Why men cheat.

[Dave Lobster]

Australian Aboriginal Culture alone is over 4000 years old...

Nah.. impossible. The man from the church says so.

[Maha]

Are you a mormon? Has the UEB sanctioned this advance?

UEB?? United Emo Bitches??...na I wouldn't have thought so Craggy....

[Indiana_Jones]

More cushin' for the pushin'!

-Indy

[Sully60]

UEB?? United Emo Bitches??...na I wouldn't have thought so Craggy....

You crack me up

United Effort Brotherhood

[scumdog]

Men cheat because they are here for one reason. Procreation. Women cheat because they're sluts.

Can't be more simple than this.

NOOoooo...surely all the women that cheated with me did it just because they're sluts??

[MIXONE]

NOOoooo...surely all the women that cheated with me did it just because they're sluts??

It definately wasn't because of your photo spread.

[scumdog]

No matter what kind of biological excuses that can be used for why men cheat, as Finn says when woman do it they are a slut.
Skyryder

Yup, that anomally has me stumped too.

Guy roots lots of women: He's a stud.

Woman roots lots of guys: She's a slut.

Go figure.......

[Finn]

NOOoooo...surely all the women that cheated with me did it just because they're sluts??

No silly. Women can't resist the lure of a Harley, that's all. We don't call them sluts. Just human.

[ManDownUnder]

Yup, that anomally has me stumped too.

Guy roots lots of women: He's a stud.

Woman roots lots of guys: She's a slut.

Go figure.......

exactly - it's not like there's any pleasure on offer...

[NUTBAR]

Do you mean "cheat" as in (a) have sex without emotional connection behind your partner's, or (b) being in a relationship with someone else behind your partner's back?

I would have thought the physical act would be less betraying to a woman than having another intimate emotional relationship that may include sex.

We all have physical needs and some stronger than others. If sex is offered frequently, then I would see little reason for a man to cheat as per (a) above.

Making sandwhiches doesn't do it. Two things you need to do.
1. Letting your man know how much you appreciate him and give him physical praise / compliments
2. Tell him you "need" him (yes - we know you girls don't in this modern age need men, but men need to be "needed" - so just fake it, we can't tell - we too dumb)....
... the above 2 cater for the relationship side for men. (apart from common interests which apply to both partners).

Add to that frequent sex and you won't end up with a cheater.

exactly what he said, couldnt put it anymore simpiler than that!, unfortunitly kiwi women dont apreciate what men have to offer, it always amazes me that when women get into a comitted relasionship they let them selves go, & get fat & then wonder why their man doesnt find them attractive anymore & cheat. ( i can hear the drums rolling now).

[jrandom]

always amazes me that when women get into a comitted relasionship they let them selves go, & get fat & then wonder why their man doesnt find them attractive anymore & cheat.

I wonder the same thing.

Any man worth his salt who has a missus who's let herself go should be able to negotiate the issue before shagging other women, rather than having to sneak around and do it in secret. And, yes, that includes leaving the relationship if no solution can be found.

Sex is important. That doesn't mean it should be an excuse for lies and deception.

[vifferman]

Australian Aboriginal Culture alone is over 4000 years old...

You've lost a zero - try 40,000.

[Skyryder]

Yup, that anomally has me stumped too.

Guy roots lots of women: He's a stud.

Woman roots lots of guys: She's a slut.

Go figure.......

Much the same applies to the older guy and the 'trophy wife' as against the older woman (couger)and her toyboy or candy man. One it is a compliment while for the other (female) it's a putdown


Skyryder

[DMNTD:Me]

I wonder how shallow this puddle is?

[Skyryder]

I wonder the same thing.

Any man worth his salt who has a missus who's let herself go should be able to negotiate the issue before shagging other women, rather than having to sneak around and do it in secret. And, yes, that includes leaving the relationship if no solution can be found.

Sex is important. That doesn't mean it should be an excuse for lies and deception.

Jeez just look at the beer bellys at your next rally. Can you imagine these guys agreeing with you on this?? It's for better or worse, for both parties not just the guys.


Skyryder