Need ideas for really special dates

[Motoracer]

Pack a picnic in a chilli bin, include a rug, ground sheet etc and have her come down and join you... go for a hike and happen across the cave, get the stuff out and have a picnic on the side of the mountain.

Pack a card and/or something she can take away with her. Homemade is good, something personal, that reminds her of you, and let her know how you feel... in writing. I bet she'll keep that for the rest of her days.

Same approach applies to a day at the beach, or maybe hiding something under/near a doc hut/other facility...

$$$ ain't where it's at... show her how you feel, and put the effort in,

She's got a season pass but I am so broke that my phone is going to get disconected soon and I get people sending me all kinds of mail with bills I can't pay. But the beach thing like everyone else is saying sounds the go. Any special spots anyone like to let me know about? You can PM me if its a secret and I won't tell a single soul.

Her main pressie is going to be a wicked painting. Doesn't cost me anything extra cause I've already got all the equipment I need. All I need to do is put a bit of effort and time into it.

[boomer]

if you cant afford hair remover use scisors & a razor ( discard said razor after operation ).


another money saving idea by McBoomer

[Karma]

Even if I never see her again, I bet you I'll still live in her memories and she'll live in mine.

Brilliant.

Is this the bit where Celine Dion starts singing?

[Motoracer]

If she is keen on the outdoors mate, I know you are into MTBing so you could take her out to Woodhill during the day...you can borrow my softtail GT if you want, then afterwards head off for an evening dinner and a couple of wines somewhere at a beach by candellight (fires are illegal at most places) then off for a few drinks somewhere afterwards.

Cheers for the offer man, She's got a MTB too.. Will keep in mind

Read The Book.
You could take her for a sedate (for you) ride around the East Cape. Fires on the beach wouldn't be a problem out there, and the isolation is awesome. Pack a tent and sleeping bag, and hope it's warm.

Will do man. Gotta read the book! Just so overloaded with assignments ATM! Nice ideas..

Waitomo caves. Coromandel, Waiheke Island.... something memorable.

Waiheke Island sounds good...

it doesn't have to be big bro......

had a awesome chick friend of mine tell me once the ingredients of a perfect date....well to her anyway......

1.FUN
2.thought-full-ness
3.FUN
4.relax situation [as in no expectation of how things happen]
5.FUN
6.memorable
7.FUN
8.flexable [as in not planned to the exact detail of how things "SHOULD" happen]
9.FUN
10.good food

Ps: why not go to germany with her?

Cheers for the pointers Poos! Goodies there. Except for the Germany trip. Can't afford it! Hello? lol Maybe someday though.. I could catch up with heaps of my mates in Europe then...

[MattRSK]

*rubbing his thumb and forefinger together*
Mr. Pink: Do you know what this is? Its the world's smallest violin playing just for her!

[Motoracer]

Brilliant.

Is this the bit where Celine Dion starts singing?

That's the bit that makes me the sorta guy that I am, which then opens up doors to various perks, like making love to a hot German woman.!

[MattRSK]

Cheers for the pointers Poos! Goodies there. Except for the Germany trip. Can't afford it! Hello? lol Maybe someday though.. I could catch up with heaps of my mates in Europe then...

If you really were into her you would build yourself a raft and float there.

[MattRSK]

That's the bit that makes me the sorta guy that I am, which then opens up doors to various perks, like making love to a hot German woman.!

[Karma]

That's the bit that makes me the sorta guy that I am, which then opens up doors to various perks, like making love to a hot German woman.!

Each to their own... personally I'm too cynical to give a shit. I'd grab a bite to eat, wish her well, then fuck off back to work... but then again I don't have sex with many hot german women...

Oh yeh... and real men don't call it 'making love'... but I won't hate you for being a metro.

[Motoracer]

Blowing my own trumpet... LOL That'd be if I told everything that I've left out, due to its irralavance to my genuine question in my first post and modesty. N/M This thread isn't about that. Chur!

Each to their own... personally I'm too cynical to give a shit. I'd grab a bite to eat, wish her well, then fuck off back to work... but then again I don't have sex with many hot german women...

Oh yeh... and real men don't call it 'making love'... but I won't hate you for being a metro.

Each to their own indeed. There is a difference between fucking and 'making love'. Though, you have clearly stated that you are not the type of person who'd give a shit to differentiate between the two.

[Indiana_Jones]

Brilliant.

Is this the bit where Celine Dion starts singing?

I love you swanny

-Indy

[SwanTiger]

I love you swanny

-Indy

I love you too Indy

[Krayy]

Call Fullers to find out how much a weekend pass on the ferries would cost then you could:

1) Climb up Rangitoto (fairly easy up path or go the long way round)

2) Head out to Tiritiri-matangi for the day (nature reserve with lotsa walks)

3) Go to the Music Museum on Waiheke then a cafe in a vineyard

[Finn]

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.

[RantyDave]

the americans didnt take my green card from my passport upon my return, so essentially im trapped here.

I had that happen to me. I got to the US and immigration said "oh, they should've taken this out when you left". And that was it.

So, you want to go to the US? Go. It's no problem.

Dave