Fantastic thread, ive just spent goodness knows how long reading the lot, top to bottom. So many deserved to be quoted & commented on along the way, some real humdingers.
Most of you in my personal humble opinion summed it up well.
My take on it all is with the rise in feminism (which in part needed to happen) it has made a lot of us blokes very confused & a lot of mixed messages are being banted around.
SNAG? <---- bollocks, good guys always get dumped for the asshole, every time.
I think we just need to stand tall, remember who we are & not be afraid to be that person.......you! Don't try and be someone your not or who you think she wants cause it just isn't going to happen or last.
Im a quite old fashioned these days, prefer to "date", take it slow, get to know the person first. With so many marriages falling apart something is wrong with how they are being set up, so we have to do something a little different.
No sex before marriage seems a little on the extreme side, but if not close to it I reckon.
Remove lust & love cannot be confused
Bloody hard in a small city

That's my take on it all anyway......but hey don't take advice from me, im 35 & single

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