Dating

[Disco Dan]

Then and now feelings are all completely understandable.

...and women wonder why so many men are scared of commitment. Its their own f*cking fault. They stuff up the heads of all the men... cause them to get depression and need fricking therapy... then they bitch about it. Typical.

I guess you lot all know now why im such a man whore.

[Curious_AJ]

aww, you'll heal in time disco

[NUTBAR]

How come all the blame is on us males?

I was a member of NZD for a while and the lessons you learn on that place are shocking, like the average woman has 2.5 'toys', f##k buddies are the in thing for females and to dump the guy at the first sign of romance or when feelings are shown.
Sure guys are just after a bit of horizontal bungee but woman are just as bad if not worse.

I could right a book about all the failed romantic inputs that went bad in my 30 odd years. Romance is dead because no woman wants it, so now if a woman asks to open the door for her, the only response to give is "are your arms painted on!" I'm sure someone is going to say "we want it" or "i want it" but wonder if you are the same sort that say "I'm sick of the assholes and want a nice guy" but when you get a nice guy you shit all over him and go find yourself another asshole.

It's like those joke emails that go around:
If a guy buys you flowers - he wants to get laid or has been unfaithful
If a guy buys you a gift - he wants to get laid
If a guy buys you an expensive gift - he wants a three some
If a guy doesn't buy a gift - he just wants to get laid
If a guy asks you out - he just wants to get laid ...

Or that lil comic strip:
standing there naked the lil boy says "I've got one of these"
The lil girl lifts up her dress and says "well I got one of these so can get as many of those as I want!"

you hit the nail on the head,
how true.

[Grahameeboy]

Romance? pah.... died about 2 years ago for me.

I was engaged once... she was perfect for me, everything I could ever ask for... in the relationship for a few years, I proposed... we spent months arranging our wedding, our parents both paid for all our relatives to be flown to NZ for the wedding... the day came... she never showed.

Ever since then i've been screwing anything with tits.

Far out... doesnt quite sound as bad written down... doesnt make it hurt any less though.

Geeze mate.....I know it may not seem that simple, however, she did you a favour..you could have got married, things did not work out, divorce etc......her not turning up could be the positive in all this if that makes sense.

Just need to be careful you don't hurt others whilst you screw around......

I was married 8 years, Nats was born, diagnosed June 2004, ex has an affair with her Boss within 12 months, tells me she had been thinking about it for 6 months, I had no idea as we had a lot to deal with and just associated things with her not coping and I was trying to hold things together........basically we wanted another kid but risks of SMA too high and she didn't want all that.

But it was her decision............still gives me crap.........I forgive her still (yep what a moron) and I just get on with it and enjoy my time with Nats without nagging......look at the positives....okay I believe marriage is for good but I probably could not do too much about that given the circumstances and I move on.

[terbang]

Romance? pah.... died about 2 years ago for me.
I was engaged once... she was perfect for me, everything I could ever ask for... in the relationship for a few years, I proposed... we spent months arranging our wedding, our parents both paid for all our relatives to be flown to NZ for the wedding... the day came... she never showed.

Ever since then i've been screwing anything with tits.

Far out... doesnt quite sound as bad written down... doesnt make it hurt any less though.

Jeez that sounds unfortunate, maybe she is off making someone elses life miserable now. And just a little warning, screwing anything that has tits nowdays, may turn up a few surprises...!

[Boob Johnson]

Fantastic thread, ive just spent goodness knows how long reading the lot, top to bottom. So many deserved to be quoted & commented on along the way, some real humdingers.


Most of you in my personal humble opinion summed it up well.


My take on it all is with the rise in feminism (which in part needed to happen) it has made a lot of us blokes very confused & a lot of mixed messages are being banted around.


SNAG? <---- bollocks, good guys always get dumped for the asshole, every time.

I think we just need to stand tall, remember who we are & not be afraid to be that person.......you! Don't try and be someone your not or who you think she wants cause it just isn't going to happen or last.


Im a quite old fashioned these days, prefer to "date", take it slow, get to know the person first. With so many marriages falling apart something is wrong with how they are being set up, so we have to do something a little different.

No sex before marriage seems a little on the extreme side, but if not close to it I reckon.


