Name suppression - how can I get around this and out an offender legally?

[Number One]

But personally, I wouldn't be surprised if someone went "temporarily insane" around now...

I'm feeling pretty darned unstable right about now...BUT I don't want to make myself a 'criminal' either....

[riffer]

I'm feeling pretty darned unstable right about now...BUT I don't want to make myself a 'criminal' either....

Victim Support Services? Your GP? A good friend?

It sounds like you need to talk to someone. Is this possible?

[Number One]

Victim Support Services? Your GP? A good friend?

It sounds like you need to talk to someone. Is this possible?

Talking doesn't help especially as no one has anything particularly useful to tell me.

I get told the same thing...Yes, It's a big mindfuck, take care of yourselves, there is no right or wrong way to feel - yadda yadda yadda.

I'm sick to death of talking frankly...that's all we have been able to do- it's pointless and doesn't bring ANY comfort.

ALSO for this situation we are under HELP - the sexual abuse people. Clearly they are just so stretched and our situation isn't the worst most priority one going on. You have to nag for support and then you feel like you're just being a needy baby about it.

[oneofsix]

Talking doesn't help especially as no one has anything particularly useful to tell me.

I get told the same thing...Yes, It's a big mindfuck, take care of yourselves, there is no right or wrong way to feel - yadda yadda yadda.

I'm sick to death of talking frankly...that's all we have been able to do- it's pointless and doesn't bring ANY comfort.

Victim support via KB, now there is a novel idea.
Well if there is no right or wrong way it could be a choice between spray or petrol can
don't forget the temporary insanity plea.
Hang in there, keep talking.

[Banditbandit]

This could be important. Isn't there a legal option where if further charges are pending name suppression is continued so as not to bias a jury if one is required. You really do need a legal eagle but they don't like to commit themselves, they prefer loopholes.

Yes, if there are further chaerges and he will plead Not Guilty and a jury trial, t5hen that's a reason to continue name supression so as not to bias a jury ...

But again, name supression will be lifted once the trial is complete ... as there are no further reasons to continue supression ...

[Number One]

Yes, if there are further chaerges and he will plead Not Guilty and a jury trial, t5hen that's a reason to continue name supression so as not to bias a jury ...

But again, name supression will be lifted once the trial is complete ... as there are no further reasons to continue supression ...

Victims rendered powerless and gagged!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[Scuba_Steve]

Talking doesn't help especially as no one has anything particularly useful to tell me.

I get told the same thing...Yes, It's a big mindfuck, take care of yourselves, there is no right or wrong way to feel - yadda yadda yadda.

Well there's ya prob your talking to the wrong people screw all that feel good shit, I'll tell ya straight "buy a car" it solves all probs.

(I take no responsibility for any retarded decisions come about through my advise)

[Number One]

I'll tell ya straight "buy a car" it solves all probs.

(I take no responsibility for any retarded decisions come about through my advise)

I have a car - why the fuck would I want another one?!

Tell me to buy a gun and I may consider that...offer me phone numbers for gang prospects...yes that might be good too...talking schmorking...there just aren't any words

[phill-k]

I have a car - why the fuck would I want another one?!

Tell me to buy a gun and I may consider that...offer me phone numbers for gang prospects...yes that might be good too...talking schmorking...there just aren't any words

Actually I just remembered...he's a KB member...not a frequent one at all but he's here. NOT that he will read this - he is not allowed to own or work with computers again.

Over the years our media have gone to court to argue the merits of name suppression and have the legal teams to fight for it.
I'm assuming you are actually related to what has gone on (first person account) what about getting in touch with one of the main stream papers, in the mean time record the whole situation "on paper" so that you have clear in your mind the facts, as you have stated the offender lives near a park ect this indicates that potential further offending could occur the media may step up to the plate for you.
From what I've read you have a son involved in any action you decide to take first think of how it will effect him - please.

[Usarka]

Tell me to buy a gun and I may consider that...offer me phone numbers for gang prospects...yes that might be good too...talking schmorking...there just aren't any words

Apologies if this is the namby pamby sort of crap you've been listening to but - I reckon some people don't respond to talking type therapies too much, and sometimes stopping thinking about things for a while can help otherwise the anger self perpetuates if there is no outlet or "answer" (i take back the booze advice). I find daily exercise a great way to clear the head for a while and to mentally get away from things for 1/2 hour or so.

[Number One]

From what I've read you have a son involved in any action you decide to take first think of how it will effect him - please.

That is the only thing that is currently staying my hand......

[Number One]

Apologies if this is the namby pamby sort of crap you've been listening to but - I reckon some people don't respond to talking type therapies too much, and sometimes stopping thinking about things for a while can help otherwise the anger self perpetuates if there is no outlet or "answer" (i take back the booze advice). I find daily exercise a great way to clear the head for a while and to mentally get away from things for 1/2 hour or so.

It's been weeks and weeks of using all those coping strategies....they have done fuck all for me, my boy or my husband.I know the offender hasn't been further traumatised though...he believes there is nothing to apologise for! What does that tell ya

[MisterD]

What does that tell ya

That his kneecaps should be in kit form by now?

[Scuba_Steve]

I have a car - why the fuck would I want another one?!

Tell me to buy a gun and I may consider that...offer me phone numbers for gang prospects...yes that might be good too...talking schmorking...there just aren't any words

Hey cars explode, have "accidents" that can involve pedo pedestrians & I'm sure your local initiation gang would be more than willing to help out by stealing your car & having an "accident" with a pedestrian

[riffer]

Please be careful. The things you're starting to post are getting very very close to breaching the suppression order now. Try and keep from posting facts about the case so as not to influence any judge into thinking "he's suffered enough".

If it's any consolation they don't take kindly to kiddiefiddlers in Rimutaka. One possible thing you could consider is waiting until the perpetrator goes to jail, then visiting him and screaming at him about his crime in front of the entire room exactly what happened and how you feel about it.

Things will happen quite quickly from there... they can't segregate people all the time.