All well said. And to add to this... "A Clear Head Space".
To all those that think it is a great success in taking out somebodies mirror because they made an absolute meal of their driving, and almost a meal of you... Well it really achieves NOTHING... Apart from proving that you loose your temper, yes YOUR temper easily, and retaliate by destroying property.
A better man (or woman) would be able to talk rationally with the person who stuffed up... and may even be able to influence them without yelling!
People make mistakes, it is a real shame that some make more than others. We do have to share the road with errant people... Oh, heck we may well be in that population too!
People don't know what they don't know.
KM, I'm smiling wryly here, you are 100% right.
It's the bad angels ( as quoted here also) that make it OK to retaliate.
My ones haven't won an arguement about doing something to the driver for many, many years.
Still there are those who can't, won't be educated.
A quick poke in the eye with a burnt stick? perhaps.![]()
Every day above ground is a good day!:
Was guilty of that when younger - now I'm older if it's that close I'm just happy to have survived.
When they purposefully try to run me down I tend to be a little wound up that some selected fuck stick has decided that he will willingly risk my life or health and happily live with the consequences. Having been hit before by somebody on purpose I tend not to be amused and will damage them or if they are unwilling to step out I shall damage their vehicle.Acheiving nothing I know of yet, but, knowing that said twat may think twice next time before hitting me or attempting to push me into a curb.
Mr Katman, I think that you have an overly benevolent opinion of human nature. The real world is an uglier place than you want to admit.
The reality is that most cagers are OK. Some are stupid and do stupid things. Some of which things endanger motorcyclists.Now, there is no point in retaliation against them. They are stupid and nothing is going to change that
But, there is another demographic. A small one but it exists. The demographic of malevolent bullies. Cagers who get a kick out of deliberately trying to injure motorcyclists. Yes, they DO exist, I have encountered them so have most long term motorcyclists.
Now, in my opinion , ignoring the behaviour of a cager who quite calmly and deliberately tries to kill me, and grins and giggles whilst doing it (Oh, yes, it does happen) , is a BAD thing. Acquiescing in his bullying condones it, validates it. It encourages him to think "That was fun , really scared that little shit on the motorbike, next time I'll (wait until the bike is closer before pulling out/force him even farther off the road/whatever". And, I may be able to deal with his antics and evade him. But the next time he does it, his victim is Natalie Newbie on her GN250 (he doesn't care, it's just another motorbike). And she doesn't know how to cope with it, and dies.
Such people do exist. Like all bullies, ignoring them does NOT work. It just encourages them. The only thing that such people understand is fear. Mess with a biker, and you are going to hurt. Yes, there is a risk involved. He is in a cage, I am on a bike. But that is down to me to arrange the battlefield so that his advantage is neutralised.
Ignoring the psychopaths that deliberately try to kill us (please note that deliberately, I am NOT talking about the genuine mistake or the stupid fool) is a disservice to motorcyclists in general. The price may be a newbies life.
No I am not being melodramatic.And please, do not waste all of our time by suggesting that the correct response is to call the cops. The cops will never do anything about someone trying to take out a biker. There is no point at all in involving them. teh only result is that you, the biker, will be held to be in the wrong, and the psychopath will giggle even harder.
I haven't taken off a mirror in a good many years , it's not as easy as it sounds. I have kicked a few panels in. And back in the day , I did take out a headlamp , and a windscreen. In each case , I consider my actions justified, and indeed moderate. That has to be taken in the context , of maybe half a dozen psycopaths in 40 odd years. But they do exiist.
Originally Posted by skidmark
Originally Posted by Phil Vincent
So what is your solution then?
Such people do exist. How do you propose they should be treated?
To ignore them will encourage them. And each time, their victimisation will be more dangerous.
You constantly condemn motorcyclists for having the temerity to object to people trying (quite deliberately, I'm not talking about the stupid mistake) to kill them. But offer no suggestion on how such bullies should be dealt with.
Let's hear YOUR solution, then . Put up, or shut up.
Originally Posted by skidmark
Originally Posted by Phil Vincent
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You're evading the question. Your solution ? Put up or shut up.
Originally Posted by skidmark
Originally Posted by Phil Vincent
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