Online stalkers?

**Spiderpig** · 6th July 2008, 14:38

Ever been stalked online? What are the signs, how do you know that a lurker is waiting for you...you are the victim and you dont even know it.

**James Deuce** · 6th July 2008, 15:07

You're a pig. The signs should be obvious. A Pete's Bacon delivery truck should be a dead give away.

**Kittyhawk** · 6th July 2008, 16:24

Ive been stalked twice online - on msn infact and once in person when I first moved to Auckland.

Was at uni, and the guy was late 40's he was waiting outside the hostel for me. Drove to a mates place up the road and he saw me drive past, I rang the cops etc. No idea what happened in the end but it scared me.

As for the msn thing, blinded by friendship, did some homework, talked to close friends and confirmed I was being stallked. I mean seriously who stays up till 1am to talk online, when it was an off chance I got home late signed in to check e mails then went to bed.

Or talking online to someone, only met them once in person and they say you are their best friend after that...creepy shit!!

**Hitcher** · 6th July 2008, 18:35

How to get stalked? Provide lurid personal information and photos together with details of your email and preferably home phone and street address to absolute strangers. Engage in flirtatious behaviour and other come-ons. That should work a treat.

**Mom** · 6th July 2008, 18:39

Originally Posted by James Deuce

You're a pig. The signs should be obvious. A Pete's Bacon delivery truck should be a dead give away.

He is troll J2

Originally Posted by Hitcher

How to get stalked? Provide lurid personal information and photos together with details of your email and preferably home phone and street address to absolute strangers. Engage in flirtatious behaviour and other come-ons. That should work a treat.

So now you tell me!

**Kittyhawk** · 6th July 2008, 19:27

Yeah theres the online flurting, and most know where the line is drawn, but some take it a little too far. My "wish list" in the birthday thread was a prime example, everyone knew I was joking, but there was one who actually took it the wrong way and insisted on coming over.

When I explained it wasnt a serious post and that most of my posts arent seriously taken, excuses were made and it got weird.

**98tls** · 6th July 2008, 19:29

Originally Posted by Kittyhawk

Yeah theres the online flurting, and most know where the line is drawn, but some take it a little too far. My "wish list" in the birthday thread was a prime example, everyone knew I was joking, but there was one who actually took it the wrong way and insisted on coming over.

When I explained it wasnt a serious post and that most of my posts arent seriously taken, excuses were made and it got weird.

Cmon name the weirdo.

**TLMAN** · 6th July 2008, 19:45

Originally Posted by 98tls

Cmon name the weirdo.

Absolutely!!

**oldrider** · 6th July 2008, 19:52

Originally Posted by Kittyhawk

Yeah theres the online flurting, and most know where the line is drawn, but some take it a little too far. My "wish list" in the birthday thread was a prime example, everyone knew I was joking, but there was one who actually took it the wrong way and insisted on coming over.

When I explained it wasnt a serious post and that most of my posts arent seriously taken, excuses were made and it got weird.

Maybe they find your signature pic kind of "engaging"! (lol)

Personally, I think it is bloody clever, even captivating.

John.

**howdamnhard** · 6th July 2008, 19:54

Originally Posted by Kittyhawk

...I mean seriously who stays up till 1am to talk online...

Shift workers

**FJRider** · 6th July 2008, 20:01

Originally Posted by Hitcher

How to get stalked? Provide lurid personal information and photos together with details of your email and preferably home phone and street address to absolute strangers. Engage in flirtatious behaviour and other come-ons. That should work a treat.

Did you use(need) photo' of a "friend" ???