
Originally Posted by
jazfender
... What else do you turn to when you are raised in an environment without hope?And it was just an expression.
That's impossible to answer without actually knowing them....
You make two good points here, and as another poster said, for most or many their parents couldn't care less about what they are up to.
Many of these kids grow up in an atmosphere of selfish irresponsibility, drunkenness and violence and are never given the time and attention they need with guidance for growing up successfully. Very few parents of even basically good kids think to teach consequences and outcomes of decisions the kids make.
Children need love and nurturing from birth and by 5 years old their basic personality is very much set. By 14, they are firmly established with their values and beliefs and behaviour. It takes intensive interest and persistent effort to turn such ones around and NZ simply does not have the human resources to do so for the thousands of wayward kids.
Get them alone and you can usually talk to them if you show an interest in them, it is possible to defuse the pack bravado too, if you approach them right. However, the worse their behaviour, the more likely they are going to be attacked by adults who are rightly fed-up with them. We are going to see more vigilante action and violence by homeowners against these kids.
Go into the schools and notice how the five year olds relate to their teachers, and you'll see one or two in a class with no feelings of respect or moral values at all. The poor teachers are tearing their hair out trying to engage the parents in meaningful conversation and to offer advice about child-rearing. With years of experience in early childhood education, my wife and I are constantly amazed at how ignorant many parents are and we shudder to realise their kids are going to grow up and take over. But you cannot tell the parents anything, they are defensive and anti-advice in the extreme!
You don't get to be an old dog without learning a few tricks.
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