball** · 4th September 2007, 12:49

Originally Posted by Blue Babe

On cooler nights Doug is like that with me, mind you if he moves away from me I follow him & he lands up with very little room on his side of the bed.

If I move away he often pulls me back into a cuddle where I'm tucked into his front with my back. Sooo Cosy

I can't explain exactly but I seem to get my arm tucked in between us, with my hand sticking out & resting either on my thigh or just on his thigh. Elbow is not bent. It's very comfortable & I very rarely get pins & needles. (I get pins & needles bad if my arms are tucked up under my chin.)

yeah there is always somewhere to put your hands where they wont get pins and needles...

**sunhuntin** · 4th September 2007, 12:58

Originally Posted by fireball

yeah there is always somewhere to put your hands where they wont get pins and needles...

*decides to keep looking for that spot*

**007XX** · 4th September 2007, 13:04

Originally Posted by sunhuntin

*decides to keep looking for that spot*

The trouble is once you've found it, can't leav the bloody thing alone!

**fireball** · 4th September 2007, 13:07

Originally Posted by 007XX

The trouble is once you've found it, can't leav the bloody thing alone!

yeah i still cant get you to stop touching it....

**007XX** · 4th September 2007, 13:18

Originally Posted by fireball

yeah i still cant get you to stop touching it....

Come again?

**fireball** · 4th September 2007, 13:21

Originally Posted by 007XX

Come again?

who said i came the first time?

**007XX** · 4th September 2007, 13:28

Originally Posted by fireball

who said i came the first time?

was I there?

Damn, short term memory is playing up again...

But eh, I thought the fakeys were reserved for the boys...

**ManDownUnder** · 4th September 2007, 13:29

Originally Posted by fireball

who said i came the first time?

The bite marks on your lower lips gave it away...

Originally Posted by 007XX

was I there?

Damn, short term memory is playing up again...

But eh, I thought the fakeys were reserved for the boys...

Oh that's playing dirty! Still I haven't had any complaints yet

**sunhuntin** · 4th September 2007, 13:30

pmsl at you both, lol. fireball... pity your in aucks, otherwise id take you up on that offer...

where do you both recommend that spare arm goes? when im hugging my partner, i dont like having my arm between us cos i like as much full contact as possible. the arm gets in the way.

**fireball** · 4th September 2007, 13:34

Originally Posted by sunhuntin

pmsl at you both, lol. fireball... pity your in aucks, otherwise id take you up on that offer...

where do you both recommend that spare arm goes? when im hugging my partner, i dont like having my arm between us cos i like as much full contact as possible. the arm gets in the way.

ROAD TRIP!

as to where to put that hand.... 69 is the answer