Why do you need others to stand with you? Maybe there is some value in self actualization...
I'll give you a real life example: I've got bitchin long hair and a Beard - kinda like this:
http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/gi/M...qikVttuq3x.jpg
I was once told by a GM of a company that if I cut my hair and had a shave, he'd promote me on the spot. I should point out (for relephancy) that I don't work in a customer facing capacity.
I could have kowtowed, I could have complained and "got others to stand with me" - or I could do what I actually did: Told him in no uncertain terms to get fucked and it was never going to happen.
And FYI - I was promoted less than 6 months later.
Back to the original point - if everyone is equal, then there is no reason that they require or need your help, it might be nice - but there is no imperative.
If, however, not everyone is equal - then absolutely it is right to help people stand on their feet.
And I'm saying you are trying to have your cake and eat it with your 2 semi-contradictory statements.
And here's the bonus kicker: Sometimes, if you don't stand back and let people struggle and sort it out on their own, they will never attain a level of parity (or equality if you will) with those around them.
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