Have you ever thought of leaving a note?

**glice** · 26th May 2008, 16:08

Most of the time people don’t know when they’re going to kick the bucket and in those cases you don’t get a chance to say a final good bye to your loved ones.
Have any of you guys ever left some sort of see you later note or thought about it?
Whenever I get close to having a big one I think shit there’s so much I need to tell people and to say sorry for leaving on such short notice (not that you have much of a choice in situations like these) (and not saying that its going to happen on a bike, could be crossing the road, who knows?).
Not sure if it’s a good idea or not?
It would need to be given to someone who wouldn’t read it unless you actually died, and would need to be someone who wouldn’t get freaked out by the thought of it.

**yungatart** · 26th May 2008, 16:10

Surely it is much easier to tell those that you love how you feel about them, and take the time to show them in all those little ways, that they are important to you.

My 2c worth...

**megageoff76** · 26th May 2008, 16:12

I often feel like I leaving a note saying...Learn how to park properly next time dick head...that way theres room for everyone.

Not really relevant to the thread...but its leaving a note none the less.

**glice** · 26th May 2008, 16:18

Originally Posted by yungatart

Surely it is much easier to tell those that you love how you feel about them, and take the time to show them in all those little ways, that they are important to you.

My 2c worth...

yea they know it. Im talking more of a last goodbye.

I often feel like I leaving a note saying...Learn how to park properly next time dick head...that way theres room for everyone.

Not really relevant to the thread...but its leaving a note none the less.

ha I sometimes do.

**TOTO** · 26th May 2008, 16:24

This was a wake up call for me. I have a letter. Hope none of you ever read it and hope I never get to read yours

**90s** · 26th May 2008, 16:24

I plan on leaving lots of little notes, called bills.
They won't forget me then.

**Katman** · 26th May 2008, 16:30

Sometimes I leave a note for the tooth fairy if I haven't got any change.

**glice** · 26th May 2008, 16:32

Originally Posted by TOTO

This was a wake up call for me. I have a letter. Hope none of you ever read it and hope I never get to read yours

hadnt seen that. I searched but didnt find anything. that was a really good letter.

**Trudes** · 26th May 2008, 16:50

Yes, I have a note tucked away in some personal stuff that will be found once I've carked it (hopefully...

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**MVnut** · 26th May 2008, 20:27

a bit bloody morbid if you ask me

**Usarka** · 26th May 2008, 20:31

forget the note, just remember to clear the history on your browser before you kark it!

**mowgli** · 26th May 2008, 20:32

Originally Posted by MVnut

a bit bloody morbid if you ask me

My thoughts exactly MVnut. I'm with yungatart - be honest with your loved ones then there's no need for notes.

**TOTO** · 26th May 2008, 20:33

Originally Posted by Usarka

forget the note, just remember to clear the history on your browser before you kark it!

My one is set to not remember any history

**skidMark** · 26th May 2008, 20:37

I'd rather not think about it to be honest.

All my mates and family know how i feel because im no bullshit honest.

Final goodbye.thats what funerals are for.

leaving the note i think would do more harm than good and perhaps not help the grieving process. i dunno. each to thier own.