Well what a very interesting topic of conversation.
In my teens it was all about experimentation and learning a few techniques for later life. To be honest I was very lucky and I wa living with a 32y/o biker when I was 19 and he was very experimental and taught me A LOT!!
In my 20s it was all about the meaningful relationship but sex was still up there as a major part of it. I was having a discussion with a male friend in his 20s the other day and was advising him about how I perceived women of his age based on my own experience. To be honest in my 20s I went for the guys who treated me like shit, but were hot in the sack. I LOVE SEX and I guess I am like a bloke in the wanting it 24/7. However........
In my 30s I wish that I had kept hold of one of the good guys from my 20s, noone in particular but just a guy who knows how to treat women. I am not into one night stands but never judge anyone who is. Sex is still BLOODY important to me but a good guy and a nice relationship to go with it is what I would really like. I will always be a horny goat and if I can find a guy who can keep up with me and who wants a committed relationship then bingo.
I think that women are becoming far more sexually liberated and that the demands of a successful career and taking women away from relationships and many women are going for the sex no strings because they have enough responsibility in their vocation without having it at home. I don;t know how others in their 30s feel about this, this is only my perspective as a 34y/o woman.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
Running over the same old ground.
What have you found? The same old fears.
Wish you were here. QWQ
Agreed but dunno if youve read the whole thread. Its not about one night stands at all that was just a side note that people flew with. Im talking about from what I see with my friends and other women over 30 is that they think more like men (cept grahemboyand all of a sudden find themselves more aware of the sexuality of the opp sex and in general think of sex purely just for sex, and men as sexual objects,more than any other time in their life. Notice THINK not act.....Now mom says you peak at 40.....Im just curious about other women and their experiences. As for the last comment you might be onto it. They have had so much responsibility and pressure from school and jobs etc its really (around 30) the first time everything settles for them............hmmm Ill pass that on again next Sat and see what the word is.
that wasnt a very bikernympho statement, hope your not losing your touch on getting the KBer womens heckles up!
By the way how was your Beers last Friday?
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Well I guess 'if you can't beat them join them'.
I enjoy sex with the right person, not just cause it is sex......I think it can hide relationship issues and I prefer my partner to be my best friend first so that sex is more enjoyable.....you know when you can laugh about sex when doing it if that makes sense...............
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