Hmmm, with regards to the thread title...
If I'm not their father, then they aren't my children now are they?
Besides, I haven't got any to begin with.
It is preferential to refrain from the utilisation of grandiose verbiage in the circumstance that your intellectualisation can be expressed using comparatively simplistic lexicological entities. (...such as the word fuck.)
Remember your humanity, and forget the rest. - Joseph Rotblat
There's hope for Luke Skywalker then . . .![]()
Illuc ivi, illud feci.
Buggrim, Buggrit.
I've written and deleted several responses to this as I'm not sure how to tackle it. What I will say is; before you get any ideas on me only wanting sex, that's not the case. If I only wanted sex I wouldn't have looked (and found) a nice girl, rather I'd have just gone drinking more often and sleep with whoever's legs were open.
My last girlfriend didn't 'put out' till quite late in the relationship, then she cheated on me. Now I'm with a girl that's had partners before and 'put out' after a month with no pressure to do so, and I've gone several more months with her with no reason to not trust her.
Anyone at my age that's keen on a relationship is worth a shot anyway, those that are just keen for a shag are normally open about it. just got to watch out for the cockteases
who was in jail on and off. Reason was that he was not the sharpest tool in the drawer.
His missus had 4 kids. He was a proud dad!
When he came out last time he decided to change his life! He was to become the dad and provider. Work, take care of little missus and kids.
But she left him. And he ended up with all 4 kids.
I know his case worker really well, she tells me that he is now struggling on low income, working long hours to care for the kids. He is sort of decent. Takes his responsibility seriously. Wants the kids to grow up better then he did.
What he does not know is that none of them is his...And it is not the case workers job to tell him.
Cuckoo...
Yeah, since when was Charlie a Ginga? And don't give me any jibba jabba about reccesive genes!
The birth process pretty much takes care or any doubt there.
An easy choice to make in the big UH bro, but not necessarily the best one.
err scratch scratch.
Sounds like you've got your head screwed on pretty straight. I know it's a bit macho bullshit but as the Southern man says "she's a hard row finding the perfect woman son"
I suppose reading this thread that this is all just about trust.
It's all good to think, it's your cock, so you have ultimate control over where it goes and what precautions you take with it, but that will only really protect the physical you. When you're involved in relationships it's more than just you you have to think about, trust becomes important in all facets of your life.
The main thing I reckon at your age is to make sure you do the things you want to (without being a selfish prick) and if your girl is still by your side then![]()
I am divorced with 2 boys, my partner is also divorced with 2 boys
When he comes home and goes to the garage to work on a bike or 2 (or 3 or 4) the one who is his shadow, watching his every move and saying, "I want to be just like you".....is my older boy and not one of his 2.
When one of the kids pipes up (usually after being growled at) and says I love you dad,
it isn't always one of HIS boys.
Being a parent has nothing to do with DNA.
In saying that, anyone who gets involved with a married person or while they are married be they man or women is a the lowest scummiest person. Sorry if that sounds harsh but have been cheated on and the repercussions are hugh for the whole family most especially the kids.
Interesting thread.
I've got 2 girls and they're mine. It's certainly a trust thing. Until recently we were 12,000 miles apart, now the gap is only 5,000. After nearly 20 years of marriage and all the adventures that go with that, neither of us would do anything to change it. There's only one person I want to grow old with and when the kids finally leave home we might just get the chance.
Mind you there was a time when I suspected the dog....
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