Over 20 years ago I came to NZ after years of moving from country to country. Liked what I did see but had no plans of staying. Japan was my next goal, then Canada to ski...
Well, then this girl came in to my life (2 weeks before I was to leave...). Now after 6 years as single dad with 4 boys I am getting to a stage where the travel plans are sounding better and better again.
I like NZ and my kids love it here. Their mum is here. But as single parent I am paying all the bills. And even if I am paid over the NZ average, I have nothing left at end of week.
I have 13 years left to retirement. Am I supposed to sit here, save some in KiwiSaver (have calculated that when I turn 65 I will have about $150 - $200K in KiwiSaver) and start to live my life after retirement?
So I have also started to look around. For a place where my kids can get a good schooling, there is opportunities, somewhere more central (everything is so far away from NZ!!). And where I can earn much more and enjoy my time until retirement, not only stay alive.
Oz in all respect. But I am starting to lean towards Dubai.
The Positives re Dubai for me:
- No tax.
- High income. (Mine would be in the $300K/year +)
- Opportunities. Blows me away when I see what they are doing there!!
- Brilliant schools for "european" children.
- My kids future.
- Traveltime to Europe less then 1/2 compared to NZ
- No cold nights or rain!!
The negatives as I see it:
- Might become a fraction too hot??
- The Arab way of life (religion and rules)
- No alcohol (apart from in private clubs)
- Uprooting my kids from friends and the only life they know.
Big part in my starting to consider all this is that I can not see any real change here in NZ. Yes, we will most probably get a National Gov in the election. But it does not matter who is in charge. If you only have so many buttons to play with it it does not matter how you organise them. It will still be the same amount of buttons.
The reality is that NZ is falling behind. Sure, there is an elite who is getting it better. But 80% of new zealanders are falling further behind when in comparison to rest of the world. I have friends in many countries. They all have money to travel on holidays each year. They have money saved, money they can go out to dinner with, buy stuff they want not just need.
I don't have the time to wait for 20+ years until NZ has all sorted and is back on top. So I am getting closer to making a selfish decision based on me and my kids needs and wants.
Still a little away from making the final decision. But the more I think about it...
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