Kids and porn on internet...

[jrandom]

give him porn, let him wank himself into a frenzy, what's the big deal?

No big deal. Give him porn by all means, but there's porn, and then there's porn, and there's a lot of really fucked-up, misogynistic shit on the internet. I, for one, don't want my boy exposed to that point of view until he's old enough to know better.

13-year-olds aren't old enough to know better.

I'd be quite tempted to just get him a Playboy subscription. If he kept every issue, he'd probably have a valuable collection after 10 years.

[The_Dover]

there's a lot of really fucked-up, misogynistic shit on the internet.

give him a head start in life, expose him to the truth.

At least then he wont waste his teenage years worrying about what bitches think of him and can go out and do proper bloke stuff and focus on what he wants.

[cowboyz]

Sounds like you have opened well there cowboy, and it is promising to note that he came out with the truth fairly smartly. Focus on the bigger issues is the way to go, he is going to go through heaps of changes and confusion (as I'm sure you can remember some of) and laying good foundations for communication will be needed if not already established. Curiosity level is normal, hiding the behaviour is also normal, the next couple of years should be interesting! Good luck.

I cant remember. I still a virgin.

I had to laugh. His mothers first response (not in from of the boy) was " oh my god.. my babys growing up!!!!"

You should be proud of him.
Healthy curiosity, resourceful, interested in women.
Just a regular healthy young man.
Think yourself lucky



Ha ha.
You not allowed to make decisions on your own?

I make all the decisions in my household. I am the king of the castle. Every minute detail has to be passed by me. I am so powerful. My wife told me so.. I just had to check with her.

[Beemer]

I'd be quite tempted to just get him a Playboy subscription. If he kept every issue, he'd probably have a valuable collection after 10 years.

Yes, but are they worth anything in a *ahem* used condition? Or do stuck together pages add to their value?

[Hitcher]

I've heard that porn is OK, if you don't inhale...

[slinky]

I was late back from work this afternoon and my 12 year old was home alone for about half an hour. He was playing round on the PC when I got in. he looked kinda guilty about something when I walked in so I asked him what he was doing. he said watching music videos online.

I had a quick look through the history and it shows that he typed "free porn" into google and then surfed quite a few porn websites.

How would you approach this?

I am waiting for his mother to get home.

let him be

[avgas]

he did the Google search. I was quite suprised at how clean the results were though, well done Google

filter must have been on....back in 95 i did a search for 'pawn' for school......no filters and it was funny wot came up

[jrandom]

At least then he wont waste his teenage years worrying about what bitches think of him...

I wish there was a magic pill that'd do that for my boy, but I suspect that that stage is just something we all have to go through. I certainly did, and I don't think anything but time fixed it.

I mean, if we didn't go through those years of fractured self-image and abject, secretive worship of the unattainable pussy, we'd never develop a proper healthy fear and loathing of the female species, now, would we?

And then what would become of human civilisation, eh? Down the fucking gurgler, mate. Down the fucking gurgler.

Gotta maintain tradition.

[mstriumph]

No big deal. ....................
I'd be quite tempted to just get him a Playboy subscription. If he kept every issue, he'd probably have a valuable collection after 10 years.

....... and some of the cartoons are really funny.....

[MD]

I had a quick look through the history and it shows that he typed "free porn" into google and then surfed quite a few porn websites.

How would you approach this?

I am waiting for his mother to get home.

Add them to your 'Favorites' Saves a lot of time searching .

But seriously, the Net has raised the bar to a different level of porn since the days when every Lad nicked a Playboy from the corner dairy -and yes every lad did do that.

[sidecar bob]

Add them to your 'Favorites' Saves a lot of time searching .

But seriously, the Net has raised the bar to a different level of porn since the days when every Lad nicked a Playboy from the corner dairy -and yes every lad did do that.

And if im not mistaken, People are having a bit more fun than five minutes in the missonary once a month these days too.
Define normal for me.

[sidecar bob]

[QUOTE=Fish;929146]I'm with Jim2 on this one. Full controls and supervision on any interweb access for the kids.

Net pr0n isn't Playboy; I really don't want my son developing an obsession with anal intercourse and facial ejaculations.

It wont nesacarily develop into an obsession, but he needs to know its not warped or odd to want to poke some chick in the ass or blow all over her face. In fact, some quite like the idea.
What will fuck him up is if he thinks hes the only sicko that wants to do it.

[Krusti]

I have never been interested in porn to be honest. I haven't ever seen a porn movie but just kinda think it would be frustrating. A little liken to sitting on your bike with the keys in the igintion watching other people ride. That just me though.

I like that.... very good.

[avgas]

be thankful he didnt search for 'pimp my ride'. He might actually find bling attractive, smut is so much better than bling

[sidecar bob]

yeah. I think we will be chatting if his mother ever makes an apperance.

I have never been interested in porn to be honest. I haven't ever seen a porn movie but just kinda think it would be frustrating. A little liken to sitting on your bike with the keys in the igintion watching other people ride. That just me though.

Cowboyz. Have you never been to a Moto GP?