I don't know if it's a significant factor. Radical differences in core beliefs or behavioural ideals doesn't sound like starter, too much amunition for an eventual contempt. Neither does perfect agreement on all fronts sound particularly attractive. The whole language is too fuzzy to define romantic concepts of "compatibility" accurately. For me, it seems the usual "difference" is a good start. Throw in a healthy dose of respect and a willingness to go beyond half way and maybe you've got the makings.
Go soothingly on the grease mud, as there lurks the skid demon
From the couples I've seen, there must be an agreement and compatibility in worldview, values and some of the things that are non-negotiable.
Variety at the surface level eg, interests, hobbies etc give the relationahip colour, but the core beliefs of both people need to be the same.
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"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke
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