Kiwi Women all Nympho Slappers

**scumdog** · 15th October 2007, 11:16

Originally Posted by 007XX

That's very sad! Call me an idealist if you wish, but to me, marriage is about being equals...

WTF is that about being pussy wipped, or about a woman being a servant???

True, ya gotta be equals, mates, partners - as well as rooting-buddies..

And here in Chez Scumdog I wear the pants - 'cos CB lets me.

**jrandom** · 15th October 2007, 11:20

Originally Posted by 007XX

WTF is that about being pussy wipped, or about a woman being a servant???

It's a way of gently taking the piss about the fact that married folk generally look after their partner's interests before their own. Which is as it should be.

When that sort of devotion goes both ways, it's a lot healthier than two people just living their own lives based out of the same house, being financially codependent and using each other for sex.

**007XX** · 15th October 2007, 11:21

Originally Posted by scumdog

True, ya gotta be equals, mates, partners - as well as rooting-buddies..

And here in Chez Scumdog I wear the pants - 'cos CB lets me.

I hear you mate...sounds a lot like what 007XY and I have...

**jrandom** · 15th October 2007, 11:29

Originally Posted by 007XX

sounds a lot like what 007XY and I have...

Yes, you two seem to have quite the model marriage.

**007XX** · 15th October 2007, 11:30

Originally Posted by jrandom

It's a way of gently taking the piss about the fact that married folk generally look after their partner's interests before their own. Which is as it should be.

When that sort of devotion goes both ways, it's a lot healthier than two people just living their own lives based out of the same house, being financially codependent and using each other for sex.

Sorry, my comment was more of a rhetorical question in regards to couples who are actually suffering from one or the other person being more dominant.

I have witnessed forst hand a mate of mine being brutally put back in his place by his "wife to be" in front of all his mates, and all he did was bow his head and said "yes Dear"...

And I would disapprove of the situation if the shoe was on the other foot as well, of course.

However, in your explanation's case, I am the first one to say "I'll check with my husband first", and he does the same... We're a team, we make the decisions based on US coexisiting as a unit.
And neither of us would have it any other way.

**007XX** · 15th October 2007, 11:37

Originally Posted by jrandom

Yes, you two seem to have quite the model marriage.

Well, I don't know about that...We've had our moments like everyone else. But we work it out, we try to always put the other person's feelings as a priority and we never let anything or anyone come between us.

We both went through very difficult relationships in the past, and now that we've found the one that fits, we will work at it to make sure it stays that way.

No matter how loving you are, contempt and boredom can seep in overtime, unless you make sure you aknowledge it and constantly keep the special connection and bond that makes you special as a couple.

Anyway, I'm no specialist on the matter, so rant over...

**The Stranger:Me** · 15th October 2007, 12:16

Originally Posted by 007XX

Just goes to show how much you really know...but anyways, back on topic please!

Oh but we are on topic.

Yes humility, look it up. Seriously, not a French strong point is it? The French are renowned for their arrogance are they not?
Encarta defines arrogance as an antonym of humility

Your apparent incredulity at not being hit upon more frequently by kiwi males could easily I feel be interpretted as a lack of humility.
Perhaps this goes some way to explaining a possible reason you were not hit upon often enough.

So yes I was on topic, at least one of the topics you were on.

**Colapop** · 15th October 2007, 12:20

Perhaps, Kiwi males (possibly you) are intimidated by a confident woman?

**The Stranger:Me** · 15th October 2007, 12:26

Originally Posted by Colapop

Perhaps, Kiwi males (possibly you) are intimidated by a confident woman?

Bwahahaha.
I think you may have missed something there sir.

**Colapop** · 15th October 2007, 12:27

But I never miss a trick..? Ooo hang-on is that a shot at kiwi chicks too?

**Mikkel** · 15th October 2007, 15:03

Originally Posted by Colapop

Perhaps, Kiwi males (possibly you) are intimidated by a confident woman?

What is confidence anyway? Always yelling out your opinion, being loudmouthed and pushing yourself forwards and having a high opinion of yourself?

I know a few truly confident people and I hold them in the utmost of respect. A general trait is that these people don't yammer on and on - they speak almost quietly and always to the point. They display no trace of arrogance whatsoever - just a calm knowledge of their own ability. They never assert themselves without there being an extremely good reason for it. They are very concious about the choices that they make, keep true to their word and value their integrity.

I don't see how this definition (my definition admittedly and not a universal patent on the TRUTH(tm)) ties in with having lots of partners, being a bitch/asshole, etc. Of course there are heaps of people out there who are quite good at faking confidence and some of them use it with good result to get laid. I know quite a few people who are/were like that and I must say they never struck me as being confident except when they called the shots - and it's usually when you're experiencing the unexpected that confidence is most important.

All that being said - the kiwi girls I know well are good sorts. No more confident or unconfident, no more loose or pure, etc. than girls from anywhere else. And the same goes for the guys. There're still a lot of wankers/jerks/skanks/assholes and other types that try their best to do their worst with no consideration for other people - don't think that NZ is any worse or any better than elsewhere... problem is that most of the assholes can afford a 4x4 if they're so inclined!

Sorry - got a bit longwinded. Incredible what one will do to procrastinate when at work eh?

**Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)** · 15th October 2007, 15:23

So we NZ girls need to go to Nigeria to get truly satisfied!! Aint that 98% of the truth LOL.

One day men might actually realise that a woman can and most do - have a higher libido than a male. Others must have realised this as your email inbox gets bombarded with ads selling viagra.

007 interesting that overseas you never stayed single long. Here the men are definitely very slow in asking women out - "she might reject me" is the story I've always been given - well HTFU. Mind you many don't have the basic etiquette skills - have no idea of how to treat a woman etc. I have totally given up on the dating scene - jesus wept - I'm sick of meeting total retards - rather stay single - that does not mean I don't have a sex life either. There is a saying I love - why marry the whole pig for a bit of sausage now and then! LOL

**SpankMe** · 15th October 2007, 15:30

Originally Posted by Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)

One day men might actually realise that a woman can and most do - have a higher libido than a male. Others must have realised this as your email inbox gets bombarded with ads selling viagra.

BOLLOCKS!!! Complete and utter. If women craved sex as much as guys, there would be as many guy prostitutes serving women as there are female ones serving guys. You could probably count the number of straight male hookers on your fingers. No, correction, there wouldn't be any prostitutes at all, girls and guys would be just going up to each other on the streets and saying "wonna shag". Nothing would ever get done and the world would cease to function.