Remove lust & love cannot be confused


Bloody hard in a small city






That's my take on it all anyway......but hey don't take advice from me, im 35 & single

[Curious_AJ]

Fantastic thread, ive just spent goodness knows how long reading the lot, top to bottom. So many deserved to be quoted & commented on along the way, some real humdingers.


Most of you in my personal humble opinion summed it up well.


My take on it all is with the rise in feminism (which in part needed to happen) it has made a lot of us blokes very confused & a lot of mixed messages are being banted around.


SNAG? <---- bollocks, good guys always get dumped for the asshole, every time.

I think we just need to stand tall, remember who we are & not be afraid to be that person.......you! Don't try and be someone your not or who you think she wants cause it just isn't going to happen or last.


Im a quite old fashioned these days, prefer to "date", take it slow, get to know the person first. With so many marriages falling apart something is wrong with how they are being set up, so we have to do something a little different.

No sex before marriage seems a little on the extreme side, but if not close to it I reckon.


Remove lust & love cannot be confused


Bloody hard in a small city






That's my take on it all anyway......but hey don't take advice from me, im 35 & single

great post.. its insiteful whichever way you look at it, and i agree fully..

[Boob Johnson]

great post.. its insiteful whichever way you look at it, and i agree fully..

Spose a shags out of the question then

[Curious_AJ]

well, the no sex before marriage bit is a tad late for AJ here... but sex with anyone other than my partner is out of the question

[Boob Johnson]

well, the no sex before marriage bit is a tad late for AJ here... but sex with anyone other than my partner is out of the question

He He.


Really like these forums, lots of people with well rounded senses of humour & interesting posts. Who would of thought a biker forum would be so

[Curious_AJ]

KB is the ultimate in awesome... and not to mention, there are a lot of non-bikers, pillions only, and wannabe bikers here (i am of the pillion and wannabe title at the moment lolz)

and hey,this site has been used to meet people before as well.. so this thread may open up the eyes of people looking for biker dates .. ^_^

[Boob Johnson]

and hey,this site has been used to meet people before as well.. so this thread may open up the eyes of people looking for biker dates .. ^_^

*holds breath*

[Kittyhawk]

Ive never had a problem with dating.

I date classy chicks - and the owness is on me to prove that I aint there just for a shag. After that its all sweet and the good times roll.

I almost miss dating...

But yeah I can see from a chicks point of view, especially in auckland where the majority of single younger guys are sleazy twats really...

Well im not an Aucklander

You're such a devil!

KB is the ultimate in awesome... and not to mention, there are a lot of non-bikers, pillions only, and wannabe bikers here (i am of the pillion and wannabe title at the moment lolz)

and hey,this site has been used to meet people before as well.. so this thread may open up the eyes of people looking for biker dates .. ^_^

KB a dating site?.......... Only one thing I date on here, and thats my bike Storm, if I cheat on her, she may throw me off down the road somewhere.

[zeocen]

Well being of the younger (I think? 25? Young? Please?) variety I guess I still have a few yards to go before I'll become 'desirable' hehe, but I've had my fair share of insane girlies, I was always tip toe'ing around them I found... a high upkeep, if you will.

After about 4 - 5 years of no relationship, my partner now who's just shy of 6 months of being together is the best thing that has happened to me, and all I had to do was be myself. We met via me seeing a picture of her and saying "I want to meet her!" which is something I would never normally do, I'm very reserved and shy in the flesh, after an hour or so of uncomfortable silence we soon found common ground and the next date it was made official !

She is a real classic lady, she strangly loves to cook and the closest I'm allowed to helping is peeling the potatoes! She is very homely but knows how to doll herself up when the occasion arises, and can contend with the blokes in the belching department, I have to say, it's the little things sometimes. I haven't been happy like this for a while.

So fear not! If I can find an old fashioned lady with virtues, values and a steady head on her shoulders at this ripe age, then shit, there must be millions out there that will pop up eventually !

When you're able to fart and trap your girlfriend under the sheets while she dies from fumes and laughter, you know you've made the right decision in meeting them.

<-- Seriously, best fucking smilie.

[Indiana_Jones]

When you're able to fart and trap your girlfriend under the sheets while she dies from fumes and laughter, you know you've made the right decision in meeting them.

Ah yes, the Dutch Oven, AJ loves that one

-Indy