Well in my honest and rather naive foreigner point of view (i really deserve compliments for this!!) I can say that I don't always understand all your posts and the way you write.
IMO it seems some of you write as they speak,I mean with your NZ accent.
Remember,I am french and english is definitly not my mother tongue.
And I am sure that some of my posts were not very clear with bad vocabulary and grammar.
But it is also true that internet, like texting some words on mobiles or others,allows lots of shortcuts and others which can make messages very difficult to catch unless very clever () or used to.
Which i'm not (clever or used to).
But i also see some of your posts as i very good way for me to learn "new zealander" language as I do whish to come over and settle so you're helping me to learn quicker and be ready to deal with the "natives")
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